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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get revenge on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i get revenge: Was seeing my ex for 2 years, fell pregnant 5 months ago, he did want it didnt want it etc this went on til i was 5 mnths gone. He then was dead against having it and cos i was so in love i went with his decision. Had abortion on Monday gone, he was there ... (104 words)

I am a low priority in her life..is she 'taking me for granted'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a great relationship for almost two years. I found what I believed to be the perfect woman for me. We discussed engagement seriously. Even though it hasn't happened yet, we were to that point. Once she felt it was a sure thing, she began taking me for granted a... (131 words)

Can you explain some sexual stuff to me..please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i feel really stupid and embarrassed asking these but could someone explain what a blow job, hand job, 69er...and anything else like that is? lol thankyou... (27 words)

I worry he'll stop liking me! How do I stop this pointless stressing and worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys How do i stop myself stressing over something so pointless? The guy i really liked asked me out and we have been going out for three weeks, we get along real well everyone says we are a great couple and im pretty sure he really likes me...but i constently worry th... (67 words)

Lack of female interest has caused lonliness for me and I'm drinking a lot! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 24 and I've virtually always been single. The few times I have managed to ask a girl out it has lasted at most a few weeks (clearly they have come to their senses). I also tend to get the "I just wanna be friends" reaction from girls a lot, which is no help at all, ... (394 words)

I'm shy, have depression and can't pluck up the courage to meet my bf's freinds! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend since June (06), and i cannot pluck up the courage to meet his friends. I suffer from depression and i am very shy around new people. We recently moved in together, and out of the blue 4 of his friends turned up one afternoon. The whole time... (104 words)

Friend trouble! How do I cope and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this isn't really a question! Is that ok? Well a couple of months ago I ended a relationship with a boy I've now realised I'm in love with. That may sound a little exterme - LOVE - but I am. He had many girlfriends after me and I was pretty jelous! It all started when I ... (444 words)

Dated men all my life but find I am attracted to females. Why is this happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with men all my life but i found myself attracted to a female. why?... (17 words)

How do I change my screen name on this site?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age - how do i change my screen name on dear cupid?... (10 words)

She's engaged to another but I'm convinced she's not in love with him. I care deeply for her--what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - OK - here goes. I'm in a bit of dilemma over a girl. We met at university and, at the time, I knew she was going out with someone. However, we kept seeing a lot of each other as friends - drinks, dinner - to the extent that I began to think that there was more to it, thou... (484 words)

Broke up with this guy and fell on love with his brother. But we can't tell his family.! Any advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for over 3 years but we broke up over a year ago. I gave him everything a person could possibly give in a relationship but he was a very selfish man and was only concerned with himself and his hobbies. Throughout our relationship I would turn to his brother when ... (296 words)

If a girl fancies you, does that mean that they find you good looking/handsome/sexy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - If a girl fancies tyou, does that mean that they find you good looking/handsome/sexy? Thanks!... (18 words)

I have an eating problem and really hate myself. It's affecting my sex life..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone Can you help me please? I have a wonderful husband we will be married 4 years this May. But the problem is me. I have no confidence in myself. I have an eating problem and really hate myself. I feel fat and unattractive. Even though I am 7 stone 12 and my ... (129 words)

Ideas needed for an awesome Superbowl Party! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need ideas on hosting an awesome Superbowl Party. Last night our house was picked to host the superbowl party. All the "guys" and 1 other girl (another wife lol) have asked for the day off. We should be expecting 10-20 ppl in our house and I've never hosted a football... (72 words)

New to Belgium...how can we have a better social life and how can we make new friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi y'all I need to know , how to make friends ? i am new in Belgium , a year now i hv been taking Dutch lessons to learn the language , i take it at a subsidized school for foreigners who come to Belgium to integrate ( these classes are filled with people from Morocco , Ru... (271 words)

Unrequite love for an ex gf! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm an 18 year old male, i was with my ex girlfriend for almost 2 years through college and we were deeply in love. We suddenly split up due to university and that her parents disliked me (for traditional values, they had never actually met me). Today, I'm just home from ... (164 words)

Tips needed...to make a guy fall for a girl! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Anyone got any top flirting tips that can help a girl make a guy fall for her? xxx... (18 words)

She hooks up with guys in front of me! I love her and this annoys me! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this problem with an ex-girlfriend of mine. We were dating for six months and I fell deeply in love with her. Then one day in May 2006 she just decided to break up with me because I was "chocking" her (not giving her time with her friends, not stopping kissing her, ... (517 words)

Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating? It's ruining my diet. I eat really healthy at mealtimes but then something will happen and make me reach for the chocolate bars. I've tried counselling and it didn't work for me but I'd be glad of any other suggestions. ... (52 words)

He's fooling around with my picture..re: sexual poses. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Hmm, i suppose i am going to get multiple responses for this but if a lad takes your picture and imports his own picture so it ends up looking like your in a sexual position. does it mean anything? xxx... (40 words)

Can you get pregnant or catch std from having unprotected anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Can u gt pregnant or catch sti from havin unprotected anal sex? if u can which ones? are they treatable? Please help xxx... (23 words)

Why am I attracted to the wrong type of man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Why am I attracted to the wrong type of man? I've been divorced for 5 years now with 3 kids and working full time in a great job. I'd been with my ex husband for 17 years until he decided the grass was greener on the other side! When we separated I was a complete wreck, ... (140 words)

Do you think he has feelings for me? Or am I reading into it too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with this guy and I dont have the courage to tell him. Before, I used to be able to call/text him without hesitation, but now i always think twice. Does it mean that I dont have feelings for him anymore, or is it im just too emotionally involved as I scared that he ... (251 words)

My sensible friend has gone wild! She wanks off guys, gives a blowjobs! What's up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- My friend is 15, and has recently been going out clubbing and to parties alot. She's been kissing random guys and at a recent party she wanked this lad off and gave him a blow job. She's a very sensible girl, and clever and I don't think she'd do anything stupid, but I'm just ... (153 words)

How do I meet a loving man after years of no dating? Any advice or tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Ok, approaching another birthday. Single female. Single parent for 10yrs after last partner went to work after 11yrs and 2 kids and didnt come back (another woman involved).Im over that long ago, but put kids first and work too. In the last 2yrs ive lost my parents, a good ... (142 words)

Unhappy in my relationship and I need your advice! Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old mother of two. I've been with the same guy for 6 1/2 years, he is the father of both my children. I chose him to be my life partner because when we first met, he was strong, supportive, loving, and secure. We've had our ups and downs throughout our six years ... (460 words)

He's been put off sex which has caused me to be more clingy! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Hi, Im 17 and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last nite. This morning we went to the clinic and got the morning after pill and i had no side effects or problems and im fine. Before my boyfriend ususally goes home in a different town - we often have (safe) sex as... (171 words)

He cheated on me with another woman...I took him back. Do you think he's learned his lesson?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for 7 years and then seperated and met a new guy, I have been with him for 4.5 years and have just found out he has been cheating. He met this girl out drinking and they were just texting so he told me. I got her number and then rang her she told me that the... (164 words)

My bf trusted me and still--I cheated on him with 2 lads! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Hi im 14 years old and have a 17 year old boyfriend. i have being going out with him for a week. Anyway i went to my friends brothers 18th and got drunk, as did everyone their. My bf trusted me and i cheated on him with two different lads. it wasnt bad just kissing but i still ... (78 words)

I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have met this really nice girl - noth... (98 words)

How do I convince his Mother to let us date and see each other more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK i really really need help!! me and my bf have been going out for about 3 weeks and i love him SO much (we also went out for 8 months last year...then split for 5 months) so were really close, and we love each other very much....but we have a problem...his mom is SO over p... (143 words)

We can't be together but my bf still loves me! What should I tell him so he can stop loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please help my bf and i have just broken up.i still have feelings 4 him and he tells me he loves me which hurts. we cant be together because i have too much going on in my life. i need advice on how to get him to stop.... (57 words)

During sex..wife get headaches and feels like she's having a heart attack! What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age - my wife feels like she is having a heart attack and gets a severe headache every time she gets really aroused during sex. what can we do? ... (27 words)

Too much wine! My bf caught me passed out on the couch with another guy! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - On friday night my boyfriend came round and we just stayed in. He had been working n his house all day and was tired so he went to bed early. I stayed up as I didnt want to go to bed that early. I had a couple of glasses of wine and spoke to some friends on messenger. my mum a... (471 words)

Do I risk looking like a fool and tell him..I want a 'proper' relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Been separated for nearly 5 years now, had a few bad relationships since. For over a year now I'be been seeing a guy for 'casual sex'. We did date about two years ago but he ended it. We live in a small village and see each other most days in the passing. Everyone knows we ... (170 words)

She's afraid to date me because of the risk of losing our friendship! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend is female nd i care about her so much. i now find my self liking her more than a friend, wen i tld her i want to be with her she said it would not work because she does not want to lose a friend. i love her so much as a friend and more i know i would never stop ... (110 words)

He broke my trust by lying to me! Do I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner of 4 years has broken my trust buy lying to me.we have a chid together that is 18 months old. i went to visit him last night but couldnt bring myself to spend the night with him even though i wanted to! we have been through a lot but he cant find it in himself ... (88 words)

Bf is concerned that if I get braces-I will look ugly and not be able to give him blowjobs! Any advice for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I still give a blowjob if I get braces? I'm thinking of getting one, but my bf wouldn't want me to because he says it will make me look ugly and I might not be able to give him blowjobs because it might hurt the both of us. I wonder if I would get hurt or if he would feel ... (72 words)

Why on earth did he leave me..just like that? Help me understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - things were good with me and my bloke hes 22 in im 21 we both fell in love..lately he been having a lot of fights with his parents not sure what they were about but i do know that his mum doesnt like me so it could of been about me...my bf said to me today that hes had enough ... (237 words)

Can you be in love at 14?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Can you be in love at 14? ... (7 words)

How do I ask my partner about his late night 'dating site' visit, without causing a huge row?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My common-law husband is visiting adult dating chat rooms while I am sleeping. If I ask him about it I know he get defensive and hide the truth (he knows I wouldn't approve). Any advice on how I can approach this topic with him without causing a fight and with getting the ... (55 words)

How do I help my bf get in contact with his son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age - i met my partner when he was a drug user,i was giving support to help him become clear of drugs.only after he was clear of heroin did we become sexually involved. i'd fallen in love with him before any relationship had started. he had lots of sad memory's of the past, ... (152 words)

Dating etiquette! When a guys asks you for a date, do you reply immediately or wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey i was just wondering..if a guy you like, like asks you to get together on a date should you say directly yes or wait till next day and say yes? i don't want to sound desperate when this happens in the future. And if he asks one of his friends to come and talk to u, should i ... (88 words)

Our sex life is not good and I feel very unattractive! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age - im 43 iv been with my partner for 3years he is 34 we used to have a good sex life but all thats gone we only have sex now when he want to which is not very often,i feel like its me that he carnt be bothered.he carnt be touching me during the night in bed he saya he to hot yet ... (77 words)

Scared to get noisy, wild and dirty in bed! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have just sleeping together and when we spoke about it he said that i dont make any noise, I want to but i feel so stupid. I know i could be quite wild in bed but im scared to let myself go as i am shy of my body... (53 words)

How do I leave my immature bf who doesn't work and lives with his parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I live with my boyfriend and his parents. He is 28, never worked a day in his life, does not have a education and is immature. I am 23, I want to go to school and start working again, but I feel held back by him. I do not see a future at all and want to leave, but not sure ... (141 words)

He was my friend and I told him I liked him. Now he won't talk to me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - since i told my crush of a few years that i liked him, he has completely stopped talking to me. is he creeped out? we used to be really good friends - how did this happen? i have to admit that i'm now more comfortable talking to him, as the mutual rule has been laid down hat ... (132 words)

My married ex bf is looking for love in all the wrong ways. How do I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6543 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and I broke up unofficially recently and has had two girlfriends since then. His new girlfriend is feeling hurt that he would go hook up with other women despite their new relationship. My ex leads a very confused life - he wants love, but i think he o... (182 words)

Can a girl get pregnant on her period?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well me and my girl have been together for 18 months and last week on friday 3 days before her period was over i had decided to have unprotected sex with her and wanted to know if you can get preganant while on your period?... (45 words)

He's an internet junkie - how can they be cured?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age - my husband is an internet junkie and its going to split us up helllp please... (15 words)

My fiancee ran his hand down this girl's back at the bar he hangs out in... what does it mean!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - What does it mean when you are out drinking at a bar with your fiance' that you are marrying in four months and you see him run his hand down another girls back as she is walking by? From top to bottom not touching her butt or anything? I know if a guy was rubbing his hand ... (292 words)

We broke up and now he ignores me because I always try to talk to him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

- Hi, I really like this guy and he used to like me too but didnt want to go out with me, ive tried really hard to move on, but i cant. Now im talking to him more and more but i think it's annoying him and hes becoming more distant. He never replies to my texts anymore and hardly ... (103 words)

My dad was sent to prison for indecent assault on a minor. How do we all cope as a family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My father was accused and found guilty of indecent assualt on a child. the story is really long so i will cut it short as possible. The girl was my brother ex gfs daughter. My brother and his ex gf would argue constantly My father would be called early hours in the morni... (774 words)

His Mother is narcisstic, has OCD and I want to get him away from her! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about relationships with in-laws to be. I would like to marry my BF of 9yrs. I worry about our future relationship with my in-laws. His mother is extreamly minipulative and has Narcissistic personality disorder as well as OCD hoarding disorder and I would al... (232 words)

Is it normal to touch yourself when having an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - IS IT NORMAL TO TOUCH YOURSELF WHEN HAVING AN ORGASM?... (10 words)

We had trust issues so he broke up with me! He'a all I had! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6545 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 yrs. and we were in love, Until the day he thought i didnt trust him. But i do but sometimes people say things that seem so real. Well he broke up with me and says we dont want a girlfriend but i'm afraid to loose him, he all i ... (81 words)

I'm not sexual so why are there so many men sexually attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know why every man that I meet seem to be sexually attracted to me and I am not a sexual person is there something wrong with me.... (30 words)

How do you get over a bf that you know you can never have again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u get over a b.f that u can nvr have again ok i bet u want the story in 4th grade i had the best b.f named eric but on his b.f after a yr we dated he died n im 13 now n in 7th grade n its hard for me to date but i do but everytime i think of eric its rele hard for me to ... (314 words)

Three girls in school I like but I'm not able to take it to the next level..any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

- Hi, so I've been kinda having this problem for a long time now. This year is my last year in high school and there are three girls that I flirt with in different classes. Now, I'm 100% that they like me by the way they act and talk, but I've never been able to take anything to ... (277 words)

He's married but will he call me back for a repeat performance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Question about behaviour of married men.. should I expect a phone call out of the blue in the future from a man I met a little while ago (one night stand, apparently intense feelings on both sides)looking for a repeat performance? Am not familiar with the ways of the cheating ... (72 words)

She wants to be friends but should I still ask her out on a date for Valentine's Day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (?) - i want to ask this girl i really like out on valentines day. before i went on holiday i asked her out on msn, she said she just wants to be friend's right now. i went on holiday for 4weeks. now i'm back. suprisingly every girl who rejects me never talks to me and ignores me. ... (108 words)

Violent bf has asked me to come back! How can I stay strong and say no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just split up with my violent boyfriend but he is asking to come back. I told him no but how can I stay strong? We were together for 10 years and we have a son... (37 words)

I need to know...how do you know if a girl is attracted to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

- how do you know if a girl is attracted to you. I have talked to a few girls who I find attractive but look like they don't find me attractive. whilst ones who seem to flirt with me I don't find attractive or they could just be taking the piss. Any help please.... (54 words)

Any other good websites to get advice about approaching women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

21 January 2007 (M)

- OK I know this sounds like a stupid question but does anyone know any good places to ask about relationship advice (approaching women etc.) APART FROM this site. I ask because I went onto askmen.com and although some stuff was good advice, it generally felt like it was ... (59 words)