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writes: I met this girl a couple of months ago and we became good friends quite fast. She really likes my friend although he doesnt like her back.Anyway I ended up drunk a few nights ago and told her on the phone i loved her.Now I apoligised to her she said its okay but she seems a bit distant.What should I do as i dont know whether to call her or just leave her for a while.Even if we just went to being friends again I would be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): im a gurl, i told my best friend i loved him aswell and he tuk it well and sed he luved me but not like that and then we hardly spoke for ages but eventually about just under a month later he just started talking to me and now we r best friends with benefits. i think it's just a shok wen u tell ur mate u love them wether u mean it or don't or just regret it after. if she's a decent friend she will come around and u and her will be ok again.
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 We all do dumb stuff sometimes when we're drunk so you are not alone. Apologise to her and tell her you were drunk and you didn't mean to freak her out and hope that things won't be too weird between you. Also it would be better if you told her in person rather than on the phone because she might think "oh no he's calling again, it's gonna be weird talking to him now so I better not pick up." Let's hope that doesn't happen but it would be best if you told her in person.It will be less weird and less awkward.the more you see eachother the quicker things wil go back to normal.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Well, I'd say she is probably bit freaked out about this. After all she has been looking at your friend with romantic interest, not you. I'd say call her up, tell her you meant what you said, (if you truly meant it), and that you hope that this won't interfere with your friendship. She's probably now thinking about your potential and being around her will only be to your benefit. This is a be patient and wait and see situation.
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