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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think his idea of 'love' means just convenient sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age - For over 2 years I have been involved with a divorced man my age. We had met a year before that but I was still in a very troubled marriage (5 years, no children)so all we did was talk, like pals, and then I didn't see him again. I had no other interest in this man, and would ... (1110 words)

Gf is casuinf trouble for me--should I just break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 13 and my girlfriends 16. we recently had a fight because her name wasnt in my msn name. which is perfectly understandable because iv told her that i dont show emotion in msn. so she went and got her couzin to threaten me (which was blatently obvious) and then claims she ... (125 words)

I'm 40 and I need advice on how how can I meet someone nice without embarassing myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - How can I find a boyfriend? I'm not a kid - I'm a 40 year old woman! I was married young and very inexperienced. I was hurt very badly by my ex and had virtually no sex life, but stayed together with him for a long time. So I've no idea how to date. Now I've been single for ... (110 words)

He's spontaneous...I like things planned ahead of time! Is this just a guy thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend never seem like he's on top of things. I always see him as not knowing how to prepare things ahead of time. Maybe I'm a bit on the organize side. But I like the idea of knowing what to do next. On the other hand, my boyfriend is a really serious and thinks alot ... (87 words)

I don't want to be like his ex-wife and ask him to stop playing his video games..but it is buggin me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend plays video game as a way to release stress (or for fun too). His ex-wife always had a problem with him playing games and not spending time with her. He's only in his early 20s. He doesn't smoke or drink or go clubbing. Everyone has their own hobby. Now I'm with... (172 words)

I want someone I can have a future with-should I break it off with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

- Hey everyone! A very happy new year to you all! I wanted your opinion on this dilemma i'm faced with. I'm 25 and my boyf is 3 yrs n 10 months younger than me. We're very much in love and have been for the last yr n a half. I come from a family where they expect me to get... (469 words)

I can't trust her and I need someone reliable! Should I walk away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together 6 yrs. 3 months ago she decided to start to flirt with some guy on myspace. It progressed into her playing with herself while she would talk to him on the phone, in my bed. I did some snooping cuz I could tell there was something up. I ... (289 words)

How do I know he is not just using me as someone convenient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I am so confused regarding my ex (he is early 20's). He has a brain injury which means he doesn't recall things or doesn't realise the impact he has on people when he communicates or acts in a negative way. He doesn't have the tact and developed communication skills of most ... (830 words)

My new guy keeps going on about how great I am but it's making me uncomfortable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey, I like this guy, we get on well, he's hot we're dating... but....he really likes me. This may seem like an odd "problem" but it kinda freaks me out that he's just so open about it. He's always overdramatically going on to people about how great i am (both when im there and ... (104 words)

I've never used birth-control before and I have a few questions about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - question from a 16-year-old..isn't birth control bad for you body and health?..i've never used a birth control before..so i dont know how it works..do u have to keep using them?..... (30 words)

Just started a relationship but I am embarrased about the size of my penis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have recently gotten into a relationship with what i feel is the love of my life but i am embarrased about the size of my penis and i want to make love, i feel its a good way to show my love to her...i dont know what to do....please help !... (52 words)

I developed stretch marks from gaining weight and now I'm losing weight they are still there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Dear aunt Ive become really sad recently because of my body. When growing i developed a few stretch mark at the top of my legs, i was never down hearted about this because they wernt that visable. However, Earlier this year after a rough time i put on weight making the ... (149 words)

When will my sister stop telling me not to be moody? I haven't had a temper since I was a teen and she acts like I still do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi: I'm 32 yrs. single and currently living with my parents. An older sister of mine (34yrs.) who visits frequently sometimes makes innapropriate comments about my temper like she used to do when we lived toghether and when we were on school. This things made me grow up with ... (359 words)

I'm shy, so how do I go about talking to the boy I like? I've not really spoken w/ him before.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi every1, need ur advice!!HELP i really like this guy we are both 16(he's older). he is in my class. i am kinda unsure if he likes me or not? we don't talk what so ever. although once he was assigned to be seated next to me in class but after a week or so he changed his place ... (170 words)

After our discussion about my trust issues w/ her, she acts the same. Is it time to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Is it time to call it quits in the relationship when you have a lot of doubts/questions about your girlfriend? We've had talks about my feelings and 'trust issues' before. But, the same things seem to be happening over and over. Is it because I can't get them out of my h... (136 words)

My bf is outgoing in social settings and I'm shy and uncomfortable. This makes me feel bad about myself. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi! i'm a shy young lady who loves her boyfriend, but has a problem with jealousy and possessiveness. Even though, I know he means well to me, I still feel suspicious towards him and asking annoying questions. Deep down inside I feel that what he tells me is the truth and that... (222 words)

He's lying to me about stuff on his computer! How do I tell him I went through it and know he's lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - m upset because i feel my relationship is going downhill, my b/f lied to me about stuff that i found on his computer i asked him if he had it he said 'no' but i saw it with my own eyes how do i tell him i know he is lying i went through his personal belongings?... (57 words)

My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they are only judging him on his ... (63 words)

How can you tell if you're pregnant while on the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi. Does anyone know how to tell if ur pregnant while on the pill? Do you still get a period or will it stop? Thanks!... (26 words)

We were friends, then slept together. I liked him, but he didn't want a r-ship. Now we hardly talk and I feel so bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - does his guy really like me? Ok...here is the story, its a long one! i just am so confused, i wish i could read guys minds! We met at college about 5 years ago, and for about 2 years we were the best of friends. We used to go to the cinema a big group of us, he used to co... (806 words)

My gf moved in and we tried to blend our families. Then she moved out b/c her son wasn't happy. I feel very empty now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years now. About six months ago we decided to move in together and try to blend our families. I have a 15 year old daughter who lives with me and two boys ages 13 and 9 who live with me on the weekends. She has a 7 year old ... (165 words)

I saw that a woman emailed my husband about spanking him! I'm devistated but don't want to end it b/c of an email!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I put this one on other place and I have never done this before but I need help. So public I need your advise. Here we go. I have been happily married for 12yrs. been together for 15yrs. We don't have children. We have always done things together. Between recreati... (424 words)

My fiance emailed women from dating sites and turns everything we say into an argument! How can we stop this petty squabbling??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi I wonder if you can help me......I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, lived together for over 2 years and plan to marry next year. When we are getting on, things are great but when they arnt, they are very bad and we seem to be falling out all the time, over ... (567 words)

I can't climax in any position - any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - In any position whatsoever i cant ever reach a climax, can someone give me some advise... (16 words)

I was really upset when we broke up, but i was in tears wen i heard about this gal! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf were together for 7 months then he ended it because we were apparntly too close. So now we are both single, 14 and see eachother around school. He gives me hugs and kisses and that... but its nice beacuse i like attention from him! But last saturday he met sum gals ... (300 words)

How can I help my husband get a life that doesn't include me? He needs hobbies and friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - My husband is very clingy and would like to spend all of his time around me. I'm okay with that some of the time, but i also need time with my friends and family. He always wanted to get married, and i think he believed that being married would give him an identity. I find... (195 words)

I slept with my best friend's brother, but I really have feelings for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i really need help! i have a bf and recently i lost my virginity 2 him. my relationship with him was bad enough because he is my best friend's younger brother. however for quite a while now i have been having incredibly strong feelings for the best friend ( a girl). i neva stop ... (183 words)

She said she wanted to meet w/ her ex and I said I didn't like it. Now she's ignoring my calls and sending me abusive texts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (M)

age - Am i right to be concerned??? AGAIN !!! See yesterdays post. Thanks for advice...but now what do I do? After telling me that she wanted to meet her ex on Tuesday afternoon I simply said that my instant reaction was that I was not happy. I had to attend an evening commit... (333 words)

We split after 8 years last April. Then he dated and split w/ the girl after 2 months. We've been getting along, but now she's back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age - OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years and four rounds of surgery, ... (260 words)

Can friends with benefits bring you and your ex back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Can friends with benefits bring you and your ex back together? I was just wondering cuz my ex and i are friends with benefits and he doesnt want a gf or a relationship right now. We have been friends for a good while before we started dating then when we broke up we remi... (272 words)

My fiance called me and said he's leaving! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I just got a call and my soon to be husband told me to have my daughter at my mothers when he gets off work. I asked him why and then I asked why are you leaving me and he said yes, that we rushed into this and that he never lived on his own. We have worked together for almost ... (89 words)

He does nothing when he gets home and breaks promises. He blames me for that! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for three years. We have a combined 7 children, including one together. He has always been what you would call a "free spirit", But lately I have caught him lying, and he has been less attentive than usual. He doesnt call as often, or sometimes not ... (239 words)

I'm 12 and feel ready for a bf, then when I actually have one I freak out and dump him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi..... well im a 12 yr old girl 13 this yr and ever since ive started secondary school i've only had one bf but i dumped him the next day cuz i totally freaked out:S:S and the same happend in junior school. i had a bf but i couldn't talk to him or nothing when i was going... (104 words)

Our sex life is non-existant. I even get the feeling she'd be happy if I left her and the kids. How do I save our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

11 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 6 years and I have 3 beautiful kids. I love her and used to think she did too. However, she just won’t have sex with me. It went downhill after our first baby but that was OK – she just needed time right? Now our youngest is 16 months and I cannot take the ... (351 words)

We haven't been getting along for the past year - is it our age difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - problem , i"m 41 and my girlfriend is 28,we have been together 7 yrs and for the most part its been the best ever relationship i've been in, (two previous relationships)for the past twelve months the relationship has slowly been going wrong, clashes of opions, ... (151 words)

She split, said she wasn't seeing anyone, then phoned 3 weeks later to say that she was. We were engaged! Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - hi my girlfriend and i were together for nearly seven years,she is 21 and i am 26.we have been engaged for nearly 3years and we brought our first house together in august 2005 and everything seemed to be going well,then the end of november she finished with me and said she ... (329 words)

My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (M)

- My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. we was laying in bed i... (1143 words)

My ex's grandmother made plans to visit me for a few days! How can I politely tell her no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

- Hi cupids Here it goes my ex and I broke it off 3yrs ago we have a son together who turned 9 this year, we had an on/off rship for almost 10yrs during this time I got very close to his family and friends and the same went for him we were hoping to get married but things d... (575 words)

I get turned on by naked chicks more than men.. scared I may become a lesbian!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'm a female and not a lesbian but i get turned on seeing women naked than seeing men naked. What the heck is wrong with me!?? This is very unlikely for a woman but i do get excited when i see women's breast and women in bikinis (only those you see on the pornsites, not t... (133 words)

Want to start a family but my husband won't participate in the "creation"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Ok, so here's the deal. I've been happily married for a little over a year now and unfortunately I had some health issues last spring. As of a few months ago, I am happy to report that I have made a full recovery and my doctors have informed my husband and I that it's ok to ... (213 words)

He became a sex-machine after he proposed... huh?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my BF for 9 years now and I recently hinted that I am now over my cold feet and am ready to get engaged. I just wondered why is it that sex has changed between us since I put that thought in his head?? He is now way more confident and before h... (116 words)

Do I stay with my new faithful guy, or go back with the old one who dated other girls while we were together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F)

- im in a situation that is confusing me i have just meet a great guy and we get on really well.. there has been no drama he texts me and is the cutest guy in the whole wide world. Things were going along really well until a flame from my past the one that i have really only just ... (231 words)

I have symptoms of pregnancy, but both tests turned out negative. I don't know what's going on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, so can yall help me? I mean okay the last time me and my *ex* man had sex was November 21. My monthly red ended a week before that. It's now January 10th and I still have not gotten my period. I don't know? I took two pregnancy tests two weeks after November 21 ... (90 words)

My GF of 6 years wanted space to sort out her feelings - should I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Will we ever be together again?? My gf and I dated for 6 years. We are both 24. Anyways our relationship was good. We were both deeply in love. In the summer she said that she felt like she had drifted apart from me and that if felt like she only loved me as a friend and not... (425 words)

Tend not to like a guy until I've slept with him... then I'll obsess about him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi. i hope someone can give me some reassurance or advice on a problem i have. every time i sleep with a guy i start to really like him, and i won't be able to stop thinking about him for months and months. Every thought i have is somehow related to him, and i desperat... (160 words)

I'm 19 and a virgin and met a 41-year old woman on webcam... We're meeting this Saturday!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Ok. I’m 19years old and have been desperate to lose my virginity for years, I’ve had chances to with decent girls but have stop our relationship getting to the next level because they where not virgins too. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, as I’ve got older I feel that I want ... (481 words)

Been together 3 years, have a baby but I am fond of someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry did post b4 but didnt add some details I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only 19 yrs old and i feel trapped tha... (84 words)