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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend dlept with guy over 2 years ago! I can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - hi there. please help me get my head around this, as its making me completely miserable and paranoid! i have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. we are really close and most of the time it is perfect. However before i met her she slept with this bloke on holiday... (156 words)

My ex and I have casual sex but I still love her. How do I get back in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age - two years ago my wife and i split up,i have now bought my own flat and doing really well,problem is i still love my wife dearly and cant get her out of my head,im a taxi driver and when my wife is out she phones me to pick her up and we end up back at my flat having sex,this ... (171 words)

My ex and I have slept together..and nothing has progressed. Does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Ex and I split 8 months ago, very suddenly. It left me devastated. 4 months later on his 30th,he was drunk, said he loved me and i slept with him. Nothing else happened. We argued as i thought he used me. We became friends again. i slept with him 4 weeks ago. I was ill with flu ... (109 words)

He broke up with me. Now he's calling. Do I give him another chance or change my number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - i met a guy back in july he seemed at the time to be everything i wanted we broke up in october he seemed to have 2 personalities one minute he seemed to be the best person i have ever known the next he was the worst. he seemed to have issues about peoples weight not just my ... (118 words)

During sex...I dry up and it's painful. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Well... I have been sexually active for about 4 years. I didn't start enjoying sex until about a year ago. I now LOVE sex. I don't mean that I have sex with every guy I see, but when I am in a committed relationship, I can't get enough. Most of the time I stay really wet ... (165 words)

Worried I'm too tight for sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

- hi, bit of an embarassing question but recently me and my boyfriend have tried having sex but im too tight and cant even get anything in! so i tried stretching myself with my fingers, so far i can fit them all in fully individually but im more worried that my hymen is still ... (94 words)

I cant see him leaving his wife so do I stay with him? or do I end it now? i

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age - i have been having an affair with a married man for 5yrs, we were friends well before we were lovers,i knew he didnt love hes wife, and was and still is unhappy at home,he tells me he hasnt had sex with her for yrs?i dont believe that for a moment,hes dad is suffering from ... (130 words)

How do I persuade my bf to move in with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey there, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship seems perfect most of the time, however, he doesn't seem to want to move in with me and he doesn't talk to me at parties til he's drunk and inarticulate. I would like him to move in with me. If i ever ... (191 words)

He says he'll make more of an effort but I'm not sure...stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of nine months and I broke up on new years day. We didn't spend New Years Eve together as he had the opportunity to go to Amsterdam for free with his brother's band. On New Years Eve I spent ages trying to call him as I had no reception in the cottage my friends ... (568 words)

I have issues with how I look that are making me paranoid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - ive got really bad self esteem issues but i dont know what to do about them. I hate myself so much that the only part of me that i can look at in a mirror is my face and even then it has to be in dark lighting and from the front view. i hate the look of my face from the side. ... (121 words)

Sweet twenty and only been kissed twice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi ive got a really embarrassing problem. im almost 20 and have only kissed 2 people and have only slept with one and that was 3 years ago!! i work in a nightclub and quite often get told im attractive but i think its only because they have been drinking. IF a guy does approach ... (95 words)

Will I get a chance to meet her again? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Last summer, this girl came over and she flirted, and we played tennis at the local park. But she was a real tease with other lads, but I really thought we had a connection - and wish I had asked her out, like I was thinking Because she just randomly came to me, but ive seen ... (93 words)

Developed feelings for my supervisor at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey this may not sound like a big problem but to me it is. i started my job a little over a month ago now but ive developed feelings for my supervisor and cant get him out of my head. i have no idea if he feels the same way and i want to approach him about it but im worried he ... (94 words)

Is my ex messing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have a ex who i still care for,does he care for me or am i jst a toy i dont know.I cant seem to understand him when hes drunk he loves me and never wanted me to move and we will text all day then like nothinghe wont answer me back for days or nothing then out of the blue its ... (73 words)

Mistakenly told a friend I really like I loved her. She's distant to me now. What can I do to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I met this girl a couple of months ago and we became good friends quite fast. She really likes my friend although he doesnt like her back. Anyway I ended up drunk a few nights ago and told her on the phone i loved her. Now I apoligised to her she said its okay but she seems a ... (96 words)

Been told by others he's unfaithful. He denies it. Do I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - am a 21 year old lady. i have a boyfriend who i was told that he has been unfaithful by several people. when i confronted him about this he denied it and told me the person who told me is out there to ruin what we had and he really got worked up about it and created a scene due ... (128 words)

We're at a crossroads in our relationship. Should I end it or carry on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I am currently in a relationship that I have realized needs to either go forward or come to an end. We have been together a little over a year. We just recently discussed breaking up and at first, he was wanting to break up as well. After talking a little while longer, he told ... (181 words)

I want to date him, but am afraid it will not work and will be awkward afterwards. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I was confused and hoped someone could help. Recently a friend I had had admitted to me that he liked me and wondered what I felt about him. We haven't been friends long (like 3 months) and I said I'd just like to be friends for now and we could see if it led to naything ... (313 words)

He lives far away now and I feel we're growing apart. How can I show that I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for just over 2 years but recently he moved away because of work (temporarily). i will get to see him once a month, thats if im lucky- this is making me really depressed. it feels like hes on the other side of the world and even tho we talk on the phone i ... (112 words)

I don't find their jokes about our age difference (18/25) funny!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and (hopefully) responding! I’ve just been feeling a bit down lately. I’m 18 years old and for the past 10 months I’ve been in a great relationship. We were close friends for a while beforehand, but the entire time I ha... (329 words)

I'm 18, she's 23. Would it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Okay so im an 18 year old guy who is very interested in a 23 year old girl. We get along really well and theres never a dull moment when we are around each other. Being that there is a 5 year age difference, would it work ? ... (48 words)

I'm prepared to do anything to get her back. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - hi, just wondering if anyone out there has any advice to get my girlfriend back? we had been 2gether 10 1/2 years (engaged for 5) and i thought everything was fine, geting on as normal etc. then out of the blue 2 weeks before xmas she told me she loved me but wasnt in love wi... (366 words)

He lies continuously and cheats on me. Why do I put up with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have been involved with a man for 7 years. When we met i was 21 and he was 35, married with 3 kids.(he did get divorced), supposedly for me. over the years he has lied and cheated, yet he says that i am the only one he really loves and would consider spending the rest of his ... (347 words)

Should I break up with him or give him a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I asked a question on here before. But it changed. Ok the boy i liked who i thought liked someone else is now my boyfriend. One problem. - I'm free next sunday but he's out, and he's free on saturday but i'm out. - I like him alot, very much so alot but i'm worried ... (118 words)

Why do I kiss and hug my bf in my imagination and not in real life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - heyyy its weird. im 16 and i always imagine i have a lovely b/f that treats me really nicely. i imagine that we are kissing and cuddling and i sometimes even kiss my hand pretending its him. is this abnormal? and also now i have a b/f since 2day! lol. i dont really feel im... (100 words)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

This question has 198 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

age - Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November he started coming home at 3am each... (355 words)

Is it ok for a teenage girl to watch porn? I want to stop..help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

- Is it ok for a teenage girl to watch porn? Because ive noticed many guys do but i dont know any girls who watch it. I wanna stop but i cant. help.... (35 words)

I can't stay wet, no matter how much lube we use. Any advice on how to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - i have a sex problem with me.For like over a year i havent been able to stay wet..like at all we have to use so much lube and even then we have to use more..i try to let my bf know that its me not him but its hard for him to believe me.is it cause we are not happy or could it ... (66 words)

I'm torn between my current bf and my ex? Who should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Torn between two loves but which one is the better one for me. im 20 and have been in a 2year relationship.i have no ambition to have sex its like its a chore for me,with the guy i am with. Yet with my first love we dated like 6years ago and still talk all the time..And yes i ... (220 words)

I'm 16 and want to get married. Is there any way to bypass parent permission?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend live in kansas. im 16 and i want to get married to him. the only way to do that though is if i have parent permission. i know my parents wouldnt like the fact that i want to get married at this young of age. is there anyway to bypass parent permission? the ... (138 words)

Feel I'm not the love of his life, and maybe his ex-wife was...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I've been living with my partner for a year and a half and we've been together 3 and a half years. He was only married 2 years (no kids) when his partner said she was having an affair, however she took about 6 months to move out and in that time he met me. He was working i... (425 words)

We were talking marriage and kids - then he broke up with me. Three weeks later he has a new gf! I'm sick over it. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - hi i am in need of some help and advice !! my bf split up with me by a txt msg after 2 years and has never told me why our relationship was not completely perfect as he never had time for me in his life we only seen each other about 3 times a week and everybody used to tell me ... (345 words)

I have feelings for my father's stepdaughter and I wonder if she feels the same way. How can I find out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - Ok, I have fallin' for a girl and it involves circumstances a little out of the ordinary. My father became remarried to a woman about 7 or 8 yrs ago. This woman already had a daughter from a previous marriage. Her daughter wasn't an adult when they married, but now she is. ... (194 words)

When I masurbate, I always fantasize that I am the man-is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi guys and girls!! Well I am a bit embarassed to be putting this on here as it is a very personal thing, and hope that some people can give some constructive advice. Or reassure me that I am relatively normal...if there is such a thing!!! Thing is when I masurbate, I nea... (182 words)

How do I end a relationship with nice girl in the least hurtful way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - How do I end a relationship with nice girl in the least hurtful way? I have been in a relationship with a girl for some months now but I want to end It. There are 2 issues that complicate this. 1) Ive developed feeling for another girl, she has told me she has the same... (188 words)

Relationship troubles! Do I talk to him, dump him, or stay with him and act like nothing happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

- Thank you to everyone, who was helped with my last promblem, My Boyfriend, Text me to say that he hasnt been able to text me because he ran out of credit and couldnt afford to put anymore on, he hasn't emailed me because he hasnt been to his dads in ages and the home phone has ... (188 words)

I'm pregnant and it will be financially very hard for us to have a third child. My bf said he wouldn't leave me, but he would be angry if I didn't get an abortion. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, Im new here and i was just looking for some help. Iam 20 and i already have 2 children one 5 and one almost 2.. i just find out im pregnant and i thought i knew what i was gonna do (abortion) but now im not sure... my boyfriend has always been there for me but he says that ... (137 words)

I have feelings for my second cousin. Are there dangers in a sexual relationship with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Im 16 and have strong feelings for my second cousin, we have been really good friends for a long time and on haloween we kissed. Over christmas we spent alot of time together although she has a boyfriend. I want to know if theres anything wrong with what we are doing, and the ... (58 words)

My wife sends dirty text messages to guys on her phone..and she won't stop! What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age - I found 5 dirty text messages on my wife's work phone from another man she meets now and again on her job as a delivery person, 1 message read: "Man marries deaf girl. He says we must work out a code if I want sex I will stroke your left breast. u reply by pulling my penis on... (438 words)

I really, really hate seeing my ex around anywhere. Is this typical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi! I had a question with my break-up. It happened a month ago and I'm pretty sure I'm over it... but not completely sure. I still see her in the school hallways somtimes and I hate it. I NEVER ever want to see her again. Is this typical? I wasn't sure if it meant that I was ... (82 words)

We got back together after he split w/ me - then I cheated on him. Is one more try at our relationship even worth it at this point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years back in August. We split b4, last October 2005, as he wanted a break and liked someone else. I found someone else he came running back, I then didn't want him! 3 mths later and I started thinking about him all the time so ... (401 words)

His ex is pregnant and there are rumors that my bf is the father! I want him to stop talking to her so much, but he says I have trust issues and gets angry. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'm thinking of ending my three months relationship. My bf and his ex are always talking on the phone together. He finished with her 2 yrs ago and she is engaged to another. Her soon to be husband is thinking of leaving her because he isnt happy that my bf is always calling, ... (188 words)

She dumped me, so I sent flowers but she didn't respond. I'm now not contacting her - is this my best chance to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age - My partner dumped me just before xmas. I desparately want her back. At first I phoned and sent flowers but got no response, so now I'm doing the no contact thing. I've only lasted 10 days so far and it's hard. Has anyone got any views on this and can it work? Incidentally we ... (80 words)

He texted another girl saying he loved her. He gave me excuses, should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three years text another girl saying he loved her. When i confronted him he said because it was new years eve and she lives in another country he just wanted to show he cared. Should i believe him?... (41 words)

I broke up with my bf to be with someone else. But now I feel like my ex treated me better. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Hi i've been in a realtionship with my ex for two years and then we broke up because my feelings for him changed. And i met someone else and i told him about this guy and that i wanted to get to know the other guy better.At that time i felt that if my feelings for my boyfriend ... (302 words)

When my gf and I are together, she calls her male friend to join us. And when he's around, she pays more attention to him than me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I'm dating a lovely girl but I fear she could be hung up on someone else! I've been dating a girl for 2 months and everything seemed to be going great. When I'm with her she's thoughtful, very affectionate in and out of the bedroom. for the first month I felt like things were... (333 words)

He refused to tell me why our relationship didn't work out for him. He also totally changed his appearance after our break up. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I am feeling very down. Perhaps partly post xmas blues, but made worse by the fact I like someone still who I don't think wants me. I am 25 and xmas has been good with all my friends etc. I was seeing a guy perhaps I should not have got involved with, as the w... (387 words)

When speaking of her ex she said "That was the life I should have had." She also secretly met with other men. How can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My relationship with my girlfriend broke up just before Christmas. She was unable to let go of a relationship she had with her violent and abusive ex. I objected to her seeing him as I felt that it was derogatory to our relationship. A friend of mine saw them out together, when ... (291 words)

We fell in love again, but I think we moved too fast - he even talks of selling our new house and moving back to his home country with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Hello there! I have written before so some of you may recognise the outline facts but any help would be so valued. I have a wonderful partner who was my first love when I was 16. He left Australia to come back to the UK a year ago, which happened because we met the previous... (403 words)

He wants me to move back to his home country until his next job location is confirmed. That's not what we agreed on. He makes my values seem so unimportant. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'm 26 and I met my boyfriend of 6 months while he was on work in my country. He's 34, and is moving to another country for his next assignment. We have decided that I will go with him once his job is confirmed. Now he wants me to go back to Spain (his country) until his job ... (136 words)

My friend is cheating on her boy with her ex... and getting us involved in her lies!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My friend is cheating on her b.f. with her ex. She's been telling everyone (including me) a whole bunch of lies just to keep both the guys. She's used mine and another female friend's names everywhere to cover her a**. Now her b.f. thinks badly about me and the other girl. He ... (116 words)

I thought he didn't care, so I cheated. He's giving me a second chance but things aren't the same! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - what do you do when you love someone so much but you feel like they dont care and then you cheat on them then you reaize you did the biggest mistake of your life. he finds out but he gives you a 2nd chance but he is hurt and cant forget he doesnt act the same way but he still ... (71 words)

I'm 17, he's 16. My friends put me down for liking someone younger!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey guys theres this guy that i like, he also really likes me. however im 17, and his 16 and my friends wont stop putting me down because they think the guy should never be younger even thought its only 1 year. I know u shouldnt listen to other people but its really hard whe... (71 words)

I'm 16 and he's 22. My parents don't know about our relationship - do we need permission from them to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i am 16 and i am deeply in love with a 22 year old man. we havent had sex yet and dont plan on it anytime soon. its crazy how much we love each other. he has made me so happy. we are engaged, but want to get married. my parents know nothing about this relationship. what should ... (81 words)

My husband thinks about three things (in this order).... Sex, Food and Action Films. Nothing else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - How can I persuade my husband to help me with the house work. Most of the time (not always) He's kind to me until we have sex. He smiles, talks to me with sweet words,etc. But after we made it, he just sit on the couch and watch TV, no matter if I'm there or not. sometimes I ... (214 words)

He told me to be more controlling... then he went quiet on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I Need help..well me n my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and hes always been pretty quiet.i would always have to think of things to talk about n what not..i love him and he tells me he loves me but just a few weeks ago he told me he wants me to be more controlling ... (190 words)

He believes in "mates before dates"...

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3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Im 16 but pretty mature for my age and i have had boyfriends a few years older than me and so i have been treated good. At the moment im going out with some1 and hes 18.. hes a real 'bloke' sort of guy and he has lots of friends. he has told me that if i breakup or come ... (143 words)

We broke up with her and seeing her talk to other guys really hurts. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Me and my gf went out for 3 months and she was the best thing that ever happen to me and she broke up with me and ive been so hurt for more then a month and me and her go to the same school and i just have too many good memories of her and i cant get over her ive tried things ... (107 words)

Nearly a year since we broke up... do I try to win her back? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

3 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been nearly a year since my girlfriend of ten years broke up with me and it is still beating me up. We had dated through college and were engaged to be married once. Up until the break up, she was the one. She was the only girl I had ever been with. I have been ... (248 words)

My boyfriend dreamed about doing "it" with another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hiya, my boyfriend of a long time has just told me today he had a dreamed about doing it with another girl, a girl he was once with. that kinda worried me, but he assured me that he'll never do that. The girl lives abroad by the way now. so ya, it bothered me, should I be ... (63 words)

The wedding is six months away, but I'm starting to think I should end it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - my fiance and i have been together for four years and he moved to a new state to live with me. we were so in love when we met, but lately i have been dissillusioned with him and how lazy he is. he doesn't do chores, he's cheap, and i'm starting to think i should end it. the ... (65 words)

We cry all the time b/c we live 60 miles away and rarely see each other. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - i have a girlfriend that i have not seen in almost a year, we talk a lot over the phone and have done since we last saw each other, the reason i have not seen her in nearly a year is ecause she lives 60 miles away, we love each other very much but both of us cry for each other ... (82 words)

He says he's learning to prioritise between me and his ex-wife and kids... I feel he's lost his spark and changed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

3 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Would really appreciate some advice on this, especially from any men out there! I met a guy last September and we hit it off immediately. We are in the same industry, we like the same things and I really thought I'd found someone special. We laughed about how simila... (1201 words)

My guy friend is so controlling - he keeps wanting me to harass the landlord about things I don't care about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age - Ok, I have arelationship with a man friend and he always has been controlling. I recently moved to another place and he comes to visit regularly. He has a habit of staying close to the windows and complaining that the windows are drafty, that it is cold in my apt and that I ... (206 words)

He lives far away from me. How on earth do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - So to be blunt, how do you go about asking someone if they'd be willing to try a LDR? I met this guy two years ago (in person) and we had lots of fun hanging out, so we exchanged addresses and e-mails and all that, and for the past 1.5 years we've gotten really close and... (177 words)

After six years, the sex has stopped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years and when it comes to makeing love there isnt time for that we only have sex what can i do to help spice things up so he.ll make the first move... (39 words)

He has a committment problem. What can I do to change this?!

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3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - ok, when i last asked a question, i was told i wasnt being explicit enough, so heres the whole sorry tale. im 22, hes 45. we fell in love with each other after having had a purely sexual relationship for about 9 months and have now been seeing each other for 3 years. i never ... (359 words)

She's meeting another guy 1 to 1. I'm really uncomfortable with this. Should I tell her not to meet him?

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3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hey, I've been dating this girl I really love for about 4-5 months now. We had a few problems about her hanging out with other guys because I really don't feel comfortable about it. We really love each other but I just don't feel comfortable with other guys around her. It's not ... (122 words)

Did I do something wrong? Please help me.

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3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Ok so theres this guy(18) and he said he liked me and was interested in me. We've been talking for about two months now and everything was great but on Christmas he seemed kind of mad and then he stopped talking to me.He hasnt said one word to me since.The problem is I have no ... (99 words)

Feel slighted by my girlfriend's attitude to who paid for this "family" meal!

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3 January 2007 (M) - Some opinions please. I feel very slighted by the following situation. My girlfriend asked me if I wanted to join her for dinner with her younger cousins. This was my first time meeting everyone but her sister ... So, besides her little cousins, there was also: her sister... (184 words)

Could I have conceived even though I'm a virgin... ?

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3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - So the other night, my boyfriend and I fooled aorund, He "got off" Than He wiped his hands off, and we sat up and talked for about 45 minutes, than we started messing around again,and he fingered me, Can I be pregnant? Even If Im still a virgin?? ... (48 words)

I want to be friends with this guy but don't think I can do it if he carries on being so daft!

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3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - im with my boyf..and this guy i am going to write about is with a girl too. thing is, im happy with my boyf, and the other guy is tottally happy with his chick. me and 'the guy' have been friends for a really long time now. at first he was my boyf's mate, bu i can safley say me ... (268 words)

I sometimes twitch... why?

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3 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Well I got a big problem...Sometimes outta the blue i just twitch or like bite at the air is it normal or do i have a some odd probelm like ADD or something... (37 words)

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

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3 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a quick special trip for her bir... (893 words)

Is something wrong with me? New years was horrible. I spent 2 hours of it crying.

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3 January 2007 (M)

- I had a crap new year. I didn't want to be at home with my parents (I'm 18) but I wanted to go to a party. There was one party that I heard of but it was invite only. I went to a friends house (just 3 of us) and it was depressing. I left and spent about 2 hours crying because ... (107 words)

I really like her but I don't know if she really likes me back! I need to know.

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3 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Happy New year everyone. I met this girl at a Halloween fancy dress party 2 months ago. She is a friend of a friend, we hit it off straight away, we talked and we danced, nearly the end of the night we kissed, we swapped numbers. A few days later we met up for a coffee, sh... (621 words)

How do I do a handjob properly?

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3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Ok so my dillema is to do with handjobs. I don't really know how to do one. I have tried to look it up on the net. Haven't found anything too conclusive. Any advice or websites with diagrams or other knowledge?... (41 words)

I need help knowing how to introduce him to my parents. I really want it to go well.

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3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hello Me and my ex were together about 2 years ago for 3 month but it wasn't working out due to me working away at the time. The other week I sent him a birthday card saying if he wanted to be more than mates call me, I was so happy when he did as I still really like him.... (158 words)

Found great guy but mom doesn't approve. What should I do?

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3 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Dear cupid i am currently going out with a boy. Hes a very nice kid you know very respectful and down to earth we've almost been going out for a month now and my mom found out how old he is hes 19 and im 15 but i'll be 16 in april and my mom told me that i cant talk to him any ... (89 words)

I 'm getting a discharge and after we have sex i'm swollen the next day. Does anyone know what could be wrong?

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3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I (24) have a problem which i have never suffered with untill the last few months. Whenever my bf goes down on me, it makes me itch, sometimes more than others. And i get alot of discharge, i mean alot. It has no oder etc but its starting to bother me. And sometimes w... (151 words)

He was shaking when we made out. Am I doing something wrong?

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3 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey all!! I was making out with my new bf the other day.. and he started to shake as we were making out... was this just nerves? or was I doing something wrong? love xx... (41 words)

Does he still love. So many mixed signals, I don't know where to turn!

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3 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have asked this questions before, but I am still struggling and still crying myself to sleep....My ex and I split after a year in MAy 2006. I did not take it well as it was so unexpected and we had only spoken about marriage 7 days before. We argued after we split, but I ... (358 words)