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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need my vibrator to orgasm! How do I introduce into my lovemaking with my bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - k..i been w my bf for years..we live together..our sex life has gone down a bit since were both working full time, don't have quite the same schedules and also because the passion and excitement of a new relationship is wearing off a bit. So here i find myself masturbating ... (229 words)

He scolds me, he short tempered and the sex is horrible! Should I just go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age - Ive had a 20+ relationship with someone and he just left his wife. At first we were suppose to get a place together and things quite did not fall into place. Now a month after his move, he's been acting different towards me. He has been very short-tempered, he scolds me for ... (78 words)

He expects me to have sex with him because he thinks I'm not a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this boy in my tutor for a while now and i've just told him and he asked me out but he expects me to sleep with him because he thinks that i've lost my virginity when i haven't. i don't know what to do :(... (48 words)

She has me soo worried! Is My Mom going to sell the condo out from under us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

- My mother bought a condo a few years ago, which my fincee and I now live in, we give her the money for the mortgage (which is in her name) since we live here. Anyway, recently we've had some money issues, the car keeps breaking down, and Shaun had pheumonia twice in 2 months. ... (351 words)

He won't finish it up with his gf for me..he says it's too complicated! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, a week ago i met up with a boy that has a girlfriend. (I've known him around 5 months). We shared a kiss and I've felt bad about it ever since but i love him and i would do anything to be with him and he says he loves me and wants to be with me and i believe him. We used ... (145 words)

Followup: Re: hockey player. It's my friend who has a crush on this player and he doesn't like her. How do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i tell my best friend that the relationship she is trying to create with this "hockey player" is an unhealthy obsession? hi... most of you have probably seen the posts on here about the girl who is trying to get in contact with the hockey player. Well she's my best fr... (108 words)

He used to allow me to cuddle him, in bed...now he doesn't! How do I get his love back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well I was with my ex for a year and 3 months, and we used to argue a lot, but i loved him so much, and he loved me, then one day he was talking to his boss at work about us, then decided to break up with me, and the next day he went out with another girl. i was heart ... (207 words)

I asked for more of a committment...now I don't see him that often. What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend finished with me just before xmas, we had been seeing each other for eight months. I was gutted but accepted it and tried to carry on with my life. Well he kept asking to meet up and everytime we did we acted as boyfriend and girlfriend, he told me he really loved ... (226 words)

I feel stupid for having this crush on my biology teacher! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya people, This is really stupid of me i am 18 and have a crush on my 34 year old biology teacher i feel like i am 14 all over again like when i had my first crush on a different teacher. I have no idea what to do :S yesterday he noticed that I'd had a hair cut a... (144 words)

He doesn't want to reconcile so how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend broke a month ago and we both made mistakes , and i want him back and i dont know how because he doesnt want to get back now , only when he forgets everything and when he is ready to start again the whole relationship. how do i get him back??... (55 words)

She said she'd call back in 10 minutes...3 days larter, I'm still waiting! What's up with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - ok well me and my girl have been having problems recently. she has become very hard to get a hold of. she would dissapear all day long to a friends house, i would talk to her in the morning and not hear from her again until the next morning. i asked whats going on she says ... (160 words)

Ladies... intimate question for you before I lose my cherry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey everyone just a quick Q for ladies out there. I'm 21 and still a virgin but see if you've been using a vibrator can this gradually wear away your hymen so that when you have sex it won't hurt? The first few times I used one i had to gradually push it in as I got wetter and ... (98 words)

His youngest daughter is four years older than me... Would it be a huge mistake to sleep with this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old high school student, and for the past three years I've been having a relationship with the 46 year old Head of Security at my high school. It started out as a friendship, and grew to be much, much more. I would like to stress that this has been an entirely ... (222 words)

He disappears on me all the time...is this just a 'fun' thing for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a month now, problem is we only hang out once a week in the evening, I dont really care what happens when I am not with him like if the relationship is going anywhere, but when we are together I forget everything, as he seems to also and we have ... (131 words)

I have love and companionship and a cosy home.. but no sex. Is it worth risking everything for a sexual relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age - I've been married 8 years, no kids. I'm in my late 40s, my wife just over 50. We knew each other for a few years before we got together romantically. It was sexy and exiting at first and I remember thinking at last here was the girl who had everything. Anyway we got engaged and ... (867 words)

How do I tell my "marry-before-you-live-together" parents that I'm outta here and shacking up with my man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

- How do you break the news to your parents about moving out, and living with a boyfriend which you dated for 1 1/2yrs? I am 23 yrs old and my bf is 25. My bf and I both work and are able to support our own living. My parents are those tradional kind who believes you should g... (101 words)

Her counsellor told her to ditch me so that she could form relationships with guys who lived nearby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend now for just over 4 months. We live both live in britian but about 4 hours on the train apart. I thought we were doing fine, a few bumps on the road mostly due to my girlfriends insecurity's. On my last visit up there we celibrated our 4 ... (231 words)

She was scared into giving him a hand job b/c he was drunk and acting belligerent, but I think cheating is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i met a girl and we started goin out, and she was the first girl i ever had sex with or feel like i loved. 3 months into our relationship i was in jail for a couple weeks. while i was in jail she wnet over to a gf's house and got drunk. there was this guy there, and he was ... (171 words)

My friends all have bfs and I'm feeling left out. How do I meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, it's quite depressing really, all my best friends have boyfriends but I don't. They spend loads of time with them and I always seem to be left out, I REALLY want one and there's loads of people I like, but they don't like me back. I really want to meet people but I dont ... (60 words)

He seems to like me, but never calls when he says he will. Is he just rusty at dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age - A man I met last month seemed to be a nice guy who was genuinely interested in me - asked questions, was attentive, tried to send business my way, etc. But several times he said he was going to call on a certain day, but then didn't, and called either a day or two later. ... (117 words)

I want to have more sex and eventually have a baby - but my husband has a VERY low labido! I'm worried and depressed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - please some one give me some advice. I am very recently married - we have known eachother for years and our sexual dinamics are definately different - i have always enjoyed sex but although I love my husband in other ways I wouldnt say we have thebest sex - in life i have ... (233 words)

He's giving me mixed signals - I don't know where this relationship is leading!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age - I meet this guy 3 weeks before christmas he pested me for 2 weeks,i gave in and starting seeing him,he is 40 i', slightly older,he has never been married,i have been in 2 long term relationships.we meet every friday and he stays at mind.he rings me about twice in the week and ... (179 words)

My cheating partner has been telling lies to the health visitor! I feel so alone. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there not sure where to start but here goes my partner has been telling lies about me to our health visitor and family she tells them i swear at her and that im verbally abusive to her which is untrue we have had our ups and downs shortly after our twins were born she be... (118 words)

How do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - How do you know if you are ready for sex? Because i want to and i feel like im ready but i have a really big problem with a fear of pain! ... (37 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me and got with another girl. But now that he's broken up with her I want him back! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with this guy for a while but then we broke up as a joint decision because I was too flirty with other guys and I have a feeling he liked someone else. Then he got this other girlfriend and moved on which hurt me. Recently they've broken up and I'm starting to have ... (71 words)

He says he doesn't have a phone. Not even a home phone! Am I right to be suspicous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago, We've already had sex probably two weeks after meeting eachother. I've been on a few dates with him, he usually calls me everyday to say hello and see what I'm up to. Well, I like him alot but the only thing that is bothering me is that he ... (143 words)

My partner is constantly on sex chat websites! It tears me up inside. But am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I practically Live with my partner been together about 4 months. He's constantly on these sex chat websites sending pictures and msgs to other people. Its tearing me up inside. He says he loves me and i believe him but this is tearing me up inside ... Am i wrong?... (50 words)

How can I leave my abusive bf w/out sparking his temper and threats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 16 months has a very bad temper. He never HITS me but does shove and pull me around sometimes. Whenever I want to leave him he cries and begs and threatens suicide. I don't want to risk him really doing it so i stay. I really do love him, it's just that I don't ... (106 words)

My bf expects me to shoulder the responsbilities at home! I'm fed up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my boy f for about 7 months. His ten year old son lives with us also and his two girls stay over once a week. We have been together for about 18mths. I knew if i moved in with him his son would live with us - and although i admit it is sometimes hard ... (519 words)

I fancy my best friend/ex bf but he's got a new girlfriend now! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well its pretty simple... I fancy my best frind who is also my ex. We went out for a few weeks in June then i split up with him. Since then he has been obsessed with me an after everything we are now best friends. But he started going out with someone a few days ago a... (83 words)

I don't know if I slept with anyone but I think I might be pregnant. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i've dug myself a hole too deep... this year i started dating a hockey player, he's a really sweet and caring guy and i loved him to death. About a week ago him and a few of his buddies were threw a party and naturally he invited me. We cranked the music, got in trouble ... (229 words)

Broke up with my girlfriend because of money issues. She said she loved me but it seemed like money was the most important thing to her.I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I hope you can help me with this, Can someone's love be so much that it depends on money? My ex-partner, destroyed everything that we built together over the past 2 years just over money issues!!! She suddenly changed her attitude towards me as soon as she realize I can’t match ... (437 words)

Girls! What foundation could I use to cover up my pimples? It's so embarrassing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - i get big spots around my chin and find them really embarasing. When i try to cover them up with foundation as it just seems to look worse, does anyone know any amazing makeup that would look like i have no spots at all or anything that would get rid of my spots? Maybe its ... (65 words)

Im jealous that my ex has someone new, I really want someone new but its not happening!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - im jealous my ex boyfriend has moved on and im still single even though it was me that broke up with him. i really would like to meet guys but since starting college and doing a child care course i havent met anyone i really thought it would be a new start and maybe a new ... (66 words)

I'm a 16 year old virgin. How do I show my 19 year old boyfriend that I'm ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 16 and i have an older boyfriend who is 19, nearly 20. I'm still a virgin and he is very understanding of that and never pressures me into anything that i don't want to do. We've been together for 6 months, i trust him with my life, and i think i'm ready to go to the ... (105 words)

The details of her cheating were a little too vivid...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - HI I found out the other day my partner is having a affair. After asking her about it she told me that it was becuse he was bigger then me and that he was white. She then told me that she loved this person but also loved me. She then went into detail how he took her in d... (90 words)

How can I help my lady overcome her jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - How can I help my lady with her jealousy? We both trust each other, and know deep down that we'd never do anything with anyone else, yet she still gets jealous if I talk to another girl. This causes a tad problem, since my girls at my job outnumber the men 3 to 1. What can I do ... (63 words)

How do I find out if they're divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age - how do i find out if someone is divorced or not... (11 words)

I have a crush on this really fit hockey player but I have no way of contacting him. Would it be wrong of me to get his email address from his coach?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy awhile back at a hockey game, we saw each other but it was through a crowd of girls (he was one of the players and he's quite popular). He smiled at me (and i know it was at me because i was the only girl standing on that side)... and i think i have a little bit ... (226 words)

Was he trying to play footsies with me? Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i kind of have this thing going for my parents friends older son... and i'm pretty sure he likes me too but were both really shy so i'm not positive. They came over for breakfast about a week ago and we were sitting across from each other. He bumped my foot with his (not sure ... (181 words)

Ive got a crush on my cousin(s) I dont know who to talk to or what to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my cousin is 16,i am 18, n i got a crush on her,.what do i do? i have some outher cousins i have crushs on too.the outhers are,17yr old.and 19yrs old. i just dont know who to talk to about this... (42 words)

Is there really any point to trying at a relationship if there is no trust ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - hey guys thanks again. i was just curious as to what u guys thought about trust. i was with a girl and we are now on a "break". and during this time she is talking to any guy that looks at her. now i hear that she "likes" one of them. if hell freezes over and she comes back, i ... (111 words)

My GF gets upset thinking im bored of her as my job is making me so tired... What can I do as I really need this job but dont want to lose her!!! ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - Sorry about the long question, but I've got to get some help with this. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now, and while we've had our ups and downs, recently we've been having an increase in arguments and fights, sometimes resulting in breaks or ... (341 words)

He said he wasnt ready for a relationship, am I wasting my time hoping he will change his mind ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf dumped me because he says he just isnt ready for a relationship and doesnt want to hurt me. Am i wasting my time hopeing he will chage his mind? And is it possiable to still be good friends, im scared ill always want more?... (46 words)

Am i too loose for my new guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

25 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so i recently started seeing a guy and we discussed having sex in the near future. I had gone down on him before and noticed that he might have been a bit smaller then my ex boyfriend(whom i had sex with before). Is it possible that my vagina is too loose for my new guy ... (69 words)

Feel I've messed up by marrying someone who was my best friend but I didn't love - I was too afraid to hurt her by breaking up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think perhaps I have made a mistake by getting married. We got together 8 years ago, split up after 3 then got back together the next year. Ever since then (4 years) I have felt that there has been something lacking: we get on fine but I don't feel I'm in love with her. ... (324 words)

She said she just now wants to be friends, but I want to give it another go, any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (?) - just before xmas i asked this girl out. she said she doesn't feel the same and she just wants to be friends now. i still love her, i talk to her everyday on msn. could i casually ask her out on valentines day? i just wanna give it another go. any ideas? we dont talk much in ... (80 words)

She said she loves me but cant be with me, as it hurts to much.. Whats going on ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

25 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with this girl for 16 months, and had just returned from a month long trip to china, and back into her arms, i slept over at her place for the next week, we fought a lot but no more than usual, we have a fight the day after i get back to my place, she asks me to meet her ... (171 words)

She said she just wants to be friends but I want to ask her out. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

What do you recommend to get rid of heavy acne? Any ideas?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

25 January 2007 (?) - i've got heavy acne. my skin is always oily. i've used tea tree oil, facial scrub's all by best companies sellin expensive products. any thing you recommend to try? also where my spots die i sometimes accidently cut my spots when shaving. this has left marks over my face! any ... (62 words)

My Ex Best Friend is sleeping on my Girlfriends floor! Trouble is they have slpt together before!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - HI ive had problems with my girlfriend for a while if you havent read my other questions then she cheated on me with my ex best friend while we were having a rough patch. Anyway things havent got much better and he is still around and sleeps over at hers occassionally even ... (161 words)