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writes: i met a guy back in july he seemed at the time to be everything i wanted we broke up in october he seemed to have 2 personalities one minute he seemed to be the best person i have ever known the next he was the worst. he seemed to have issues about peoples weight not just my own even though im not the largest of people. the thing is even though he ended it and i told him it was fine an for the best anyway he still texts saying he as been thinking about me and wants to meet im confused why is he doing this should i give him another chance or change my number
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 Do you want to get back with him? If you do then go for it. If you don't then simply don't and ignore his texts.
If you are not sure what to do then you must ask yourself some questions:
If you did get back with him what are your reasons for getting back with him? Are there no other guys out there for you that you could be with? Do you want to be with a guy who's great one minute and by the blink of an eye totally changes?
But if you do get back with him you must first talk to him about the reasons you two broke up in the first place and let him know that you won't tolerate it this time. Tell him to sort out his issues before he can date you again.
I can't tell you what to do only you can decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): Well i would have a "talk" with him, he won't like it but you need to have this conversation.
Seems to me something is bothering him maybe about his own weight?
I would have the "talk" to eas your own mind so at least you still won't be thinking in 5 years did i make the right decision.
You need to get to the root of this "problem".
I would say he cares for you, and you are on his mind. But make sure thats because he cares for you and not because he's thinking of himself and feeling lonely. I'm afraid talking it out with him is the only way.
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