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writes: Torn between two loves but which one is the better one for me. im 20 and have been in a 2year relationship.i have no ambition to have sex its like its a chore for me,with the guy i am with. Yet with my first love we dated like 6years ago and still talk all the time..And yes i still do love him yet he cheated on me way back in the day with my best friend. When i moved away he told me he loved me and didnt want me to leave and all that other stuff ,but i still moved and it seems like since he said all that stuff to me i cant get my head straight. I am always thinking of him yet i do still love my bf. But me and the bf fight alot and have said alot of really really mean things..is there any hope for either of them with me? im so confused and its making me so stressed.i jst wish i could understand my feelings for them both. and my ex (first love) can only have deep conversation when he is drunk that is the time he tells me what i want to hear,can i believe drunk talk or no.thanks Sorry it was so long
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reader, Erienne +, writes (3 January 2007):
Erienne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks miss trust.I understand what you are saying and yes maybe it is time for me to trully think about it all.Yet it is so hard i am almost positive it wont work with my bf but i still try to believe it will get better...i hope.
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reader, Miss trust +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hi
you are in a very tricky situation.
Firstly i don't think it is going to work between you and your boyfriend. Although you do seem to care for each other, there is obivously no spark especially as sex is a 'chore' when it should be intimate and he only speaks to you nicely when drunk (reminds me of my ex). Its true that relationships are tricky and need to be wored at. It is up to you whether you feel this relationship can last any longer.
Secondly you are havin feelings for your ex. It was 6 years ago and although he did cheat on you, he may have changed since then. However, he may just want you back for other things, you just have to ask yourself if you really trust him or not for a realtionship to develop again between you two not forgetting your current boyfriend.
I can only wish you good luck on this tricky siutation! I hope all goes well :)
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