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writes: hi ive got a really embarrassing problem. im almost 20 and have only kissed 2 people and have only slept with one and that was 3 years ago!! i work in a nightclub and quite often get told im attractive but i think its only because they have been drinking. IF a guy does approach me, i get really nervous incase im rubbish because its been so long and because im really self conscious about my body so i turn them down. i dont know what to do, i feel such a freak please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emu +, writes (3 January 2007):
The best thing i'd reccommend you do is to go somewhere that's not a nightclub to meet guys. Nightclubs can be described in some cases as 'meat markets' where guys go to pick up girls to satisfy drunken urges. It sounds rough but it's the truth. If you want to meet a good guy and get some confidence i reckon you should go and start a new job or a hobby- work in a swimming pool, learn martial arts, snowboarding, bmx biking,
Try something new and the guys will come to you and you will acttually enjoy your new hobby so that you also have the confidence to decide honestly about guy's.
Don't worry about your body- if a guy is half decent he'll like you for more than just the body that you have; Don't rush into having sex with anyone, they'll actually find waiting most attractive of all.
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