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writes: Hey there, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship seems perfect most of the time, however, he doesn't seem to want to move in with me and he doesn't talk to me at parties til he's drunk and inarticulate. I would like him to move in with me. If i ever probed the question i always got the comments of " i am happy with the way things are just now"this means for him that he lives with his mum where she does all his laundry, cooks for him and doesn't ask him for rent. (at least i think it does)He is 24.I am 21. he thinks its ok for him to stay with me, but not live with me and it blows majorly. How can i encourage my boyfriend to make the moving in to my apartment step. I really would just love his company. I am not too fussed about getting married yet, i'd just like to be with him more. Is there a way of getting him to move in and talk to me at parties?
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reader, Pretty and proud  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 there are two questions you are asking here.
1. You cant force anyone to move in with you but to encourage him you could make the nights that he stays with you more interesting and romantic for you both.
2. Talk to him at parties, BUT don't cling onto his arm all the time, at a party he may just find it as a time to talk to his friends and have a laugh with them, when the party is over hes all yours again.
hope i helped :-) xxx
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