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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I move on or stick it out? She said I've broken her heart... "again"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well last week my girlfriend said that she wanted to go on a break. We will have been dating for three years as of this coming Valentine's day. We have been having some minor relationship problems over the last few months but for the most part it really hasn't been that bad. ... (118 words)

My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

17 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I am 31 and have been marr... (1057 words)

My GF is always moody and depressed. She says a baby will change that. Should I give her one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

17 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, but over the past month she's been becoming more and more moody, getting very depressed saying she wants a baby. I'm only 17 and we're both going to uni next year, and I don't know if I could handle a... (137 words)

More than anything, I want a baby! How can I persuade my bf to give me one?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Right before i even say this i know your going to start going on about how young i am and how i should live my life but i dont want that i want advice, NOT a lecture thanks xxx I want a baby, I've thought about it alot and have decided that i want a baby more than anything in... (154 words)

He dumps me, refuses to see me and now...wants back in my life! Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - About 5 months ago, I began seeing this guy. We really clicked but looking back, our "relationship" basically amounted to week-end hookups with very little communication in between. I wanted more, but never said anything - just tried to go with the flow. Then he broke th... (172 words)

I have a weird lump on my vagina. Does anyone know what it might be? Is it anything to worry about?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- Im a teen and i have a weird lump thing at the back of my vagina i dont have a clue what it is but if anyone knows or experiences the same thing please tell me .... (37 words)

I'm 15 and when I orgasm a lot of semen (too much) comes out.This never used to happen before. What's going on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - hey, well me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months (im 15 shes 14). We lost our virginities to each other a couple of weeks ago. The problem was that i came really quickly, i had this problem at the beginning of the relationship when she masturbated me and then ... (242 words)

I broke up with my bf and now he has a new gf, but since then he and I have slept together. Should I remain as his 'dirty little secret'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i am in a sticky situation me and my bf broke up nearly 2 months ago, we still have really strong feelings for eachother, only problem is he has started seeing someone else now. Me and my ex bf fell out for quite sometime things were really awkward, eventually we started ... (205 words)

I really want a long term boyfriend so I don' t want a guy who just wants sex. Where can I find a guy like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys this is one for you!! I havent been shy (if you know what I mean)I have had a number of lovers though non of it was intentional. I never wanted to be used for sex but it happened. I confused sex with love to begin with then when they never got back to me I needed it t... (184 words)

I'm a Christian but I'm not a virgin. My bf is also a Christian. Do you think he'll react badly if I told him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I'm a Christian, and 21 years old, but I made a huge mistake and gave my virginity away when I was 19. I gave it away to a man who ended up being emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. Later I was depressed and didn't date anyone for awhile. I am not planning on ever ... (439 words)

Does he like me as much as he says he does? Because communication is not his strong point. He doesn't call as often as I'd like him to. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello well there is this guy we have been talking for a while, and right know he due not live in the state i live in and he says after bootcamp he want to come live in cali to be with me, he also says he likes me a lot, the prob. is that I dont think he likes me as much as he ... (132 words)

If my casual guy is happy with his gf why does he come to me for sex? It also seems like he wants more than sex. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he really happy with his girlfriend? I have been having what I thought was casual sex with a guy for a year and a half now but he has a girlfriend of 15 years. They don't live together and they never have sex. He wants to spend weekends away with me, he text messages me for ... (248 words)

I don't like anything sexual because it makes me feel dirty and I'm scared to loose my virginity. Am I normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I'm 18, I've had a boyfriend for 2yrs. We still haven't had sex. We've done some things but nothing real down and dirty. Why am I so scared of sex?! Is this normal? I'm terrified of losing my virginity to anyone. Everyone tells me it's not that big of a deal as long as it's w... (196 words)

I'm 18 and my left breast is smaller that the right breast. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my left breast is slightly smaller than the other, is this normal? Is there anything I can do to physically even them out, not with padding but the actual breast? I do girly push ups and light weight lifting to perk them, but is there a pill or exercise I can take to ... (73 words)

Should I choose Sociology or Religious studies as a GCSE subject? plz help me choose.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- i'm 14 from England, London and i'm in year 9 and its time for my GCSE options. i already know which ones i'm going to take as i really really really would love to become a lawyer, i have my career planned out already. but the thing is i hate my school because there's ... (168 words)

I'm 24 and I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I met a guy online. Any thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi how u doing i met this man online about a year ago we get on really well got the same sense of humour hes really caring when things were going wrong for me he rings me up we have talked on the phone and sent each other one pictures im just worried because we really like e... (86 words)

Why are they scared?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - why do most women fear good looking men, and refuse to go on a date with them.... (17 words)

I still love my ex even though he has moved on. I need some advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really still love my ex. He has moved on! i want to but i just cant! He treated me like dirt! he took away my virginity and then dumped me a week later! i thought it was true love. I really miss him and would do anything to get him back but i know i cant. can anyone give me ... (78 words)

I slept with him after the xmas party...but now nothing else has happened. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive fancied a guy at work for a while but didn't think he liked me until the xmas party were we got chatting and later spent the night together in his hotel room it was amazing and he said the sweetest things to me. We later found out that his friend fancied me and was really ... (119 words)

I met him through an internet dating agency and he was the ideal man... until he just disappeared off the face of the earth!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - ok, here's the deal. i recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years and a friend told me to sign up to an internet dating agency where i met an amazing guy. we exchanged emails for a week, swapped numbers and last sunday we met up for the first time and the date was lovely ... (450 words)

Define: "love triangle"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- Is there a formal definition of a "love triangle"? Wondering about possible outcomes and resolutions.... (16 words)

He's forgotten about the "little things" and I don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years. When we first started going out, he was really sweet and attentive. And now some things have really started to change. He doesn't kiss me anymore unless we are having sex, he never compliments me on anything, and ... (170 words)

He got blown by a Mexican stripper, ever since he's been scared to get intimate with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - last summer my fiance went on vacation to mexico.while he was there he went to a strip club and received oral sex from a stripper.he even ejaculated in her mouth!!!!!!!!!!after that occured he obviously told me and immediately he went to the doctor to get tested for any ... (217 words)

How do I stop being used like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- I'm completely in love with this guy, however he only seems to pay attention to me every now and then. He uses me, because in my twisted head that's desperate for him to love me too and will do anything for him, I'll do stuff on webcam for him. I know he's using me, yet I co... (178 words)

We have a lot in common and I love him thing is... we've just met! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hey everyone I got this problem ok here it goes I like this boy who is 17 and he lives in South Carolina and he called me last night and we have been dating for a day but my problem is i love him and yes we have alot in common but we just met so what should I do help yours ... (64 words)

I broke up with my bf, then he called me I was angry so I didn't pick up, So later I called him back and he blanked me! I'm so confused! What does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me about a week and a half ago. In this relationship, he has been nothing but rude to me and he treats me so horrible when I was being nice to him all the time. He was so emotionally and verbally abusive to me for the last 2 months of our relationship. ... (315 words)

Scared to confront my husband about his online chatting and possible cheating - he said he was working when the pic says otherwise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my husband for 6 yrs (married 4). He has been spending a lot of time online chatting to 1 particular woman, and just before x-mas he said he was thinking of leaving me, but that he wanted to work it out. I agreed to work things out but he is st... (123 words)

Why are my nips sore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend and i are sexually active. and im on birth control, but my birth control makes me not have my period for 3 month which is great.but these past few weeks my boobs and expecialy my nipples are so sore. i can't be pregnant but i just wanna know whats going on i ... (62 words)

Please help! My bf misinterpreted a text message and is convinced that I'm cheating on him! How do I redeem myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice. My boyfriend of two years has had a real trust problem since his previous girlfriend cheated on him, and it took him a LONG time to warm up to me, and we've finally made a breakthrough and he's relaxed with me when an old aquaintance sends me a text mes... (291 words)

How should we deal with his jealous and vindictive ex-wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - HOW to survive the jealous ex wife? what i dont understand is also that now she has a bf for the last 2 months , some doctor she has been seeing so she should move on.... not interfere in our lives or our happiness.The kids spent 2 days in 14 days with us , weekends - if th... (282 words)

Met a guy recently but I've already slept with him. I think I had sex with him too soon. I'm worried he won't call me now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I met this guy almost a month ago in a club, he had asked for my phone number but i never got his because supposedly his phone was stolen and he was going to receive a new one that same week. The next day he calls and we make plans to go out that following weekend. At last ... (174 words)

I saw some photos of my bf posing with some girls and looking quite 'chummy' with them. I honestly don't like it but am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend (21 yrs old) had gone home to his home country for a month, dec-jan, and i saw some of his pictures there with these girls, he's holding them and they're hugging him real close as in with their arms completely around him and he's holding them in a similar ... (239 words)

Bf wants his space and is reluctant for us to live together because he thinks we're too dependent on eachother. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- HI! My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months and we moved in together about a year ago, Jan 2006. It was he who suggested it. After a few months, in April, he and I thought we should move out and live separately because we'd been fighting too much. However, when it ... (337 words)

We broke up a while ago but I still have feelings for him. Do you think he feels the same for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I was in a realtionship for a year and a half. It was a serious relationship. We started as friends 9 months ago and then we had a relationship for a year and a half. Our relationship was great . However the guy was always stressed he was during his last year of universi... (198 words)

My husband died almost 2 years ago and I've become very close to his brother... would this be right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age - my husband husband died almost two yrs ago my brother in law and I have become good friends He thinks it's wierd to even think our relationship could go any futher. (what would family think...friends think..ect. ) I have know problem ( hopeless romantic) Am I wrong in wanting ... (77 words)

Do you think this guy likes me? I always catch him glancing at me.Help me, I'm getting obsessed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi all i really like this guy i don't know what to do.we don't talk but now in class when he makes jokes the whole class laughs and so do i, then he looks my way-although now i'm catching him looking my way more(i won't say at me because i can't be sure if he's looking at me or ... (122 words)

My family doesn't approve of my bf beause of his 'gangster' image. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (?) age 36-40 - hey i've got a problem here. i've been with this boy since 8th grade but my family doesn't see what i see in him am not sure if its cuz he's a gangster or what but whatever the reason i want them to like him for what he is not what he appears to be. what should i do i need ... (62 words)

She has no interest in sex aged 26...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend has no interest in sex. she's 26 yrs old. is this normal?... (14 words)

I told this guy I liked him then he said he liked me too but... later he told me he was drunk and didn't mean it! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right.. there is this lad that i have liked for a year secretly and one night i got drunk and texted him telling him..He kept it to himself but told me he didn't like me that way. A week later we were on MSN and he told me he liked me too. I was so happy. We were at school a... (147 words)

I'm with my bf but it doesn't really feel like we're in a relationship. I don't know what to do about it. Help plz

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started going out with a lad that i've known for 2 years and we used to mess about all the time,but it doesn't feel as though i'm in a relationship as he doesnt really seem bothered. I don't know what to do about it.... (47 words)

Should I come out to my rough and ready family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am bi-sexuall and crossdresser i come from an lets say an hardknock family should i come out or should i remain doing it in private... (26 words)

Bf broke up with me but says he loves me, then we got back together now but I feel that he just want companionship without commitment. Should I just forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Hi, please help. I'm very depressed right now cuz my boyfriend just broke up with me. He said that now that he's going back to school he needs to do good and that being in a relationship will just make his grades go down. I asked him why he didn't tell me this before and he ... (561 words)

Going out with a younger guy (24, I'm 33)... Do I wait until he's ready to settle or move on now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 24 and im 33 i am ready to settle down get married and have children but he says hes too young yet. What do i do time is running out for me. Do i wait till he is ready or fine someone else am i wasting my time. I dont know what to do i really love him and ... (71 words)

Worried that my pregnancy will interfere with my sister's wedding!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, My question is that I have just found out I am pregnant - it's a happy result and my husband and I are delighted! However, my due date is 2 weeks before my sister's (who is also my best friend)wedding! I feel so bad that I can not be there for her on the day and ... (132 words)

Would my man be embarrassed to receive roses at work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to send the man I love a bunch of roses, just cos im a bit of a soppy romantic and want to suprise him. However he is at work all day and so if I sent them to his home he wouldnt get them. Do you think it would be too embarrassing for him to receive them where he ... (84 words)

I find my husband-to-be an irritating little nerd... give me a wake-up call

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6490 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age - I find my bloke an irritating little nerd! Honestly, we are getting married in 8 weeks time and he gets on my nerves. He picks at my son (aged 15). States all the jobs he is 'going to do' and nothing gets done. He works shifts and sometimes we don't see each other for a couple ... (140 words)

My bf is really affectionate with me but I can't be affectionate with him due to my Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. How can I make him understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 yr old female who has been in a relationship for over 10 years. I man has always been affectionate and loves to talk. I guess he is every woman's dream. Don't get me wrong, he is not perfect. But he is close enough. The problem is me. I have always hated to talk ... (127 words)

Can guys sleep with girls and not get emotionally attached?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sleeping with a guy whos one of my friends, its been going on for a few months now, most weekends that we go out together he ends up at my house. At first i was ok about it, because i had just come out of a long relationship and it was nice to have someone there and ... (261 words)

He's asking me to chip in when I get a full time job... feel slightly put-out by this, but should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my b/f for almost 2 years. He has paid for mostly everything. I pay for things here and there but its mostly him who pays if we go to a movie or to dinner or to a bar or for take out. I work part time b/c i am a full time student. Therefore, he does have more ... (401 words)

I really need some good advice. Can you help me please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I need some serious help. I have known my ex for a very long time since 8th grade. 11th grade he asked me to homecoming and i accepted. Well after that he wanted to be my bf and i wasnt ready for a bf at that time so he walked away from me. I didnt see him til graduation n... (1514 words)

My bf was due back last month and has extended his studies abroad for 4 months w/ no explanation! I love him, but I feel I should move on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel am loosing him. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years without seeing or meeting my boyfriend, who went abroad for further studies. We have been communicating everyday by phone,mail and text messages until the for the last 3 months when he stopped ... (149 words)

There were photos of another girl on his phone. He also meets w/ his ex but says he dislikes her. I don't understand!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and his ex were together for 2 years and were engaged. before he met me, he liked this girl i have met her once. while i was with him he kept looking at her. i looked at his phone once too, and there was a few photos of her on there. he still talks to his ex, and ... (76 words)

How do I stop having a crush on my husband's cousin - I'm not sure how I'll act once I've had a drink around him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm just really looking for some advice. I'n not sure whether I am in love with my husbands cousin or whether it's just a schoolgirl like crush on him. I have only been married to my husband for almost a year and have a young daughter, but I never had these feelings for his... (285 words)

I've never had a boyfriend and I really want one. Guys always seem to think I just want friendship. Where am I going wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i dont know what is wrong with me. i have such low confidence and find it so hard to get a boyfriend. i lost my mother a year ago and my best friend last august and i have not motivation anymore. not having a boyfriend never used to bother me but lately people h... (180 words)

My husband keeps meeting up with his ex, I try not to let it bother me but truth is it does.Why does he want to keep meeting with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - My husband texts his ex girlfriend and meets her every week. He doesn't think I should be jealous about this. I try not to let it bother me as he is genuinely in love with me. However, I can't get over the fact that he would even want to meet her. I'm sure he wouldn't want ... (73 words)

My bf is regularly talking to a female friend on the phone. Do you think he could be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with bf for 13 years. recently i found out i could screen his calls and found a number that hed been ringing 3/4 times a day i got a friend to ring the number and found it was a female.I have been having these dreams that he is cheating for a while and when i told ... (102 words)

My fiance arranged a meeting for he and I without consulting me first. It seems my opinion doesn't matter. Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - im currently engaged to my fiance of 4yrs,lately hes been distant,i believed we had a good relationship until the other day when he decided to arrange a meeting and agreed,he consulted me after he`d done this,am i wrong to be hurt and upset that he had not discussed this with ... (61 words)

Do you think this guy really likes me or is he like this with other girls too? Maybe he's just shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in love with this guy i meet. i don't know how he feels about me and i haven't told him how i feel. we both flirt with each other. however, i dont know if he does this with all the girls, as ever since we have met we having been doing this. it's been 6 months now and i ... (147 words)

Am I being too demanding? Tell me what you think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- I have invited some friends, my brother, his girlfriend and her daughter for dinner. My partner is cooking and it is his birthday. He has planned to make curry, which he does from scratch by grinding up all the spices etc. My small son it going to his father that night ... (360 words)

Bf wants us to move in together but I'm scared he'll turn out to be a cheat like guys in my past. What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive met a great man who loves me and my seven year old child. He wants us to get our own place but im scared. What if he turns out like the many other men in my life a cheat? I have no reason why and trust him. What shall i do? ... (52 words)

He told me loved me but now he's acting really strange. Should I wait and see if he goes back to normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- hey. Im eighteen and I've had a crush on my best friend for the last four years. Hes the kind of guy who can get any girl he wants, and be confident without seeming arrogant. He was out of town for half of last year, then in October he told me that he loved me (via text mes... (252 words)

Am I being petty? Tell me what you think.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age - Hi. Am i being petty? I went with my partner to his works do on saturday night. We went last year and it was fantastic, he was so attentive to me. We have been together now 20months and engaged. Well, a woman who he gets on well at work sat on our table and he jut didn't seem ... (287 words)

I'm married but my male friend confessed he had feelings for me. I haven't heard from him for a while. Do you think its over with he and I?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Hi there, I've been happily married for 10 years. I recently met a really nice guy who i thought would make a good friend. We have been chatting a bit; he calls to my place of work to see me (i work in a public building). He doesn't text or email me very often, even tho... (166 words)

I want to see my boyfriend as often as I can but I dn't want to be overbearing. How do I get the right balance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone My question is just how much is too much time to wanna spend with your bf. I wanna give my bf time to himself but also wanna see him loads Id luv to see him everyday but dont wanna be too much so how much can i ask if he wants to see me I dont wanna push hi... (87 words)

My friend and I leaned on each other during our marriage separations - now I'm seeing her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I separated from my husband last year and have started seeing someone else, a friend's husband, who are also separated. It's has got quite serious and we have been seeing each other secretly for several months. I know I am playing with fire, but, we have found something in each ... (481 words)

Been with my bf for 5 years but he has no photos of me up in his house. Should I be worried by this?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years,in his home he doesn't have anything to suggest he's in a relationship, not even a photo of me or me and him together. I believe it's to say he is single and available,am i right in thinking this?... (47 words)

I met a guy who is perfect for me but he has two kids from a previous marrige. I feel that everyone is prejudiced against us. What should we do?

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17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem. I met this man 1 yr and some months ago , he was nice and really a wonderful guy....in other words perfect for me...but he came with bagage.He was married and had 2 kids from his previous marriage.When we met , he had really decided to leave... (458 words)

He was sending love letters to his ex and now I've found a Xmas card saying the should hook up... what should I do?

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17 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, this is a long going problem which I have tried to overcome and rise above but it's eating me up inside. I love my boyfriend, but what I can't understand is that he is still in contact with his ex girlfriend who lives in Germany. He has always loved her but la... (210 words)

Can't stand to be without my ex... what can I do?

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17 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend finished with me 2 days ago, the reason she said was we grow apart witch I think is rubish. We been together for 4 cracking year! I know she still love and she keep texting me ervery hour. I cant stand it without her and i want to be with her for the rest of my ... (63 words)

Everything was perfect... until she made out with the stripper and ditched me.

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17 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Dear cupid im in a very bad situation that is honestly consuming 100% of my mind and driving me insane. im 18 and in college and so is this girl. we started out as inseperable best friends. now the relationship has lasted 1.5 years. we hung out 24/7, spent the night together, ... (519 words)

My man is always on my mind... miss him when he's not around

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17 January 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone Does anyone have any advice as im in a great relationship my man and i really like each other but sometimes he goes away with work and i miss him so bad. Even when he is around when we both go off to work I really miss him. I see him 3-4 times a week but whe... (184 words)

This guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend because he likes her. And I want him to leave her alone but she doesn't have the heart to tell him. What should I do?

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17 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - This guy likes my girlfriend and always tells her that he likes her, and that i don't deserve her, that he wants to be with her and all that stuff. My girlfriend is 100% loyal and im with her 90% of the day and the other 10% we're on the phone with eachother, so I know there's ... (189 words)

I still like my ex and I can't get over him. What do I do?

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17 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my ex-boyfriend but it's been a year and i still can't get over him. By the way he is a year younger than me, so i am way too embrassed to admit i like him. what do i do? please help me... (47 words)

I'm afraid that my long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Should I dump him before he dumps me?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - my bf and i have been dating for about a year and a half before he left for further studies in the U.S. before he left we had no trust issues but now I am afraid the whole long distance thing wont work. I am in africa, he's miles away and i have to do all the calling and ... (151 words)

Is my ex-bf still in love with me? And if so is it a good idea for us to be business partners?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with my bf just recently. I expected him not to phone me again because I know that we have nothing to talk about. My expectations were wrong, because until now he's still calling me every night for an hour talking about anything and I understand our situation and I ... (139 words)

My gay male partner's ex wife is making his life a misery... still

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17 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 34 yo male and my male partner's ex wife is causing a lot of strain in our relationship. She had an affair and left him, and took the 3 boys away, which really hurt him. He never cheated on her, buried his sexuality for a long time, and was a good father. Now he is the h... (180 words)

I'm attracted to my co-worker, we are both married but I care for her and I'm not sure if she feels the same. Any thoughts?

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17 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I have a co-worker that her and I are attracted to each other. We are both married, she's actually my co-owners sister-in-law. She likes older men, I'm 33, and I like younger women, she's 25. We have messed around a few times, but nothing major, the problem is I send her ... (215 words)

I'm 18 so should I bring my 24 year old boyfriend to the prom with me or would it make everyone there uncomfortable?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I saw someone else recently post a question about their prom and an older boyfriend so I figured I would post too. I'm 18 and have been dating my 24 year old boyfriend for quite a while. I always just assumed I'd be taking him as my date to prom (as there is no age limit ... (192 words)

I am pregnant and due in March but I'm not exactly sure what month I got pregnant. Any ideas?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - my question is: I am pregnant and due on March 10th 2007. So what month did I get pregnant in? I'm pretty sure it was June but my husband and I are having problems and he is thinking that this baby isn't his because I slept with someone in May. But I had my period in June like ... (68 words)

I want time apart from my boyfriend but I'm not quite sure how I could bring this up. Please help

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17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i need some time to think about the relationship i am in. we have been dating for six months. we do care about eachother but both realize it's not the end of the world if we do breakup, it has only been six months. we are not arguing, have never been in a major argument, are ... (113 words)

I'm about to drop a sprog but he's not answering my calls or texts?

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17 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is completely ignoring me not answering my calls and when he does he has nothing to say or has a bad attitude and wants to start arguments that bad part is i'm 8 1/2 months pregnant with his child what should i do?... (45 words)

What should I do to make things right after I made a fool of myself in front of his parents?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - ive been going out with my BF three months now. Last nite we went to meet his parents for the first time!!! long story short...i was demonstrating this kick boxing technique to my BF's dad and i ended up accidently kicking him in the nuts!! I really put a lot of energy into it ... (143 words)

How could I make the first move with my guy friend without being too obvious?

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17 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I'm pretty sure (but not completely positive just yet) that one of my guy friends likes me as more than just a friend and I think I have feelings for him too, but the question is: what do I do from here? I mean, I could always wait for him to make the first move, but what if he ... (102 words)

Have no confidence in girls or myself at the moment...

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17 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I have a big problem with the ladies, am 21 good looking not giving my self a big head or nothing please don’t get me wrong, most women find me attractive not all. Anyways I have trouble with the ladies that I meet, just came out of a relationship with my girlfriend, basically ... (530 words)

I worry I'm fat when I know, rationally I'm not fat! what's wrong?

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17 January 2007 (?) - I know this is usually a site to discus relationship problems but I donno who else to talk to about this. I’m an 18 year old girl from Scotland and am a U.K size 8-10 and I weigh 8 stone 6 pounds. (I’ve always been pretty skinny.) I go a long walk most evenings…if the wea... (178 words)

I'm 47 and have disasterous luck with men! Am I too picky?

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17 January 2007 (F)

- I've only been in 6 serious relationships over the span of my adult life (I'm 47) but I seem to disasterous luck with men. For instance, my first three boyfriends were incredibly good-looking, talkative, fun, adventurous, sexy, a little wild, spontaneous, and interesting. I ... (361 words)