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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Not sure how to get out and date again-I'm pretty rusty! Will I ever find someone? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- ok i dunno if ya can really advise me but here goes. i havent been with anyone in a really long time. due to a bad relationship were we stopped having sex etc. now were broken up about 4 months. im really genuinely worried il never be with anyone again. im only 23.now im... (260 words)

We split up because she feels I am more of a friend that a boyfriend. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My gf and I dated for 6 years. We are both 24. Anyways our relationship was good. We were both deeply in love. In the summer she said that she felt like she had drifted apart from me and that if felt like she only loved me as a friend and not a boyfriend. We talked it out and ... (818 words)

I'm 16 - why hasn't anyone wanted to be my boyfriend yet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i am 16 yrs old and i haven't had any boyfriend so far neither have i been asked out or to be someone's gf.i have been only asked once to go out with a guy by his friends but i think they werepulling a trick on me/him. and i know i am beautiful many guys have told me so. i have ... (96 words)

My guy left me for someone else then came back. How should I deal with the ex that won't leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- Hi guys has been a while since i last wrote quick update husband left me for another women, then he came back and decided he was going to go again. i told him he had to make a final decision and that whoever he chose he would be able to have no contact with the other one ... (124 words)

I'm not relaxed enough to go and talk to him first...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey guys i need help! i like this guy. i tried being friends with his friends to get closer to him but his best friend doesn't seem to like me. Although his other close friends we talk normally because we used and are still friends from years ago. so anyways tried being friends ... (97 words)

These horrid rumors have cause a rift in my relationship with him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - The right thing is me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and we have been slowly growing apart. The first bad thing happened after a month of being with him, his mates acused me of cheating on him, after days of telling him i didn't he believed me, about a month ... (293 words)

Is there is no one for me and is there something wrong with me?.Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend left me about a year ago. He is now happily involved with someone else. I am trying to start dating again but just like my breakup it just seems to be causing heartache. I have met two guys off the internet and it seemed that they were not interested and I did meet ... (181 words)

I think it's over...how should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, 3 months ago I met a guy. We started seing each other as friends first, then he invited me on dates and he became my boyfriend. I'm usually very "picky" but we were getting along so good, and I was happy that I finally met someone I have so much in common with. ... (402 words)

He friends with a 27 year old woman from work. Are they friends or is there more to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age - my husband has developed a friendship with a 27 year old woman - i have a feeling that she may be attracted to him and he is either naive, in denial and truly feels just innocent friendship or realizes she is attracted to him and feels the same way. i really have tried to way ... (696 words)

I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have an abortion or just keep the ... (205 words)

We are both shy so how can I get him to kiss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- I really like this guy and i think he likes me back i having my 18th bday party soon any ideas on how i can either kiss him or have him kiss me as we both shy and he doesnt drink also. we cant play spin the bottle as almost everyone else is in a raltionship ... (56 words)

I'm scared to go to the next level...because of my bikini line! Any product suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and want to take our reltionship to the "next level". I am definatly ready but I am really worried about my bikini line. I have tried using hair removing cream in the past but it just made my skin go spotty and it hurt when my ... (90 words)

He seemed to have more chemistry w/ the trashy ex who stole from him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- I feel like I am totally screwing up my relationship with a man I truly love. A few years ago, I became acquainted with this gorgeous, sweet man but he was involved with another woman and totally devoted to her. The puzzling thing was, he is highly educated, makes good money... (518 words)

This is my mum's fourth marriage and it's given me issues - I dread being alone in the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) - my mum is on her 4th marriage and i think this has given me issues. im only 18 and i lay in bed at night dreading that i am going to be alone for the rest of my life. i dnt know why this is. im in a 3year relationsip and i love my bf very much, could it be because he joined the ... (102 words)

After introducing me to his parents, he still seems distant. Is he really serious about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend if 30 and i am 22 we have known each other for 4 years but have only been in a relationship for 5 months. it seems to me he is quite shy. i had to take the first step and say i had feelings for him. and did he want me the way i wanted him? he send mixed signals at ... (200 words)

After she told me she "can't even remember" the number of guys she's been with, I'm having doubts about us. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Im 20 years old, and from calafornia,i have been going out with my girlfriend jane(20) for about a month, we were good friends (that slept together) before we decided to be a couple. I love spending time with her, we can talk about anything, have loads of fu... (289 words)

I love my ex, but she doesn't know who she wants. Should I leave or stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - look me and my ex lashenia have been apart for 1 year and 6 months and i want her back we talk like every day but she tell me she want me back also after dumping me because she have feeling for someone else but she came back to me and we started to get back sexually and my ... (103 words)

Should I tell my gf that I kissed her sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hi im in a reltionship at the moment but the thing is when i was staying at my girlfriends i kissed her sister should i tell her or shall i keep it a secret... (34 words)

My gf's gone to counseling to get over her ex. She seems short w/ me now. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Im usually the one who gives advice in relationships but now i need it more than ever. Back in November my g/f called me admitting that she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend who she was with for 3 years. It was rough and i never saw it coming, but i forgave her in saying that ... (144 words)

I want a third child, but my man doesn't. Am I being selfish or should I stand my ground?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically iv been with my man for 6 six years and we have two beautiful children aged 3 and 1. Iv recently given up everything [work, college etc] to take care of my family and home, which i love. I feel its time to have another child, iv always wanted three, but my man doesnt ... (85 words)

When people found out we were chatting, he started ignoring me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I am 16 years old an started a local college three months ago. on my first day i met a guy who took my number. we graudually got to know each other really well that every night whether we talked in lessons during day or not still would txt each other in the night. because of my ... (98 words)

Guys don't seem interested in me for long..what am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear everyone, Okay so I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin but that's not exactly the issue. I've had one serious boyfriend in my life and the reason we didn't have sex is because he had testicular cancer during our relationship. (He's since recovered but we broke up) Since then I... (214 words)

I was just a rebound guy for her and this hurts...how do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) - Well its been a while since i've posted in here, time has gone by and i have been trying to forget about my past memories with my ex but sometimes these feelings and memories just makes me miss those times that i have spent with her so much that i really really really wish i ... (358 words)

What is a smear test? What happens? Does it hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- Hiya just a quick one. Could anyone please explain to me what a 'smear test' is, as i have have to have one in a weeks time.....what do they do.....and does it hurt? Thanks... ... (34 words)

Words of wisdom required... how do I get over the need for male approval to feel good about myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- Hi, im having a really low day and I could do with someone out there to pick me up. I split from my husband almost 6 months ago, and am starting slowly to come out of the 'I feel like a zombie' mode and am trying to rebuild my life. My house is up for a sale and i am hoping ... (183 words)

He assumed I was on the pill... do I tell him about the abortion that I thought affected my ability to conceive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I withheld information from my ex. We began having sex, using condoms, then he stopped wearing them and didn't withdraw. I didn't care because I had cervical scarring from an abortion (age 23) that was performed too early. My doctor said it was affecting my ability to concieve. ... (152 words)

He keeps touching my vagina.... why!?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My problem is this, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has this habit of constantly touching my private parts (vagina), he says that it is his to touch, this is really starting to irritate me, I have spoken to him about it before but says that he doesnt ... (108 words)

I like them both but know they're no good. My family agrees. These feelings are brining me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I'm 20 and have had a bit of a dodgy experience with blokes, one described me as being too open and loving for my own good, and sometimes it seems that way. Either way my niavity with men has got me into a lot of bother. I recently split up with a boyfriend after ... (217 words)

My friend is mad because we started a website...and she thinks we copied her bf's ideas! What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - after 30 years of friendship, my friend isnt speaking to be because we started a website after her boyfriend started one. they told us what he was doing we gave him tips and advice that was 6mths ago. we (in december) thought that we would do 1 didnt copy any of his site ideas ... (113 words)

We had sex and now...he doesn't care! Help me please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well here i go, this is my story... i have been meeting this cute boy for about 3wks now nd i have been getting strong feelings for him since we had sex..i have done evrything with this boy thn i eva have dun with any other..i told him the other day i have fallen deep... (150 words)

Do I tell my wife I kissed the girl from work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have got myself into a dilemma that is eating me up inside. I have been married for nearly 2 years and we are very happy together. we have been through a lot lately with house moves and both had problems at work, so we have been stressed but have stuck together through ... (167 words)

Asked him if he'll relocate with me and he said "I don't know"! What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 4 years now. Recently Ive been looking for another job, and may have found something in another town, which means I might have to move. He works all over the country, so I assumed that he wont have a problem moving with me, as ... (180 words)

If we can't agree on a religion, where do we stand? How will it affect us, down the road?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, if 2 people are in love with each other but yet cant agree into one religion. where do we stand?... (22 words)

I think we're perfect together but she's put us "on a break"... do I wait for her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi thanks in avance for reading. my question is about "time apart". the girl im with wants time apart so she can "figure out things because she in confused, but not confused about me" - whatever that means. weve been together a year and ive treated her perfectly (honestly). we ... (234 words)

How do you stop thinning hair? Any Ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- Hi all, Season greetings to all! I have a problem and really hope that someone can help me. I turn 41 soon, and noticed that my hair seems to be thinning quite a bit lately. Is there anyway that I can stop this.Please assist if you can. Many thanks ... (60 words)

I have foot problems...does anyone have tips on where I can find fashionable shoes for my problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

- Hiya.. I live in the UK, and have to have insoles in my shoes to prevent my feet from 'going over', basically I've got hyper-mobile joints and my feet often are going all over the place, and I suffered from bad back and knees because of this. My mother paid £300 for my insoles,... (129 words)

She's dating a friend but she confessed she really liked me...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - ive got this friend and i sorta liked her but then we started treating each other like brother and sister and laughed at ppl who tried to get us together, then a couple weeks later she starts going out with one of my friends and im like thats ok( i reckon she went out with him ... (118 words)

My boyfriend is a porn addict... could he get better and how could I fill the void?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of two years has an addiction to porn. He gets off on it about every day, even if we have sex. He has also been known to e-mail other women and chat with them initiating that he wants to hook up. He tries to explain it to me, and says it is like bei... (180 words)

I told him I loved him. So how do I find out how he feels about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my Bf ( he is 37, i am 25) for about 5 months now. I was enjoying it being a slow moving relationship. I absolutley love the guy. The problem is, is that I dont know how he feels about me. I told him I loved him, but also told him i didnt expect to hear it in ... (86 words)

How do you get over doing something nasty in the past and letting go of the huge regrets?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) - How do you get over something you regret so bad. I am 17 and when i was like 11 or younger, I did something i think with some other girl who was younger than me and everyone who knows her, knows that family is the biggest skanks! I feel nasty whenever i remember. I mean they ... (143 words)

Was told she was 19 but she's really 17 and I'm feeling badly for being atttracted to her! Stop contact or just be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

12 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, got a bit of an issue on my hands. I'm a 23 year old college guy. My uncle introduced me to a girl at a family party (no, hah, she's not related) and we hit it off pretty well. I specifically asked my uncle how old she was and he told me she was 19. So we hung out ... (215 words)

Can anyone explain generational dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - This is going to sound like a stupid question but how do you know if you're in a generation gap relationship? I've just turned 18 and my boyfriend of a few weeks is turning 25 tomorrow. I always assumed that we were in the same generation because we were born in the same deca... (83 words)

His gf caught us in bed and they broke up. Now, he tells me--he's not over her! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in the most ridiculous situation me or any of the people I know have been in dealing with relationships ... Almost a year ago I randomly met a guy, through friends, who I instantly clicked with. We ended up sharing a kiss, and I was thrilled until he said, "I'm sorry... (570 words)

He wants to date me but I'm not sure if I feel the same way...what should I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) - ok so i ride this bus everyday in the afternoon and this guy is always on it with me. he always says like hi and bye when he i get on or when i get off well one day in the middle of the bus ride he is all like hey **** i like you like more then a friend and after he said i ... (101 words)

I see another guy behind my husbands back! I love my husband so why do I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - My husband andI have been married for 10 years and have 2 children. In our relationship my husband has had 3 affairs. I have stayed with him, however recently I had a short relationship with another man, my husband calls it an affair even though we never had sex. My problem ... (102 words)

He's pretty distant with me--do you really think he wants a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F)

My bf is anti-social--how do I get him to get out more and do things with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Ive been going out with my partner for over 2 years, and we have lived together for about a year and a half, we are very happy together and love each other very much but i am way to dependant. i dont have my licience, and i know i spend way to much time together. becuase ... (288 words)

It's a long story... but I think I'm ready to move on from my crush! Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - K umm this is like a really long story...but here it goes and im like so confused on what to do.... K well I broke up with my boyfriend in the summer cuz I started to like this guy that I work with. He works for my family so they all know him. So then one day I went and asked... (1723 words)

I wouldn't sleep with him and now--he won't speak to me! Are all guys like this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

12 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i didnt slept with him! now he doesnt really talk to me! is he a Dic* or are most lads like this? i did really like him but im a virgin! but he didnt no that! is it my fault iv pushed him away (im nearly 18 in case u wanted 2 know)... (53 words)