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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Keep ending up with men who put their ex-wives first!

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29 January 2007 (F)

age - Hi, Twelve years ago I was in Love with whom I thought was the love of my life. He was not ready for a commitment, and I dedcided to move on with my broken Heart. I had other relationship's, but I had come to accept that I would not ever fall in Love again. That is when I ... (575 words)

I'm scared to have sex b/c of pregnancy and b/c my parents might find out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with a great guy but no worry we dont plan on sex right now. Not until I'm 16 and then for the right guy but im just scared i will never lose it. I am scared about pregnecy and the first time and everything. Really it is because if i want to do it before i leave my house i ... (82 words)

I miss him but my family and friends say not to go back. Should I listen to them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need help with my love life. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 4 years but it was very on and off relationship with us always arguing. We moved in together last year and not been getting along so i decided to finish it last week. I though it was right decision but now... (135 words)

He hasn't been acting the same towards me, lately...is there someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this boy have the same feelings for each other but just lately he has not been acting the same. is there some one else?... (26 words)

I lack the confidence to talk to this nice girl I like. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 24 and have not had many girlfriends, my last one was a girl i met on holiday but we have split up, i consider myself reasonably good looking but lack confidence to ask a girl out. there is this girl who i quite like who works in a shop that i am in 2-3 times a week, she ... (80 words)

My ex will pretend not to know me, one day and the next time, he shyly looks at me. Does he still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - about 5 years ago i went out with this guy who i absolutly loved to bits but it didnt work out so i tried to forget about him. i got a new partner who i have been with for 2 years and we have a kid together but ... a few months ago we moved in to the same block of flats as my ... (131 words)

Can we raise a child together while we live in separate homes? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really want this to work but how will it work when i know deep down that i cant trust him he seams to think i should get over it but it hard when you have been lied to. we have a child together we live in different houses a 40 minute drive he seams to think that there is ... (204 words)

She flirts in chat and on texts and takes stuff from me...is it time to call it a day??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Lately (my now ex fiance)was calling me by a different name several times daily. I since found she`s yet again been flirting in chatrooms and also now by text.When asked about it, she automatically turned on me, and as usual got angry and started accusing me of being up to no ... (122 words)

My gf doesn't want to talk much to me and I like contacting her at least 2 times per day. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my girlfriend are back together, thanks to all those who answered. the idea of a break instead of a break up worked out better for her. but now i have another problem. this has been going on for about 3 weeks. she never wants to talk on the phone. like during the ... (163 words)

He accused me of flirting online when I did no such thing! Is he trying to find an excuse to bail?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am very confused about my current relationship. my partner of 3 years has become very distant and more secretive over the last few months,today he asked me if i still wanted him, i was pretty shocked by this as i havent given him any reason to suggest otherwise. he then said ... (118 words)

I love someone else and I want to be free of my husband! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - After my high school graduation I and my whole family left Philippines and migrated here in Canada.I left my boyfriend and planned to get over him. I never dreamed ending up w/ him.He's a total jerk.He was not studying nor working. He smokes, drinks a lot and a playboy.... (482 words)

What's the difference between 'friends with benefits' and 'lovers'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age - Silly question? I Have seen the term "friends with benefits" being used quite regularly on this site. Can anyone tell me what is the difference between FWB's and lovers?... (29 words)

This 42 year old guy needs a place to stay-his wife kicked him out-he's hot-should I let him stay with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Ok this might sound kinda weird but stick with me. I'm almost 18 (one more month!) and I'm a freshman in college. My room mate is like never here. Basically she's living with her boyfriend but the college thinks she lives in the dorm. ANYWAY im all alone. and the other day at... (108 words)

I met up with an old crush from 20 years a go and found out...I really liked his younger brother! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A year ago I bumped into someone I used to fancy about 20 years ago who is now divorced with children. We had an instant connection – as if it was meant to be. Although I found him quite difficult to talk too and a bit shy in his presence – I’ve always felt like this about him. ... (560 words)

Is a piece of very expensive clothing, a much too personal to give someone else's husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age - I am married to a very handsome and successful man. A neighbor, newly single, gave us gifts at Christmas that were larger than I expected. They gifts for me were items for the house (the price stickers were highlighted so I suspect that they were not as expensive as they ... (182 words)

Why is she acting normal in person, but blocks me from talking to her online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I've been attracted to a girl at my school for a little while. Last semester, her and I talked a lot online, and they were fun conversations (a couple of which lasted over 2 hours, and it was nonstop back and forth between the two of us...). In person, though, she never really ... (351 words)

My gf wants to return to her homeland far away...how do I convince her I love her and want her to stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend loves me very much, but wants to return to her homeland which is across the other side of the world. how do i convince her that i have true love for her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. at the moment she cannot see me for the real person i am, and i ... (91 words)

My friend is being negative about everything and eating less since her break up. How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! This is more for my best friend from school who has recently been dumped by her bf. She seems to be doing better, but I'm still worried. She had been dating this guy since the beginning of the school year in September, so she really liked him. I'm still with my first ... (161 words)

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied any wrongdoing until... (432 words)

How do I tell him I love him - I don't even know if he's seeing anyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - how do you tell a guy you like them you know its love as you cant get him out of your head and well your always thinking of him and what to be with him but he is older than you and well your not sure whether he is seeing someone please help me i love this guy i'd do anything ... (68 words)

I'm scared for my friend who has casual sex with any age guy who asks her. She's only 15!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - hi i have a problem its my friend she is well seeing this guy who is 28 years old and engaged and well she knows this and she is only 15 yrs old and shes having sex with him and many others ever since she turned 15 she has being having sex with who ever askes her and well its ... (169 words)

In order to support my kids, I have to work out of town. They hate me for this and only email when they need money. I'm hurting so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - im far away from my 2 kids, i love them dearly but i got no choice to be far from them, i have to work to support them for what they needs. the problem is they are now growing from my parents, and they hated me being far from them they dont even call me or send me sms or email ... (157 words)

When I got w/ her, I ditched my mates. Now we've split and all my old mates have new lives. I'm so lonely!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i know this is kind of not in the same catagory of relationship but i don't really know what to do. I split up from my 2yr g.f about a month ago and well the thing is, when i got with her i ditched my mates which was the worst thing i could do! She was so demanding that i ... (244 words)

Keeping my distance from him has only made my heart grow fonder! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and I think I'm in love with this man who is quite a bit older than me, I dont know what to do because when I see him my heart totally goes out to him, but he is married. I talked to some of my friends about it, and one of them keeps telling me not to think about him but ... (166 words)

Whenever we want to do it, she says she's on her period! Is a period really every 3 weeks? I feel our sex life is lacking.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Ive been with my g/f for 3 months now(but we've known each other for about a year)and we've only had sex a couple of times(4 in total). It'll be wks in between each time. She keeps coming up with reasons not to, the most common of which is her time of the month. Its now her ... (198 words)

Is the pill free? Is it okay to stop taking it for a while and then start up again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you have to pay for the pill? And is it ok to say, take it for a while, stop for a month and then start taking it again? ... (29 words)

I'm confused by my ex's reaction to my thoughts on the break up. What does his phone call mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, my man broke up with me around 2-3 months ago. I was going through some bad times and it freaked him out. He said that he doesn't know what happened, that he just wanted it to end. Anyways, we talked the other day about the break up (ran into each other). I told him ... (123 words)

I feel like she could find someone better than me. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im scaried of losing her even though shes told me "she loves me". I believe that she loves me. I think i have a number of annoying things about my personality and i can't shake the feeling im not good enough for my girlfriend and that she will leave me in the end. I try to ... (120 words)

I think I'm being used for sex! But am I expecting too much? What are your thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

- Im having a casual relationship with this man i met on the internet and a number of times after having sex he doesn't cuddle me for long and starts to quickly get dress and carry on with something else in his flat.Am i expecting too much in wanting him to be more intimate? or ... (96 words)

What can I do about my embarassing gas problem? It's painful and is ruining my social life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Right I know you'll all probably laugh at this but quite a serious question. Does anyone else feel that hours after they've eaten dinner or through the night/next morning they need to let off a lot of gas? See this is becoming quite a problem for me because I can't stay over at ... (151 words)

If I have sex w/ my ex, will that ruin our chances of having a relationship in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I spilt up with my ex in November as he was working long hours and has a child (genuine reasons and nothing between him and ex)he doesn't have the time to commit to anything else at the mo. He said that its not me, and he would ask me out again in the future when he's sorted ... (167 words)

How do I become a bad boy but still maintain my good guy qualities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I become the "bad boy" that women seem to love? I am that steriotypical nice guy that all the girls say they dream about, but in reality they will probably never be with. I am romantic, considerate affectionate and all those traits, but I guess maybe a little too much... (106 words)

My rich parents think it's rude that my unemployed bf doesn't offer to take them out to eat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

- My parents were telling me they think my boyfriend should offer to pay for dining out sometimes. They expect him to treat my entire family out. I don't know how to tell him without him thinking how petty my parents are. He is very polite and thanks them when my parents pay. ... (141 words)

Update on the neck cyst! Doctors were not helpful and told me it was just a fatness of some sort. Antyadvice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - this is an up-date to the cyst problem. i have found out its not a cyst, the doctor said its something to do with muscles, but i dnt know what he means as it does not look like muscles, but some sort of fatness on my one side of the neck. thank you all for your help, b... (82 words)

My bf smells-it is not normal "BO"body odor and it's horrible. What is it and how can I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My bfriend smells- it is not body odor. He showers everyday and the smell is not normal BO- I can't place my finger on it but it is horrible. He does not wear cologne or any bodyspray so it is not that. Even after he showers I still smell it- it is not soap either. Soap ... (79 words)

His ex made it hard for him to trust girls - how can I show him I'd never mess around on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

- this is gonna be a long story but im gonna start from the beginning ok im gona call this guy xxx about 10 months ago when i was with my 2nd bf i met xxx and his gf. we hung out a bit and when me and this guy was alone usually for like 2 mins we flirted loads but didnt go any... (751 words)

She's married and I slept with her.. I have strong feelings-what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known this woman for a couple of years and we've always been attracted to each other,but she's married. And i regret to say we have slept together. I still have strong feelings for her, and she for me.What should i do?... (42 words)

Im 14 and 9 Weeks pregnant!!! I want to keep it but dont know how!!!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old and am 9 weeks pregnant. I saw an ultrasound of the baby recently and heard it heart beat. I was wanting to keep the baby but dont know how to do it at my age. If anyone can help me with this it would be appreciated. ... (50 words)

Not sure if I have done the right thing or not by dumping him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't seen in over two years. I ... (196 words)

Im confused... What could he possibly be thinking about!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright, my ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months. We talked this weekend which mainly included me crying and explaining how I viewed the break up. He had broken up with me. He said that he wanted to think about a few things and for me to give him a few days. He ... (108 words)

The only time he tells me he loves me, is when he is drunk! Does he mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am friends with a guy and lately have ended up sleeping with him a few times. I wasn't sure at first how much i liked him, was it just friends or did i like him more. When i asked him about it he just said he wanted to be friends, he wasn't ready for another gf yet. I think i ... (128 words)

I may be coming on too strong...how do I keep my cool with this girl and slow it down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I may have messed things up with a potential love. Help me fix it or just give me a good kick in the butt. We have so much in common and have such a great time together. 2 weekends ago i thought was such an amazing time, but i might have rushed her into something, and i ... (159 words)

I masturbate a lot-does being a virgin have anything to do with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 and masturbait alot. i do this mostly 3-4 times a day. i want to know if it is addictive.i dont if wether me still being a virgin has anything to do with this.... (35 words)

I ended the relationship but regret it now...how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age - I ended a 6 month relationship by text and his reply was just ok, there is a great physical attraction on both sides but we have both been holding back emotionally. im now sorry i did what i did how do i get him back at least for us to talk?... (51 words)

My husband keeps chatting with women on adultfriendfinder!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i dont know where to start last year i found out my husband had joined adult friend finder and a couple of other sites he was emailing women arranging to meet them when i told him i had found out he said he wouldnt have done anything i know he did go to meet one of the women ... (197 words)

Worried about getting up the duff... any tips to reduce fertility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently become sexually active, but I have been very concerned about pregnancy. I am not ready to be a mother, and although we are using protection, I can't help but wonder if there is anything more I could be doing to keep myself protected. This may sound silly, but ... (111 words)

He's addicted and our future together looks grim--but I don't want to give up! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently realized that the kind of future i had for my boyfriend and I is only and ideal. . . and it probably won't be anywhere near it. The problem is that I don't know how to deal with it, I don't want to totally give up on my dreams in order to make it work for us. He h... (138 words)

Got a girlfriend, now an old flame wants to come visit... scared of what might happen!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i have hit a big decision! i am currently in a relationship and have been for the past 4 months. i love my girlfriend with all my heart and have never once in my life before been disloyal to a partner. recently, an old friend of mine got back in touch with me, we used to have a ... (203 words)

I have gone off sex with my husband...how do I get back on track. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so here's my problem. I have been married to my husband for nearly a year now, we get on great and he is a total gent to me (most of the time), except when it comes down to sex. I have totally gone off it, I'm just not interested in it at all. My husband says he is OK ... (288 words)

She's scared to end her relationship..I really like her so what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What do i do when i girl i really like already has a boyfriend but is so unhappy that she doesn't want to be with him no more but is scared to end it as she cares bout other peoples feelings rather than her own? I'm struggling to wait much longer even though i really like her ... (83 words)

He wants to take a ski holiday on his own with another female! Should I allow this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here is my problem my bf is 24 and im 31 he is a teacher. He wants to go on a skiing holiday FOR A WEEK in spring break with a female teacher who is 27 just the two of them to do see if the venue is suitable and it will not cost anything. She doesnt have a bf and never has ... (122 words)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work commitments so I said I'd go ... (555 words)

She broke off with me and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi,I hope you can help me with this. I built up a dream and my love around this girl I meet two years ago. Things were good on those early months, then she started to show her true character after 6 months or so… She started her demands after demands, she didn’t have any ... (789 words)

Is there any way to get rid of neck cysts?

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29 January 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is their any other way to get rid of a cyst in one part of the neck to even out both necks. i am self concious and do not know how the cyst happened, but when i ask my family they say their is nothing there. even if it can not be seen, is thei... (81 words)

I need date ideas for me and the my new bf! Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im nearly 15, my new bf is 17.. we've been going out for just a day, but im stuck 4 an idea for a date, and im so scared about tellin me parents. will they disapprove?... (41 words)

I'm embarrassed by my gf's crass comments to other people. How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is quite eccentric and very over the top and I cringe so much when she speaks now. Before I could cope with it but now I cringe too much when she speaks. For example when she speaks with her friends she calls them stuff like 'Whore face!' and 'when I see you ... (91 words)

He has nasty divorce issues and we argue a lot more. Should we give each other space to clear our heads?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I have been seeing each other for 12 months. His divorce has become very nasty and his ex wife is making his life hell. He is stressed out and not coping and therefore neither am I. We argue more often than we have been and now he has suggested moving out to ... (120 words)

He couldn't orgasm! Was it because he was drunk or was I not good enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why couldn't my boyfriend come?? on saturday me and my boyfriend went out together, he got drunk, we then went to havre sex in his car, however after an hour he still hadn't come, so he 'had to finish him self off'...was it because he was drunk, or the place or was i just ru... (58 words)

Conversation is tough with the bf but not with this other guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I don’t really no what to make of it. The thing is that me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. What I find weird that when I talk to him on the phone there is like nothing to talk about like it’s almost a chore. I guess I feel that why when he ask me what do u ... (107 words)

How can I celebrate my 18th birthday? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - My 18 is birthday coming up this Friday, and my keep asking me what I would like to do, but I have no idea have any suggestion/ idea on what we can do. ... (33 words)

Girlfriend refuses to stop seeing this other guy. Does she love me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - There has always been another man who my girlfriend refused to stop seeing. She said she loved me and wanted to get married. I bought her a $12,000 ring as she promised me he was gone out of town forever.. Three weeks later I found them together at a party. She never told me ... (107 words)

We are best friends.. How do I find out if he wants to take this to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've known my best guy friend for practically 3 years. He's sort of like a player, always needs a girl around him. In fact, he never had a girl best friend all his like...and i'm his first ever girl best friend. We can talk about anything..but lately i realised that I have ... (104 words)

I love her but I don't have 'that' feeling for her. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am seeing a girl that i love spending time with, but i still find that i dont have 'that' feeling for her. What should i do?... (27 words)

Why do I get bladder infections after having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - half of the time when me and my boyfriend have sex i pee and pretty much always get a bladder infection afterwards even when i dont pee. why?... (29 words)

She said she wanted 'space and time', we agreed to meet but she saw me and called the police!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My fiancee and I have been together 7 years (3 of them being engaged) and last week she dumped me saying that she wanted so space and time to "figure out some things"... This was a huge surprise to me because in the 7 years we've been together, we hardly ever fought..... (589 words)

How do I trust again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been single for three years, and have met the most amazing man. Or have I? I have been in one bad relationship after another, and my last relationship resulted in my infant son dying. My question is, he told me loved me and i love him to, but how do i know? I have a ... (96 words)

Is this guy just playing games??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am talking to this guy that i think is perfect but my family and friends think otherwise.Yesterday i was invited to the movies by my best friend so i decided to invite the guy that am talking to so that way we could finally meet. He said that he would go untill he found ou... (193 words)

My bfs obsession with fat porn is killing our relationship!!

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29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has an obsession with fat porn! We have been dating for 18 months and it makes me feel worthless. I am a curvy woman and i now question his original motives. I have talked to him about it openly and it hasn't done any good. I love him in every way but i can't se... (155 words)

My boyfriend won't reveal his sexual fantasies to me!

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29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help on getting my bf to open up sexually! My bf and I have been dating for quite some time. We are both mature adults, have both been married before, so it's not like we are inexperienced, but his timid sexual habits are driving me crazy. I consider my self rather... (200 words)

We are both shy....shall I call him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this guy I think I might be interested in (he's from a town about thirty minutes or so away from mine). Two of our friends (who are boyfriend and girlfriend) introduced us, and they both think that we should get together. We've talked on MySpace a little b... (256 words)

I kissed my partners best friend, I feel guilty and confused. What should I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old woman. I have been in a serious relationship for the past 4 years. Well about a year ago I started having feelings that I did'nt understand. I felt neglected because I am always with our children while he goes out clubbing with friends. I kissed his best ... (102 words)

Satisfied with my relationship but still dream about my ex of 20 years ago!

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29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Last night I had an incredibly intense dream about an ex-boyfriend, and it is still disturbing me many hours later. The dream was so full of LONGING for this person, and in the dream we were figuring out how to leave our current spouses in order to fulfill our desire to be ... (173 words)

When is it okay to give a guy, a call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age - When is it okay to call a guy?... (8 words)

How do you orgasm when masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid. i want to know how to orgasm while masterbating. how do i do this?... (16 words)

He's more interested in his computer and his ipod...than me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 10 years, have 2 kids and for the last 3 years have had sex with my husband maybe 3 times. I wear size 4 clothes, run at least 3 times a day try very hard not to look frumpy and even where sexy nightgowns. Everything I do seems to go unnoticed. I've ... (128 words)

I want to date her and she's thinking about it...but it's been a month! What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

29 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've fallen in love with this wonderful girl and have let her know how i feel, and have asked her out, she said she needed time to think about things, obviously i argeed but that was a month ago and im starting to wonder what i should do?... (48 words)

I know she likes me but why cant we date as a couple? what should i do?

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29 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been hanging out with this girl for a while.every time i see her she bites her lip. she looks me in the eye and when i look away i can still see her looking at me. i went on one date with her.ive asked her to be my girlfriend once but she said no. i guess what im trying to ... (88 words)

I'm asking her out for Valentine's Day! How do I go in for the kiss? Any tips?

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29 January 2007 (?) - i want to ask this girl out on a few dates before valentine's day. than on valentines day i would like to ask her out. i'm plannin to watch movie with her and hopefully kiss her durin the movie. i really dunno how to! help! how do i go in for the kiss? will she respond? shall i ... (78 words)

Is it legal to sleep with your first cousin?

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29 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - is it legal to sleep with your first cousin,... (9 words)