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writes: am a 21 year old lady. i have a boyfriend who i was told that he has been unfaithful by several people. when i confronted him about this he denied it and told me the person who told me is out there to ruin what we had and he really got worked up about it and created a scene due to the embarrassment and my image. i told him its ok and forgave him before this incident. i got him with his ex in the covers together but he told me that they were just watching a movie. then a few days ago i saw some disturbing messages in his phone and when i confronted him he still denied. what am i to do? do i leave him?
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reader, Erienne +, writes (3 January 2007):
Well hun u are in a very difficult situation.But u truly need to follow ur own thoughts and not everyone elses cause there are people out there who maybe dont want to with him or it could in fact be the truth.Its hard i know i still love my ex yet he cheated on me and yet i still want him back..Do you truly believe he is a cheater? and if so then yes you do need to get rid of him but if you dont think so then stay.And as for finding him under the sheets with a ex only watch a movie....ya definatly not a good thing specialy sice they were under the covers. As for denieing it its a man thing and u will probably never get the truth from a man.Hope i could help alittle
take care and good luck with what ever your decision may be.
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