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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like this girl and want to surprise her on Valentine's day! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (?) - this girl i like i've dated before once. on msn i asked her if she's ever been asked out on valentines day and she said never and she'll just love to get a card and flowers. so that gives me an idea! i can do the same. i dunno if she likes me in that way. but any ideas where we ... (103 words)

My bf wants us to live together but isn't ready for marrige. I am also attracted to this other guy who likes me back. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am almost 26 and have been dating a man for 4 years. I bought a house and want to marry him. I know he is not ready yet. He is applying to Pharmacy school and wants me to move with him. I don't want to give up my good job or my house for someone who doesn't know if he ... (119 words)

I dont think its going to work out but he is my only friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. I came over New Jersey on the train last night. It took me 3 and a half hours to get here to see my boyfriend. Besides coming here to see him I also came to go out and have some fun with him cuz ever since I moved to Philadelphia I have no fun anymore ... (391 words)

My husband spends most of his time at work and not at home. I have also taken a liking to one of his co-workers. I can't stop thinking about him! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - They always say that a problem shared is a problem halved but in this case just writing it down will help. I am newly married mother of two young children and been with my partner for 7 years. My husband is a wonderful man, gets on with all my family and friends and life up ... (165 words)

Foreplay, cum, fantasy etc, etc...Explain all these 'sex' words to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - what is fore play?..fantasy a girl?..is orgasm same thing as cum?..how do you know when you orgasm?..what is all this sex words!!..i dont get it!! plz explain! tnx!... (29 words)

He's a selfish kind of lover in bed. I told him this and he said he'd try harder. But now nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf were talking about how we enjoyed the sex we had. He said everything was fine and he couldn't think of anything he'd perfer me to do. I told him as nicely as I could that he was selfish when it came to doing me. Which it ture, after he is done he just or if i ask ... (115 words)

Help! There's yellow, watery stuff coming from 'down there.' What is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - im 16..and i have a some question that need to be answer plzz!!..i dont know if this is because of sex or not..but i seem to be getting white or yellowish watery stuff comes out..and sometime it smells weird..what is this?..sometime i even think i got my period but when i check ... (60 words)

Ive fallen for my ex's sister-in-law! What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have a bit of a dilema, my girlfriend has recently broken up with me and i am just starting to get over her. But i kept in contact with her sister in law, she has been a rock to me we have always got on great and she has confided personal things to me that she couldnt tell ... (261 words)

Could I still have gotten pregnant in June even though I still had a period in July?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wandering if there was any way that i could have gotten pregnant around june 19th if my due date is april 11th and i had my normal period in july... (32 words)

He wanted to meet but wouldn't confirm anything! Is he playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunt, I met a nice bloke not last sat but the sat before through a friend of mine. We danced most of the night he said i was beautiful and couldnt understand why i was single. so later that evening we kissed i left and went home. My friend said he liked me and... (195 words)

I don't understand how you can you like someone then all of the sudden you don't... !?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6mons. Durning the last month he has been flirting with his best friend of the opposite sex. i didnt think much of it until she told him that she hated me. i know she likes him alot she has for years. i never let her get in the way until ... (126 words)

I feel like I'm 2nd best... I barely ever get hugs or kisses unless he wants sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

- Hey all, I have a slight proble concerning the guy I am with at the moment. I am 18, he is 28. But its not the age gap thats the problem. I have been seeing him for 2 months, he is a very nice person, genuine, caring, he has a good job, nice house, and gorgeous. But the prob... (305 words)

He tells me I can date otheres, even though we sleep together! What should I make of this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry, I know your probably sick of hearing about my "relationship" of the guy who Im friends with and sleep with but, I had a conversation with him a few nights ago before I went away on holiday and he said I could sleep with another guy if I wanted to. I asked if he felt okay ... (114 words)

Her husband is a cross-dresser and wants to tell their young children. She doesn't want this! What kind of advice can I give her to help her cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age - A friend of mine has recently asked me for advice since her husband reads all her e-mails etc. Not sure what to tell her. She recently found out her husband of 15 years is a cross-dresser and wants to 'come out' She has agreed to stay and live together as 'friends only'but is ... (177 words)

Is he being disrespectful or am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've always had a problem trusting my live-in bf of about a year. he has alot of old girlfriends from college which doesn't bother me-but it does bother me that he tries to make new girlfriends.he set up a lunch with a girl claiming it was business and not pleasure-which is not ... (85 words)

I have a close friend I really like but want to know if she feels the same way...how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (?) - i have a close friend i really really like. well she always invites me to places when she goes with mates etc. but i just dont get that feeling that she likes me. is there any way to find out? any signs? i dont want to show her i like her coz she finds out she'll stop talkin ... (66 words)

I don't want to date him as he gets around but if I say no-he might lose interest! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been friends with a boy for 5 years and ive always known he's thought of me as more. A couple of months ago he was telling me he wants to be with me and asking me if i would. iv been saying i dont know because im scared but i really want to say yes and be with him. he has a ... (133 words)

How can I console my friend who is a cheated-on wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age - A good friend of mine just told me that her husband has been having an affair for some time now and this past weekend she discovered the whole thing. He moved out! She’s so heart broken and she’s crying ALL the time. They’ve been married for 5 years and I’ve never been through ... (103 words)

Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost his virginty to each other. ... (153 words)

Are there signs that will tell me...that my bf is falling in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for a month. i think i am falling in love with him. how do i know if my boyfriend is falling in love with me without asking him? and i dont mean just whether he has a massive crush on me. i mean i want to know whether he is actua... (83 words)

I'm gay and I don't enjoy sex! What can I do to begin enjoying it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am Gay male of 21, i av had sex many times but the one thing i cant seem to do is enjoy it, never have enjoyed sex at all, and im lost on what i can do to enjoy it, me and my partner have had sex yet, not just because of my problem but because he has pstd after year of ... (140 words)

Do all relationships end up like this... Start of great, then you move in and things fade and you feel like room-mates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

- It seems like all my relationshps end up the same way. They start out good, we get along great, we have sex every night, we cuddle, are affectionate with each other; we call e-mail, or text message each other daily. We talk, have fun, and spend time together. This is what ... (321 words)

My friend is a compulsive liar...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends a complete liar. She just lies like its no big thing. If you confront her about it, she says ''what have i lied about''. But the thing is, shes lies about so much you just cant remember to tell her. She thinks her druggie brother is really cool and clever and big, ... (98 words)

I love my gf but there's another who likes her a lot...what should I do about this guy and her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my problem is i go out with a girl who is 2 years older than me. ive known her about 9 months an have been going out with her for about 1 month, i love her much but i dont think she loves me. we both go to school and there is a boy in her year who also likes her a lot, he ... (121 words)

Could our rough sex have caused the pink spotting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

- Hello girls i need advice, im worried! Recently i have been bleeding inbetween my period its not a lot, but there is a bit! Its bright pink? What does this mean...i had sex the other week with my boyfriend which was a bit rough, could this be the cause? Please help...thankyou! ... (52 words)

My bf ignores me-should I date my friend's brother who does really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very very very much. I love him so much. We're drifting apart, he never talks to me except on weekends. How do i keep him with me? He talks to his friend 'Jadeo' more then me, and it really bugs me. Now a new problem has arisen. My best mates br... (152 words)

Why do people lie about there sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Why do people lie about there sexuality? i understnad if they dont want to shout it from the roof tops but why lie? why are they ashamed of the person they like?... (32 words)

What do I get him for Valentines' Day..that shows I really care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

- hi all i am meetin this lad on valentines day hes kinda like my boy friend, and we r gettin each other cards and pressies for valentines day. but i dint have a clue wat to get him. im dreadin turning up on valnetines wiv wiv sumthin small and stupid and he turns up wiv sumthin ... (73 words)

I find it hard to move on as I have still got hope we will get back together.Anyone been through this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is probably going to be a bit long but i feel that it will do me good to write my feelings down and maybe get some advice from other people! Me and my ex girlfriend had been going out for over 3years. We were both young when we met (i was 18, she was 16) and it was o... (735 words)

Is it really possible to be friends with an ex-lover? Any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - This is an uncomfortable situation, but here goes (deep breath). What is the story about the woman with whom your boyfriend had an affair? Is it ever possible to be friends with her? My boyfriend was seeing his brother's girlfriend's sister. I feel socially estranged, in a ... (55 words)

I like him but I'm too scared to talk to him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 15 years old and have a problem. I really really like this guy. I have known him quite a while and was friends with him but then we kind of drifted apart. Now we don't talk or make eye contact and it is tense between us. I know he liked me a few years ago but don't know ... (114 words)

I found out she had an affair with a married man...and I can't get past it! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age - My wife has led a very checked past. She had sex from a very early age with many men, several times with total strangers, and has even experienced (once) sex with 2 men at the same time. When we dated, she told me all of this and I thought I could handle it, and have for many ... (318 words)

Was this period cramps?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week I experienced something reeeaally wierd... I was asleep and I drowsily remember pain so I curled up into a ball. But the pain actually woke me up, I had to check my stomach because I honestly thought I'd been stabbed. I tried curling up tight but it didnt make any ... (106 words)

Me, his ex wife and this other woman -all want him! Am I crazy to keep dating him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started having an affair two years ago with my husbands cousin. He was married too. It was supposed to be just friends with benefits since we were both unhappy but, then i started having feelings for him and he said he did for me too. He said that he really wanted to be with ... (243 words)

I never see my best friend - she's always at this farm doing drugs and getting laid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friends got no respect for herself. She spends most of her time over this farm near her house. Her brother and his mates and loads of other blokes get drugged up over there. She thinks they're all so cool but they're not and i dont think its healthy her looking up to ... (232 words)

He is never the one to initiate sex, so I stopped doing it for two weeks - he still hasn't made an effort! I feel totally unattractive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years, things are good although he is stressed at work. My problem is that he hardly ever initiates sex, I've been happy to initiate in the past but its starting to annoy me. I tried to ignore any urges for the last 2 w... (98 words)

My husband is a good guy, but I feel the wrong one for me. I hate the thought of staying with him AND leaving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for ten years. I married the wrong guy; my husband is a good person, he just isn't the one for me. I am a people person, and he is a 'person' person. He only seems to need me, and isn't interested in making friends or having interests of his own. I have ... (193 words)

We want to make our textual affair into a real one for just one night. But, the guilt is holding us back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Feeling a bit strainge writing on this website, but I need some help with out getting insults. I have been reading through some other problems to see what the replies are like and I know I am probably in for a telling off. Here's the problem, Im a 42 year old male and mar... (427 words)

We're good mates but she refuses lifts to work...and she accepts them from people she despises!! Do I ask her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Why would this be happening.? I work in a factory that works very odd shift hours. There's this girl i work with who lives in the same town as me. We're good mates and get along great together. Really good friends. Because of the unsociable hours we work public transpor... (162 words)

My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought that all we needed was a break.... (210 words)

My friend's bf will go up to three weeks w/out calling her! Does he really want to be w/ her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Something is not quite right about a friend's new boyfriend - should I say something? My friend met a guy on the Internet who then became girlfriend and boyfriend. They have been together for 5months. The problem is it can be up to three weeks before he calls her and rarely ... (140 words)

After we split, he wanted to remain friends. Then I found out he's in a relationship w/ someone he'd been seeing since before our split!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A month ago, my boyfriend of 4 years wanted to split up. I agreed it was the best thing as I didn't want a future with him. We both said that we'd always be friends but then he started to ignore me and when we did talk was extremely nasty. Instict told me something wasn't q... (182 words)

I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and fighting.. i immediately ... (165 words)

He sometimes makes me cringe when he speaks, and he's in debt... This all makes me feel like a snob... Am I making yet another dating mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age - I am a 42 year old woman, divorced for 7 years and have 2 adolescent children. I have a PhD and a professional job. I enjoy the arts and theatre and I like to mix in intelligent company. I look a lot younger than my years partly due to good genes (great skin), partly due to ... (402 words)

Is two years long enough dating before popping the question? And how can I make it special for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, i have been dating a my girlfriend for over two years now and i feel we love each other very much. I want to ask her to marry me but i don't no if we have been going out long enough for me to ask?, if i do ask how can i make it romantic and a night to remember?... (62 words)

Are we ever going to have a real relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a year ago and we became friends who sleep with each other. He made it clear we couldnt become anything more so, I went off with this other guy for a month. when this ended he was there for me and I started seeing him again. he said he couldnt trust me though, ... (191 words)

We've split and I've turned to drinking and occupying my time to cope, but nothing works! How can I stop drinking and how do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been through a very nasty break up with my partner of more than 2 years. I am not going to go into the full story of that as I really don’t want to take much of your time, beside it is a very very sad story anyway. Basically I loved her so much and in return ... (440 words)

My husband doesn't understand the effect that lack of sex is having on our marriage...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age - I have been married for 28 years, no children, my husband didn't make love to me and this went on for 5 months with him insisting there is nothing wrong and nobody else, he did still cuddle and be affectionate though. He did go to the doc's for a blood test and everything came ... (308 words)

What should I do: Stay with my boyfriend and my crappy job... or join the Army and have a great time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and we love each other greatly, his the most imporant thing in my life. when we got together, we thought we'd only be together for a month because i was going to go into the army. but i feel in love with him and kept putting it off, i ... (168 words)

Worried that my boyfriend may be going off me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone Sorry if i drone on in this but i really want some help please My bf and i have been together just over 6 months He is my first ever bf and im in my early 20's We used to be long distance as he was away with work a lot but now he is closer with work I now ... (381 words)

How could I get him to go down on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - any ideas on how to get him to go down on me? He never has once in 3 years....... (19 words)

I love him but I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is kind of embarassing. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and he hasnt introduced me to any of his friends (he says he hardly sees them because he spends all his free time with me, which could be true). He also never includes me in any of his family ... (142 words)

I blew it with my fiancee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance had a great relationship. Then i said some things I shouldn't have. We havn't spoken in a month. She has a new man. She wont take my phone calls,but she wont tell me whats goin on cause she still loves me. What do I do? ... (49 words)

My best friend's brother took my virginity...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Ok so I like my best friends brother. He took my virginity. I known him for 4 years and liked him 2 years of the 4 I've known him. We had sex only two times. We got a chance to talk and he said he doesnt want to be in a relationship. Im sixteen and hes twenty-four. I know its ... (109 words)

He watches porn all the time... which makes me insecure!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - About a month ago I was looking through my boyfriends online history and saw a lot of porn sites. I never knew that he watched porn but this knowledge didnt really bother me until I started checking his history on a daily basis and saw that he watched porn all the time, even ... (161 words)

My boyfriend is trying to change who I am and control what I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to everyone out there reading this. My question has to do with being in love with my bf but not willing to change who I am.To make myself a little more clearly I will tell you a little more about my problem. I been living for almost 11 months with my bf. Since we meet I told ... (338 words)

Any ideas on how to create a bond between me and this girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

31 January 2007 (?) - any ideas on how to find out and create a bond between me and this girl i like. we been on a date. and since i called her today. and we talked for a while. she was talkin alot. but she never calls me. but if she misses my call she texts back to ask why i called coz she doesn't ... (167 words)

He flirts with other women, he has to have his way and he has a huge ego! Do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

31 January 2007 (F)

age - i have been with him 8 years. he claims he loves me but i refuse to marry him because he has a big ego and has to be 'the one in the limelight 24/7 and he's always right'.he cannot pass a woman without flirting and gets mad if i say anything. he buys me anything i want and ... (81 words)

I keep hoping she'll regret our breakup and come back to me! How do I deal with this heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

31 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, my girlfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me four months ago and i just cant stop thinking of her. i do feel better than i did at the beginning but im worried that im always gonna think that i would be happier with her than with any one i may meet in the future. we were absolutl... (763 words)