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*enMorgan
writes: I am currently in a relationship that I have realized needs to either go forward or come to an end. We have been together a little over a year. We just recently discussed breaking up and at first, he was wanting to break up as well. After talking a little while longer, he told me that he was not sure that if he thought about not seeing me anymore, it made him upset. He now is wanting to try and work on the relationship. I have always put more into the relationship then he has and he admits that. He knows that he will have to change that if we stay together. My question is whether I should wait and see if anything changes or just end it now. I dont want to waste any more time on this relationship if it is going to end up not working out. I feel like maybe we should not be together if things stay the way they are but I am afraid to be alone again. Reply to this Question
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 I think you already know that you have lost faith in this guy. And you already know you want to end things.
It will be painful to move on but if you genuinelt can't see youeselves together in a few months then you should finish things.
Don't be afraid of being alone.
You never know whats round the corner! Make yourself busy and get out there!
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