| A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes: Ok, I have arelationship with a man friend and he always has been controlling. I recently moved to another place and he comes to visit regularly. He has a habit of staying close to the windows and complaining that the windows are drafty, that it is cold in my apt and that I need to assert my rights with the landlord concerning issues like I have an electric stove and he thinks I should have a gas stove as he says it heats up faster. I like the electric stove, do not find it drafty ( I do not spend my days looking out the windows or sitting next to them and I am NOT cold in my apt. How do I get him to stop hounding me to harass people to make all these changes that only HE wants? Why is he constantly trying to cause trouble between me and the landlord? I agree I do pay rent every month but why do I need to assert myself to address issues that do not bother me and are not violations of cosed but personal preferences and again not even My personal preferences. Got a good comeback when he starts pushing me to harass the landlord? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007):
I think he is right about the gas stove.
Do you really want to keep him? Doesnt sound like he is really a winner. But if you do why not just up the up the heat when he comes over?
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Buy him a sweater to wear when he comes over and a sock for his mouth.
...............................
|
