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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why am I always the one to arrange for us to meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - rightt iv been realy close with this lad for 2 years now! i like him more than any lad iv ever met and he feels the same! i know hes not just playing me, cause i havnt slept with him yet lol! all his mates know how close we are and that and hes a realy nice lad! however ... (87 words)

We love each other but he works out of state and it's doing my head in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Do people that seem to still love one another get divorced? There's no physical/emotional abuse to speak of, no alcoholisim or drugs, and no "omg..I just found out I'm gay". The problem is growing apart...and my husband works out of state. We haven't seen one another for more ... (186 words)

Confused about my three men...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- I had been dating a man James for a time and things went wrong we met again and told me he wuld like to be with me if I stayed in town, told me not to worry as he had a nice job so that if I couldn't get a cool job here he would be supportive and asked me to wait after he ... (270 words)

I find myself being very nervous about driving. Any tips to dealing with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- I get nervous abour driving on the highway I do it right and need it for working and find many lorries and special vehicles on the way ,I even have nightmares about driving from an different place and see the car from outside, any tips to get more relaxed??? ta... (52 words)

My brother's wife is quite rude to our Mother! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- My brother's wife gave birth for the 1st time 2 weeks ago, she had lots of help from my mummy and I like doing the shopping or tidy her house b4 she came back from hospital, my parents are wealthy and try to help them anytime, my mom invites them for eating and sends them ... (263 words)

Is it normal for her, to mess around with with other guys not even 2 days after we go on a "break"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - hey everyone you guys rock. the girl i love put us on a "break" and during this time she has made out with numerous people and lied about it numerous times. its killing me. everytime we talk it ends up in a fight because i build up so much animosity towards her between the ... (139 words)

Looking to get involved in lapdancing/strip-clubs in England... anyone know what goes on, what to expect etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- Information wanted from anyone experienced in English lapdancing/strip clubs. I'm looking to get into lapdancing as a past time and to earn some money while I study, just need some info on what to expect and where to go, how it all works etc. Anyone who has been there before, ... (55 words)

We make each other miserable! So should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved in with my Boyfriend, I have been with him for 5 years, Things were ok but then all of a sudden he seemed to turn. We used to talk and now we dont. We dont get on we make each other miserable. i dont want to leave him but i dont want to stay with him either. We ... (77 words)

How do I tell my ex bf- that we take our 'sex buddy' relationship further or I'm moving onto the college guy who likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been undecided on my feelings for my ex since we broke up in october, I've known for a long time that I don't love him, but we've fooled around every now and then when he's between girlfriends and we get on fantastically, he's one of the only people I know who really gets ... (520 words)

Am I blaming all my stress on my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - Either im stressed or im holding grudges on my girlfriend, but recently I have been a bit stressed with a few events plus extra work and stuff and I feel that I have been either blaming them on my relationship I haven't seen my girlfriend for about 6 days now because she ... (85 words)

I told my bf that I missed him - he said "act like it then!" What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i need some help or its goin dowwwnnnn!!..uhm..me and my bf been goin out for about 4 months now..and uhm..when i talk on the phone with him, i tell him all the time that i miss him..but these couple of days..he reply back sayin..i doubt it..or "act like it then"..what is that ... (76 words)

My friend said she was fine with me and her guy friend going out, but now she's calling me names!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- Hmmm, right i like this lad...he likes me, pretty straight forward right? not really seen as he's my mates mate n she reli reli likes him. He asked me out n i said yes. My friend said she was fine with it but isnt and now she making me feel bad about everything,she has even ... (125 words)

My partner of 5 years had "something" going on with a sales assistant he chatted up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age - I have lived with my partner 5 years. About 8 weeks ago, he chatted up a sales assistant - thus starting ...something. I know he sent her flowers and I know they have talked on his mobile and sent sexy, lovey messages (but there were also some from a woman he works with too... (359 words)

He with this other 'perfect' girl now---so how do I get over him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi recently my boyfriend dumped me for another girl who is just perfect.. I've tried getting him back but he doesn't care I even once told him how I feel.. That was a mistake.. Enough said. Anyway, I'm so sick of chasing him and even though I love him so much I just don't want ... (78 words)

Why did he have 15 pair of women's size 10 shoes in his closet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there wondering if you can help with this situation that is really bothering me i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and so deeply in love with him he had his issues as do we all but as he lost his mother and didn't have much family he begun too push me away even though i ... (418 words)

I planned to meet an online guy friend. Then he cancelled b/c I'm married! What happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Having trouble getting over someone I never met!HELP? Yes, I am married! I met someone online 6 months ago. We talked about everything under the sun. WE became great friends. We looked forward to chatting w/each other daily. Even though I was married we felt we had develope... (168 words)

Should I see a doctor for the lump on my neck, or will it go away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - i currently have a problem, my neck on one side at the bottom nearing the shoulder has some sort of lump while the other side is straight. i would like to know is this worth goin to see a doctor or will it just go away in a few weeks??? plzzz help me as i am getting paranoid... (61 words)

Scared to have sex because it has hurt in the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is to do with SEX. I lost my virginity when I was 18 with a long-term boyfriend (who was also a virgin). It was painful, more so than I expected, but I didn't bleed. The second time was also just as painful, and I did bleed. We stayed together for about nine months ... (305 words)

Found out the 36 year old I'm dating is married... he wants me to be his "other lady"... advice so far is mixed!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need some help. I am 21 and this guy i am attracted to is 36yrs.Dont think he is taking advantage before him i have always dated older men.Recently i found out he is married and he admitted.I was very upset but we are still communicating.He has been having marital ... (176 words)

My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. After this happened, she was ... (180 words)

How comes no one has replied to my question? What's goin on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Last week I posted few questions on the website’s other option of “just post my question without registering”. By now I still have not receive any reply. Again here are my questions. Whether registered or not and when posting questions, can readers write up to a page or ... (112 words)

She broke up with her bf to be with me but I don't think she's completely over him. How can I help her move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - i have a wonderful relationship with this girl but didn't know she was attached, until she told me so when i confessed my feelings for her. but in the end she chose to break up with her bf of one year for me. i love her and it hurts me to see her crying over him. but she says ... (97 words)

He cheated on me but then told me he made a big mistake and is sorry. Should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 17 months. he told me yesterday that he has cheated on me. he told me the reason why he cheated was because we were not getting on and he wanted to finnish. but he realised he still loved me and still wanted to be with me and he made a big ... (153 words)

I want time alone with him but he keeps having his friends round! This is really upsetting me. Help plz.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with boyfriend for 3 years(i'm 30 hes 38) and we live together. he's out of work and ive got a stressful job.we love and trust each other.problem is his friends.one visits daily and he sees others regularly.i see friends too but my shifts are unsocial and i enjoy time ... (73 words)

Should I sit back and give her time to decide or should I not give up without a fight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone this is my first time so i would really appreciante some help !! About 5 months ago i met up with a old school friend who had just split up with her fella we went out for a couple of drinks and she told me about her 18 month old son ( which i have no problem with by ... (183 words)

Am I in love with the man or just the idea of being with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have recently become incredibly close to a friend of mine who is a good deal older than myself to the extent that we flirt with each other and spend a great deal of our time together. Thing is he lives with another woman his own age. I don't know what to do because when I'm ... (208 words)

Our 1 year anniversary... ruined when I found the pics on his camera of another girl being all slutty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - For me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary we went to the Morakami Museum, took a camera, loads of pics, everything was perfect. We sat down and ate, so I wanted to see some of our pics that we've taken so far. Going through them I saw pictures he took when he was at Jaycon ... (181 words)

2 month's rent!? How can anyone's love be so cheap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - It is possible for someone real feelings and love to change for money? My girlfriends who we have been together for 2 years and recently separated, telling me if you want to prove your love to me please pay for past two months rent (which I haven’t been living there) that way I ... (198 words)

I broke up with my girlfriend for various reasons but now I'm wondering if we should give it another go. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I need help please. I have been in the relationship for 2 years with this girl, I was planning my life with her, because I loved her. We had our problems as well, she was very short tempered, and wanted everything her way, I resented that and stayed to myself and expressed my ... (535 words)

I'm married but still in love with me ex. Should I give it a go with my ex and risk loosing everthing with my husband?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married, but still love my ex. I have been married for nearly a year now, together for nearly 5, but I am still in love with my ex. We regulary text each other and occasionally see each other (not sexually). We both get on really well but he wasn't ready for a relation... (143 words)

How can I stop my drunken cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, i love him very much but iv cheated on him a few times all of them have been drunken mistakes, but i jus cant seem to stop doin it. i only told him about one kiss and he seemed ok with it but this was at the very beginning, i ... (183 words)

Boyfriend's fertility test came up with poor results... what can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hello all please help me! Im 19yrs old. Me and my boyfriend recently took fertility tests. My result was fine but his was not. Hes finding it really difficult to cope with the fact that its a high possibility that he cannot have kids. And I dont know what to do to comfort him. ... (124 words)

Was battered for 20 years.. can I claim against him now for my medical problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) age - I was a battered wife for 20 years before i got up the guts to get away, by then our kids had grown up and left home. But i suffered from all sorts of problems now. I had a broken nose and now have to go back and have work done on it. Several broken teeth, they need remedial ... (136 words)

My boyfriend is confused about his sexuality. How do I help him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfrind of four years and has told me he thinks he is gay. We have a child together. I have told him to go and speak to someone but he wont he said he is confused. What can i do to help? I dont want to lose him but i dont want him to be unhappy. Is this common in some men? ... (84 words)

Meeting this other girl has made me realise how bad my current relationship is!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a relationship at the moment and have been for the past 5 years. For the past year or so things haven't been great and my partner has felt very distant and unapproachable. We don't talk as much as we used to and we keep having rows over money - we both earn good sal... (153 words)

When my bf goeas away I get really upset and cry. I'm so emotional. He doesn't know about this. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- Hi all Im in a great relationship with my bf but have a prob i just cant get my head around Previously he had to travel with work a lot and id see him once a week then not for 3 weeks I found this hard to cope with but things dont seem any better now He has moved close... (194 words)

My friend thinks I've been saying nasty things about her and I haven't! But no one believes me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- hey im 16 and need advice, a girl i have been mates with for 5 years has started tellin people about my private life and telling people that i've been saying bad things about her ( which i haven't) now i'm losing all my friends and i have no one to turn to and to top it all ... (83 words)

My guy on the side makes me feel special even though he only wants to have sex with me in the car. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a affiar with a 26 year old man. He has a girlfriend and two kids. I have a bf of 3 years i luv him to bits, but he doesnt make me feel special any more and the 26 year old does. Even tho he is just wantin sex i still enjoy being with him, i am fed up of being trea... (91 words)

Worried that my husband is being a "sex tourist" in South Thailand...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is vacationing in South Thailand. Many people have told me that chances are if he's there with his friends, that he's taking advantage of Thailands notorious 'Sex tourism' and that the vast majority of western people visiting Thailand end up in places where women are ... (162 words)

We split and he said never to contact him again. I want to apologize, but also feel he over-reacted - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I split with my boyfriend just before Christmas. I did love him, but didn't feel that 'butterflies' thing that I have had with previous boyfriends. He was a recovering alcoholic (though he had not drunk for two and a half years) and he had declared himself bankrupt at the end ... (452 words)

Can anyone tell me why men are such commitment phobes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men fear relationships/commitment so much, even if they fall in love? Why can't they just "go with the flow"??... (24 words)

I'm 15 and my parents seem not to like the idea of me dating. They don't trust me or my bf. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend who is 16 and im 15. i'm really happy with him but i haven't told mum and dad about him, i have been spending heaps of time with him and mum asked me if i was going out with him but i said no because i was afraid of what she would do or say.i have known him ... (125 words)

My girlfriend wants us to split up because she says she doesn't love me anymore. I'm broken inside! Should I let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 23 and gay. My gf is 30. there is no problem with the age. We've been together for 2 years and 3 months. Things were bad between us the past 7 months. But there was still love between us. now she want to splitup because she says she doesnt love me anymore. not in that way. ... (81 words)

Things just dont seem the same, can we recover??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and 2 weeks ago she said she doesnt want the relationship anymore, due to the arguements etc. She said she still wanted me and loves me. We agreed to give the relationship another go and try and improve, which so far we ... (201 words)

Is he worth it if he's shallow? Or shall I ditch the weight anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

- hi. im seventeen and overweight (I'm 5'4" and 160lbs). I have a friend who I know likes me, and I like him a lot, but I think he wants me to loose weight before we can date... Im not really sure, but I get that impression, especially since he's really fit and energetic. I ha... (156 words)

Been together for 20 years and she still can't remember my likes and dislikes... including sex-wise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - how can i get my wife to remember the things that i like without always having to repeat myself. this goes for almost everything sex included. i pride myself in trying to please her but she just dose not seem to want to know and complains when i ask her to do things slightly ... (84 words)

After three years, he said "I love you" and I said it back and laughed. But I really meant it! What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Right. so my best friend 'vicky' was guy coin out with this guy called 'jonny' and jonny had a housemate called 'rob'.. as general introductions go.. i met rob and thought he was cool. we all went out to a club together and we ended up back at their house, and rob started k... (369 words)

How do you stay with someone who cheated? How do you deal with the betrayal? Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - How do you stay with someone who cheated? Has anyone out there had someone cheat on you but you can't seem to leave them? How do you deal with the fact that you were betrayed? How do you know they want to be with you now? Are things ever the same? Can you still love that per... (122 words)

I'm pregnant but don't want another child out of wedlock. He's reluctant to marry me. What can I do to make him want to marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i have been together for over 5 years and have a son together. i found out recently that i'm pregnant again and when i tell him he says he can't handle that right now. when i ask about marriage he says not to rush him.he lives with me and i don't want another baby out ... (95 words)

My bf ex told me they were still together so I dumped him. He said she was lying. Who should I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well the thing is that me and my boyfriend had just started going out. The sweetest guy ever but in the back of my head i thought he was too good to be true so when his ex girlfriend wanted to start talking mess to me about them still being together i totally believed her ... (131 words)

My gf says she doesn't love me anymore! What am supposed to do? Help me plz

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

18 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend say's she doesn't love me anymore, what am i meant to do? i have been with her for the last 9 months, she say that her feelings have gone and she doesnt feel the same way anymore, but only a week ago she told me she loves me, i really love her i get on with her ... (70 words)

I don't feel like I have a home anymore. Anyone else ever felt like this? How'd you cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - After a brief period of time, i ddnt feel at home anymore with my parents, i went to visit a friend 600 miles away and loved it, so i moved down a few months after..my dad was ok with it my mum hit the roof..but their both fine with it now, tho me mum still barks at me for not ... (281 words)

My dad's girlfriend may be cheating on him I've gt proof! Should I tell him? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope someone will reply to this because i've got something on my mind i just need to write down. My dad has been with his girlfriend for 2years, she lives with us and i've just found really explicit messages sent in the history of our computer from his girlfriend to dozens of ... (109 words)

Did I scare him off or did he lose interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

18 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship but met someone else, He started telling me he was falling in love with me not long after, I decided to move out to be with him because he acted as if he was crazy for me. Once I was in my own place he started backing off. Now he is not calling.. He was ... (98 words)