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writes: I'm thinking of ending my three months relationship. My bf and his ex are always talking on the phone together. He finished with her 2 yrs ago and she is engaged to another. Her soon to be husband is thinking of leaving her because he isnt happy that my bf is always calling, but he claims she always calls instead and tells him initmate details of her relationship. Now she is pregnant and he is the first to know! Rumours are already going around that he might be the father and he is pretty upset about it.Luckily for me i have a friend who stays in the building my ex lives and she confirms that she has never seen his ex around so i'm inclined to believe him that he isnt the father. Her husband to be is accepting full responsibilty though. My problem is to get him to stop picking her calls or staying long on the phone with her. Bringing it up with him makes him very angry that i dont trust him. I'm tired of it all. What do i do? thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): Your relationship is only 3 months old and you don't like the situation, don't trust him, he calls his ex constantly. How much do you really want to be around this guy?
Have a good long chat with him and tell him you don't see why he has to be in touch with his ex so much if at all, when you are now on the seen and she has a bloke of her own. Let him know how you feel. If these calls don't come to an end then give him an ultimatum. If they don't cut down or stop then you are off and stick to your guns! If he then phones her behind your back then you have further ammunition to get out of this crap relationship.
You have a life too and it shouldn't be all doom and gloom just because they are keeping touch. If she tells him about her relationship then you can be he is telling her about yours. Get wise! Put your point across. If he doesn't take if on board then get rid!
Take care
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