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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like her, so should I tell her how special she is to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

- I really like a girl with me in school. I started to get to know her and liked her so became more interested and started talking more often. We were once talking and i dont know how i told her i liked her and wanted to know how she felt and she made it clear to me that i was no ... (189 words)

Why do I get so wet down there, when I am just around my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I have a bit of a personal problem which I hope you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend now for about four months and I absolutely love him to bits. However for the last month or so I seem to have a bit of a problem. Every time I'm with him I find mysel... (134 words)

I've spent 3 hours talking to her but now I think I love her. How do I tell her and how do I know if she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (?) - i went on a date with a girl for dinner. we spent about 3hours together talkin. at the end her brother came to pick her up in a car so she had to go quickly so she just said bye. she texted me when she got home thanking me for the dinner as i paid. how do i know she liked me? ... (122 words)

It's just sex and he hides his feelings! How can I tell if this relationship is right for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how can tell if this relationship is right for u right now its just sex here and there thats how we were when we were kids 5 years ago i feel like ive gone back 4 steps. he hides his feelings and i dont know where i stand anymore what to do. i think he must like me becaus... (87 words)

We have problems with petty arguing.What should I do to stop all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 11 months. we've been arguing alot lately and she says she isnt happy. we talked about our problems last friday and from then untill last wednesday(3 days ago), everything had been going fine...then thursday we started ... (183 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm thinking of meeting up with this guy online who promises to give me 'wild sex.' Is this a good idea, or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid- Here is the problem: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him very much, but our sex life is a little boring. We usually have sex in the bedroom in the same position. I'm very sexual and I like to try new things in new places. Also, my ... (195 words)

I'm 15 and self conscious about my 32AA boobs. I envy other girls with bigger boobs. What can I do?

This question has 124 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's really affecting my confidence ... (164 words)

Two guys who are best friend both like me. I feel guilty for coming between two good friends! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Boy #1 and Boy #2 are best friends, both completely besotted with me. For one I cant understand it, I dont feel amazing, even when they tell me so. I'm best friends with Boy #2, and I dated Boy #1, which really made Boy #2 sad. After a little while I dumped Boy #1, because ... (179 words)

I need tips on 'French-kissing.' I have no idea how to do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and i think im ready to kiss him (i mean with tongues). how far am i ment to put my tongue in his mouth? do i just put the tip of my tongue on his or do i put it fully in? thanks for the advise ... (62 words)

She has a bf, but she likes me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I long to be in a relationship with one of my female friends. (im male) There is a problem, she is in a relationship with a friend, have been for while. I'v been told she likes me, but she is off traveling soon for a year. what should i do?... (50 words)

I need a lot of affection..he doesn't. How do we work this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner is 27 and i'm 21. Is it wrong to feel wanted? When i'm with my partner i want to be held and kissed and shown that i'm wanted but instead i always have to make the first move asking him to hold me or kiss me. i know this sounds crazy He tells me he loves me and... (227 words)

He is a severe diabetic! What lies ahead for us in this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am having doubts about a long term relationship with my boyfriend. I love him so much but he is a bad diabetic. I am afraid of what is ahead for us and his illness and if i can cope with it.... (44 words)

I want the older, married guy out of my life as I feel guilty for cheating on my bf. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old girl in a relationship with a boy for last 2 years with whom i wish to settle down. I recently fell for a married man of double my age and working in my office. Under strong emotions i slept with him twice and really enjoyed making love to him. But i feel ... (125 words)

Having some trouble with Tami! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

- Hello everybody i would like to ask what to do about a girl I know Tami, a friend of mine who is just back from NY, I introduced her to my friends sometime ago so she got in our gang, she brought another girl Chris sometime and she was a attracted to one of the boys but the ... (389 words)

It hurts everytime I have sex. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

- Hey everyone, I'm 19 years old and when me and my boyfriend have sex, it really hurts me. I am sore when he enters me and when we're actually having intercourse. Afterwards i am really sore aswell. I have had a test for chlamydia and that came back negative, so i know i have... (240 words)

he ended it saying he doesn't feel the same. Will he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been with my bf for two years (well, it would have been two years next week). It all started off wonderful, and to the end to me, it was still wonderful. I loved him, and he loved me. We were living together for six months. However, earlier this month, out of the ... (151 words)

My gf has a medical condition and I am finding it tough to cope. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend has got M.E. (Myalgic Encephalopathy) and Fibromyalgia. I love her to pieces but recently, things have started to go downhill. i respect that she needs her time and her space but im finding this all quite hard to cope with now. at the start of our relationship we ... (225 words)

He says that we are too emotionally dependent on each other and hes not ready for that. He moving..should I go too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved states for my bf. After 2.5 years he tells me he is moving away and if I come or not is my decision. He says that we are too emotionally dependent on each other and hes not ready for that. He cries everytime he talks about it and it devastates me. It affected my job ... (112 words)

Do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there...do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?... (22 words)

He tets her badly so I have to ask...why are some girls so naive about their bfs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are girls so naive about their bfs? This girl was told that her bf had been cheating on her since the day they started dating.(2 yrs)They are off more than anything. Throughout their whole relationship she would tell her incidents about her bf and this girl, but the gf ... (662 words)

We get on great but he wants no kids and marriage in his future! Should I let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 17 months now and its going great. Apart from that my boyfriend has made it perfectly clear that he doesnt want to marry me or have any children. I am 26 years old and he is 37. He's been married before and has an ... (244 words)

She's having a hard time letting her bf go. How can she dump her bf for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i recently met this girl up town, she is a mate of my sisters and well we got on quite well but i found out she has a b.f, i txt her the next day as i got her number off my sister...She said best not txt as he might see but she then txt me later saying hi and that it dont ... (220 words)

He's no good for me and I need to break out of this cycle...how do I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What should you do if you know that you shouldn't get involved with a guy because you have been there too many times before and he has treated you badly, but for some reason you just can't help yourself? If you see him everyday, and are friends with all the same people, ... (64 words)

Update: How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend? I need ideas for Vibrators now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all Id like to say thank to to everyone who answered a recent question i posted (How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend)It really helped!! The two of us talked about it and hes totally ok with it..and probably cant wait until next time lol.. He ... (152 words)

He's the sweetest guy but he's a zero in bed! Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in relationship 15 months with great guy i really love, but in bed he is zero. he is sweetest thing in the world and i can't tell him about this problem or even leave him.i feel that i could cheat, but i don't want it would be humiliating.what shall i do? ... (53 words)

I'm struggling to tell my family and friends that I am bi...should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm struggling to tell my family and friends that i'm bi. Should i or shouldn't i tell them? and if so how? i know the consequences of me "coming out" to them but it feels wrong lying. What do i do?... (42 words)

I have a bf but how can I avoid my lecturer from school, that I really, really like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm 22 yrs old and i stay with my bf for around 2 years. I found that i am having a crush with my lecturer who are 32 years old, single. He did know that i'm staying with my bf. I'm not sure whether he had same kind of feeling like me. He treat me quite ni... (209 words)

My lesbian fantasy has me greatly disturbed! How do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age - I'm a 57 year old divorced woman, mother of three children. Something happened 2 days ago that took me by complete surprise and I am still numb over it. My ex husband is younger than I am (50) and left me 3 years ago. I am still depressed, and were it not for my children I ... (377 words)

Why has my lovely wife lost the same passion, I feel for her? Please help me understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age - I have a wonderful wife and relationship with her... Yet over the past several years she has lost her desire for sex.... Even though we are both intimate and sexually satisified when we make love..... She has seemed to have lost her desire for sex. I am a romantic and tel... (135 words)

He doesn'r know I like him but if I date him-would if he doesn't like having sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - i am confused i am in love with an older guy only by 2 years about i am 16 and he is 18 or 19 and he doesn't know i like him yet as i don't know how to tell him and i am in fear of rejection but i am even more scared that if i tell him and he likes me then he will want sex and ... (179 words)

Do I tell him I like him a lot or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - hello i think i am inlove with this guy called justin but i really dont know what to do about it? i dont know if he is single? or if he'd even consider anyone like me? he is about 2 years older than me and his name is justin he is well gorgous and i cant stop thinking about ... (96 words)

How do I tell this quiet girl...she's the one I want to be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - so wht can i do now.. i want the quiet girl.. so wht to do?? how can i propose her.. am afraid.. cauz shes too quiet.. and am not so certain she loves me.. but her eyes tells me she loves me.. so give me a gud idea... (48 words)

I am thinking of working a "sex chat' job..will my bf think worse of me if I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just want some advice. I'm very much in love with my partner and I would never do anything to break or harm the trust that we have for eachother. I've been thinking recently about getting a part time job to help us get by a little easier, but with our work patterns it ... (193 words)

Friend suggest some pills to help me relax during lovemaking with my bf. What do you all think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

- Hi I've written in before, ive recently been trying to have sex with my bf of nearly a year we love each other lots im a virgin and im terrified of the pain and as soon as he tries to go 'down there' even with his finger i panic and tense up and no chance, now even if he tries ... (162 words)

If I tell my bf about my past emotional problems, will he understand or will he dump me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 18 and I have certain secrets I will not share with friends/boyf/cousellor - NOBODY, there PERSONAL, they bring up bad history and i don't want to talk about it (so this is a little hard) I used to - not so long ago cut myself, not my wrists or anywhere obvious i didn't... (412 words)

How do you hold hands and kiss a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

27 January 2007 (?) - how do you hold hands with a girl? kiss a girl? it just seems impossible. whenever we together etc shall i make the first move?... (25 words)

After 3 kids, my body isn't what it used to be and hubby is not as attracted me! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently had my third child...and unfortunately my body will never be the same as it was before kids. I have worked out hard and lost all the excess pregnancy weight but still have scars and sags that my doctor says are 'just part of being a mom' My husband agrees that ... (169 words)

Life with my police officer husband is tough! What can I do to make things better for us all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for nearly 20 years married for 17 this year. He has served in the police all that time and over the years he has become more cold, unemotional towards me and my children, he criticizes everything i do and everything i say and the way i do or say ... (129 words)

He dumped me over some mean texts I sent him! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hey peeps..im in a bit of a dillemma..iv been 'sleeping with' tthis guy for a couple of months now.and i guess you could say iv fallen for him!!!however, i wen out and got drunk the other nite, i kept texting him, pestering him to come bk 2 my place but he was in bed, so after ... (182 words)

For my b'day, my bf had wine and cake for me but no present! Am I expecting too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, i was just wondering on peoples opinions on this. It was my birthday a couple of days ago, had a lovely evening with my mates but then I got a bit disappointed. My boyfriend bought a bottle of wine and birthday cake, but no present for me. Its fair to say I was very sup... (288 words)

At school, my gf pretends we aren't going out...why does she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have a girlfriend but she doesn't hug me or anything and pretends that we are not going out wen we are at school plz help... (31 words)

I go to an all girls school..but I want to meet guys! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Its holidays right now and i'm really nervous about going back to school because its a girls only school...i want to meet guys but i'm afraid that since i'll be in this new school for 5 years when i get out i won't have any social experience at all... i can't wait around f... (83 words)

Does cheating on my fiancee automatically mean marriage is the last thing I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy since I was 14- now 21 and engaged to him. I always wanted to get married young and having a family is the most important thing to me. We have never broken up or taken a break-he has cheated on me once 4 years ago and I have cheated on him a million ... (230 words)

My OCD makes me feel I have to tell my bf personal, weird things about myself..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I know it might sound like this is a joke but i really am not joking. I have OCD so i obsess over things and think he has to know every thing about me but more the bad and that is probably because my ex made me tell him everything but anyways, you know how it is natural and ... (151 words)

Do girls masturbate as much as us guys do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 year old boy and at school all the boys talk about them w**king all the time, but it seems that girls dont and never have done, is this true.... (32 words)

My self-esteem issues make me think I'm not good enough for him. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Lately I've been dealing with some self esteem issues. Here's the thing...I'm in love with a really great guy, and apparently he's crazy enough to love me back and want to be with me. I just don't feel good enough for him. I mean he's an amazing guy who deserves a fa... (220 words)

He loves BJ's and I hate giving them! How do I tell him without losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

- hi iam 35 and waited my whole life to meet a man like this,that treats me like gold,only problem is he loves blow jobs and i hate it so much,how do i explain to him with out loosing him.... (39 words)

I'm shy. Any tips as to how I can change myself to help a guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well am talking to this guy who i like and he tells me that he likes me also.but am kind of shy and i havent had a lots of boyfriends I've only had had two of them.the guy,who am talking to is experience and has had plenty of relationships so i feel like if am not on his ... (239 words)

How do I get her to completely trust me, after what I did? Any good advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - The worst year of my life It all started with the internet oh the internet yea the internet Well me ,my mom, brothers ,and my dad was living in Kentucky, We weren't making much money, not enough to live on so we had internet...at the time....and my dad decided to get o... (979 words)

Met him 2 weeks ago..how do I tell him I want a future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - confused.met a guy new years eve,we kissed and went home seperately, we've been chatting flirtily online for the past two weeks but he lives three hours away and we are both at university.i really like him.how do we keep the relationship going?and how do i tell him i want a ... (53 words)

Hubby is a good provider but lacks in the 'lovin'' departmenr. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - You see, my husband has a type A personality and generally lives and breaths new ways to make money. Sex is my call 99% of the time and when we do get into it in the bedroom he always throws off this (yeah come n get it) vibe, which is the reason I'm avoiding it all together ... (293 words)

Stopped using the pill, periods are late but pregnancy are negative! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I stopped using the contraceptive pill (microgynon 30) about 4 months ago. My periods have been a couple of days late every month since i stopped using it, this month its still not here and its more than a week late! I've done a pregnancy test and it was negative. What is ... (53 words)

He lives 200 km from me..any point in continuing this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi really confused 19yr old. Met a boy new years eve (friend of an old friend) we kissed the whole night. Since then we spend most days talking and flirting online. But he lives 200km away in another city, is there any point in continuing it? thanks x... (48 words)

He still talks to his ex and is now just getting a divorce. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. I have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. He still talks to his ex almost everyday and he wants me to meet her. He just now is trying to get a divorce because he has been putting it off for so long. why is that? And also what should i do about the ... (77 words)

Don't know what to do on my dinner date with this girl I like. Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (?) - i'm goin on a date with this girl who asked me to go out for dinner with her. i dunno what to do lol i really like her. she asked me out so she must like me any hints tips? as much as possible thanks ... (45 words)

If she working why is she accepting a dinner date with me and not going with her mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (?) - i'm bit confused. there's this girl i've met once before on a mates birthday. since she has added me on msn and talks to me whenever i'm online. she recently got my number. today on msn she said her mates are goin to eat out with her mates birthday but she's not goin she's ... (137 words)

I address my boyfriend as "sir" he seems to like this but everyone thinks he's controlling me. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Everyone thinks he over-powers me and tells me what to do, but that's not true! I call him 'sir', but that's of my own will. He'll call my name from the next room and I'll obnoxiously and jokingly answer 'Yessuh' or 'Sir.' and they look at me like I'm nuts. Or he'll hold the ... (137 words)

He's perfect but I have unwanted thoughts about him. How do I get rid of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. He is PERFECT and one of the nice guys which is what i need too. I feel like my anxiety is way up there right now since we are getting closer to dating. I guestion myself if i really like him or not even though i do. I feel like he can do better. I ... (129 words)

I'm so in love with my boyfriend. The only thing I want is a baby with him...Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

27 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I love babies...Oh my Gosh, do I LOVE babies! I want one so bad, but I know I'm way too young to have one. I don't have a job, but my boyfriend does. It's not a very well-paying job, though. For this reason, I know having a baby wouldn't be the right thing to do for like two ... (161 words)