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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I have going out with my BF for a long time each time are having sex he never last any longer and then blame it on me that am too wet what do we do Reply to this Question
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Well, a "too wet" vagina should actually cause him NOT to orgasm too quickly because the increase in lubrication decreases the amount of friction felt on the penis.
Some men cum (orgasm) too quick because once they get inside of the woman they start moving and thrusting really fast. That will definitely make him not last long. Another thing is they have anxiety about performance which causes some stress. The increase of anxiety and stress can also cause the man to orgasm too quickly.
Some things you can try is telling your BF to go slow once he penetrates you. By going slow, he can control how fast he reaches orgasm. Another thing is to use condoms (if you are not using them already). Condoms can help to decrease the sensitivity of the penis and help his last longer. Another option is to purchase a desensitizing cream to put on the penis just before having sex. The cream will cause a slight numbing effect on the penis which will effectively decrease the sensitivity of the penis. This can help him last longer too.
Hope this helps.
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female
reader, pgissyd  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Well Its not your fault you pleasure him so much is it???
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male
reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 this is not your fault. try getting him to wear a condom (he won't feel how wet you are) or simply go to the doctors and tell them
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