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writes: heyyyits weird. im 16 and i always imagine i have a lovely b/f that treats me really nicely. i imagine that we are kissing and cuddling and i sometimes even kiss my hand pretending its him.is this abnormal?and also now i have a b/f since 2day! lol. i dont really feel im ready to do any of that kissing and getting off and stuff with him yet.whats going on and why do i want to kiss and hug my b/f in my imagination and not in real life?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hi there, sweetness.
You are soooo normal it's incredible. I even still kiss my hand sometimes. Hey - your hand is the best kisser you'll ever find... haha. Anyhow, if you're not ready to be kissing, you don't have to. "Rammsteinfan" was right in saying that your boyfriend might think you don't like him. Just be honest with him and tell him that you want to take it slow.
It's possible you want to kiss your hand because you're not nervous with yourself. It doesn't matter if you're a great kisser or don't know exactly how to kiss, your hand won't judge you. Neither will your imagination.
Take it nice and slow with your boyfriend, and maybe after you're comfortable with him you'll be ready to kiss him yourself. That first kiss is a little nerve-racking but so much fun. And then you can kiss a boyfriend AND your hand (and it's not even cheating! Yes...).
Good luck, sweetness. You're totally normal.
xxIndia
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reader, Miss trust +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hello,
Don't worry this is normal. The thing you have to remember is to just take it slowly and do what feels natural. If you don't feel ready for kissing then you shouldn't be pressured into doing it.
Everyone gets nervous before their first kiss...i definately did but when you know its the right time to do it, you will fell it :)
Good luck!!
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reader, theGREATEST +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hey! I think you're not weird at all.. just maybe not fully ready to do those things in real life. You should take things slow with your boyfriend and not rush. =)
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (3 January 2007):
 I think that it's quite normal...I used to do the same thing! I think that you really want to kiss your boyfriend, but you are nervous about the whole thing.
But one thing, your bf might get the wrong idea that you don't really like him by not kissing him. So be prepared for that. Once you get through the first kiss it won't be bad at all. Just don't let it go past kissing and cuddling stage, ok?
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