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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can easily spend the day talking to people who aren't there...am I going crazy? What's wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- Ok this is going to sound completely insane and i'm embarrassed writing this but I'm 22 and I talk to myself! Its like you know when your a kid and you just play little games and you have imaginary friends? Its kinda like that. I dont know if its that i dont have many friends ... (366 words)

His gf accused me of messing with him, when all I did was try to tell him to stop texting me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- Boy I had dated and behaved like a pig started to communicate back with me on a friendship basis. I notice he has been lying to me for 1 year and sent him message back so he replies telling me he couldn't talk as gf in the house, I get upset and do as if nothing happened then I ... (237 words)

I'm having trouble dating other girls as I keep thinking about my ex. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Halloo, This probably sounds fairly pathetic but I can't get over my ex who dumped me to travel and also I think because I was having some difficulties with stress at a new job and stuff causing moodiness and all that. She's in Australia now and she emails me all the time. I... (129 words)

How do I get him to quit thinking of me just his little sis's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this friend, we'll call her Jackie. She has an older brother who's best friend I have a bit of a crush on. We'll call him Greg. Well I don't know Greg that well, and I'd like to get to know him more without seeming like I'm interested and without annoying him, ... (93 words)

LAdies, what ways have guys approached you--did you like the best? Can you share?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

- Can any kind girls/guys out there give me advice on where i can meet women? I've not had much luck for meeting girls now for years as i am quite shy. My friends are similar to me, so i dont really meet any through them, and i dont seem to pull on nights out like i used to. Its ... (111 words)

I like this guy who is a 'player'-but am wary of dating him. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy in my school, and I am really attracted to him, but he is known as a "player". I've tried to get over him but I just haven't been able to. I really do like him but if I go out with him I don't want to lose my respect. What do I do?... (58 words)

When guys flirt with me, I find it hard to flirt back. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you flirt? Im 15 and I am quite attractive, and I have had many guys say that I am, and add me on MSN and etc.. Yet I find it hard to talk to them. Furthermore, when they flirt with me I find it hard to flirt back! Please help me!... (56 words)

I'm 18 and pregnant. Worried I may miscarriage again..how can I prevent that from happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am an 18 year old female who just found out today that i am pregnant.5 months ago i had a miscarriage and I am very frightened it might happen again.Do u have any advice for me far as how to prevent the miscarriage? I know miscarriages happen, but i want to try to prevent it ... (72 words)

We never talk, we just steal looks at each other.. I think he likes me but I'm not sure! How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey there, i need some advice. there's this guy i like alot, we're both in the same class, we don't communicate- i mean talk- we only communicate by laughing if he says a joke i look at him and laugh or if someone sittng near says a joke we'd look at each and laugh(he's sitting ... (160 words)

Should I let my fiancee invite all his ex gf's to our wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I am getting married in a few months and I obviously don't want to invite any of my ex-boyfriends because I think it would make my fiance feel uncomfortable. He on the other hand wants to invite almost all his ex-girlfriends. He claims they are friends, but they only ... (131 words)

My friend found condoms in her Dad's car. Should she tell her Mother? How should I advise her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi every1, i was just wonder, my friend came for me for help i did know what to say!!she saw condoms in her father's car as they were pulled up by a police! she and her mother had already discussed that her father might have been cheating since he doesn't return home till 1 2 ... (144 words)

Don't know if I love him or if I just really like him..which one is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i know if im in love? iv known this lad 2 years and iv never met anyone like him we get on so!!! well lol its just he lives about a 3 hour drive away so we cant have a relationship, its just i always think about him and always want to see him! but am i in love or just ... (76 words)

I love my best friend's bf...do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I love my best friends boyfriend. Yes. Today we was all out together, Her, her bf, me, my bf. It was great! Then i said to her bf 'HUG ME' cos i scream it all the time lol And he did, but he gripped me so tightly its like he didnt want to let go, his face got s... (112 words)

Friendship loyalties and trouble among friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy...We fancied each other for ages, about three months, but never went out. Suddenly he went out with one of my best friends. It's causing secrecy and lies in our friendship group, her and another friend feel they have to go off in private to talk about the ... (273 words)

Whenever I go to make love to a woman, I can't get my ex out of my head! I still love her. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

age - Hi all. I'm having a hard time getting over my ex; we had a torrid affair for many years until she broke up with me 4 months ago. We've seen each other many times since and had sex on most occasions but I sense that the passion for her is not the same. I left my partner for her ... (220 words)

Feeling uncomfortable about the thoughts of first time sex...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and so is my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for about a week. Im still a virgin bt my boyfriend isnt. Every time i am with him i want to do more than kiss and touch each other but im scared. Hes always tryin to touch me but i feel uncomfortable. What do i do? ... (73 words)

He feels we are to far to have a LD relationsnhip. I disagree-I like this arrangement. How can I get things back on track with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in an on/off relationship for 4yrs. We live in different cities but this has suited me fine as I'm divorced with kids and at the moment don't want to get married again.I'm really relaxed with this guy and we get to see each other as often as we can. Recently though ... (183 words)

I'm having a mid-teen crisis! I want to be his friend but I don't want him to hate me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a mid-teen crisis. I have recently ended a 6 month relationship with this guy that i really liked and i ended it because we never saw each other because we were both really busy, but for the last couple of weeks he had been acting really off-and i mean really off. i ... (167 words)

She wants to be with me and I want to be with her but her boyfriend found out and beat her up! Should I still go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a freind i have only known for about a year, he's 39 (im 21) we met when we started work in the same bar. he started bringing his girlfreind (37) to work on saturday nights and after a few months his girlfreind asked me for my number. i didn't think anything of it, ... (334 words)

I love him but having serious doubts about marrying him..what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im deaply in love with my fiance. we have been together for over 5years. our plans to get married are underway but i am started to get cold feet and have my doubts about becoming his wife. we have our problems like other relationships, but we always get through them one way or ... (113 words)

He used my best friend and he cheated on his gf...should I date him anyways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- Dear Cupid... having a lil bit of trouble, i really like this guy ( I'm 16 and he is 14) and i know he likes me as he has told me he loves me, the thing is my best friend went out with him and he used her, now he has another gf and he cheated on her with me!! i didn't know he... (151 words)

Worried about this teacher and my friend. What would a 30 plus year old man, see in a 17 year old girl anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am concerned about a situation my best friend seems to be getting herself into. There are Three people in this situation: - My Best friend: Who is 17, in 6th form and has a crush on this teacher. - The Teacher: He is in his mid 30’s (but still thinks he is in his early ... (391 words)

How do I 'finger' my gf without hurting her? Any tips?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi my I was wodering how is the best way to finger girl freind becuse last time i seemed to hurt her and she started lieing saying it was fine but i no it isnt so Please help me !!!... (41 words)

He wants to meet me but I told him such outrageous, huge lies about myself...how do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i've been speaking to a guy off the internet for almost 2 years, first we text for almost a year then we progressed to talking on the phone, over the past few weeks we've got really close and now this guy wants too meet me, which under normal circumstances would be ... (215 words)

He is bone lazy and doesn't help me with anything! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do with my boyfriend. I love him very much, but at times (quiet alot of the time) he drives me INSANE. He is just soo lazy. He never cleans up after himself and just expects me to wash, cook and clean for him. I am 24yrs old. Those days are long gone!! I ... (120 words)

He doesn't seem to want to be a family with me and our daughter. Why is he this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i what him to move in with me and our daughter but he wont does he really want a family or just a part time 1. it feels unfair to our daughter 1 night hes at home with us and the other 4 out of the week hes not. why dont he want the family life? he doesnt make much effort ... (91 words)

It's been a year since we split and I am still not over him! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- I am still not over my ex. We were together a long time and split about a year ago. He has someone new and see no hope or reason for us to get back together but there is still no peace in my heart. During the day when I am busy it is ok but the nights are still tough and I ... (71 words)

Nine minths of marriage and I am shocked. He wants a divorce! Help me understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 9 months. I knew this guy for 5 years (we were dating for 5 years). We were engaged once after 6 months of dating. When I approached him with date of wedding he said that he was not ready. We broke up, but started to date again after one month. Spent ... (414 words)

During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda hurt. and he kept going ... (279 words)

Thanks for the advice..it worked out for me and my bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- Hello everyone...me again!!! wrote a few months ago asking for help when my boyfriend dumped me after 2 years because he wasnt ready. well i took the advice i was given and gave him some time. AND....yesterday he asked me if we could give it another go. :) Thanx to everyone ... (77 words)

I dumped my bf to date another and I feel very guilty-how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ppl help me again pls!! a month ago, i broke up wit my bf of 1yr and a half, coz my feelings were fading gradually and coz i really missed being single since he was my first bf and i met him wen i just turned 15. he really didnt wanna break up, but wen i told him it cant ... (241 words)

I fancied him then fancied his flatmate and then fancied him again and now fancy his flatmate, yet once again! what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 2 weeks and then finished with him as i really fancied his flatmate. I started dating his flatmate and we had a really great time and great sex for three weeks. I still see my ex at least three times a week at uni and it bought back feelings for him and on ... (87 words)

After we had sex--I found out he injects heroin! Can I get HIV from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi ppl.this is a really serious question. I have just split with my boyfriend and yesterday i found out that while i was with him he was on heroine, and in fact has been injecting for 12 months. I had no idea about this!!anyway i had sex with him, unprotected!!!i am so so so ... (166 words)

He wants me to wait until his problems are sorted out...do I wait or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am haveing some problems with my relationship I need someones advice...I am very much in love with someone right now we have been talken for almost a yr and we feel the same about each other except we both have a lot of stuff going on within our families right now. I ... (132 words)

He fingered me..can I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear ANYBODY, I'm really freaked out i am in the prosses fo moving and me and my boyfriend of 8 months new we both wanted to have sex with each other before i left to a city hours away. The whole sex thing was a safe as can be (painful 2) condom i even hand him pull out righ... (182 words)

I really like my friend...should I wait until his fling is over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need an objective mans point of view, please!!! The problem is simple - I really like one of my good guy friends. What makes it complicated - our history as friends! Friends for 5 years, met in college - pretty much both liked each other but never had the balls to do anythi... (373 words)

Why do I keep getting these mean thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - When i first met this guy i like. I noticed something about him and i guess the first thing in my mind i thought "man boobs" even though they arn't even that big and i still like him but i keep obsessing over it just because i thought since i thought that then that makes me ... (319 words)

Sometimes, I feel nothing when I kiss my bofriend. What could be missing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much; he’s so caring, loving and sweet. I really don’t know what else more I can ask for. However, some times when I kiss him I not sure that I feel any thing why is that? What could be missing? ... (50 words)

How can I fix my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My marriage of 8 years has gone to crap. My great wife said that she can't take anymore and wants me out. We have two kids that i love very much. I am the cause of this whole mess and will do anything to fix it. Have going to doctor and discovered that I am Bipolar, and in ... (163 words)

Giving my wayward cousin advice about her messed up life has got me thinking---am I a hypocrite? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

- Dear Cupid I have a cousin named Dee..she's 2 years older than me (28) and she has always bounced from place to place..but first let me give you some background.. :) She quit school 3 weeks before graduation and ran off to marry her BF, after realizing he was an abusiv... (444 words)

He didn't even get me a card last Valentine's Day! Is this wrong of me to hope for a little suprise from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. A simple question. Valentines day is coming up, and I can't help but feel down about it. After being in my relationship for 3 1/2 years, am I shallow and wrong to want a little attention on Valentines day from my man? I'm a 22 year old girl, and he is 32. ... (255 words)

In love with my brother's best friend! But my brother will never approve..What can we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - okay... well i have a problem. I'm in love with my older brothers best mate. He knows I like him and he likes me to, and we really want to be together. But we know my older brother will never aprove. what do we do?... (52 words)

Married just 3 months and I'm unhappy- I feel like I have missed out on other relationships! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, Im 23yr old and just married (approx 3 months) and I have good job, great husband and you would think tha I would be happy!!!.. But I have been only with 1 guy ever since I was 20 and his my first and only sexual partner.... I have sometimes wonder what it would be like to ... (114 words)

She has a lot on her plate and we broke up! I still want her-should I keep contacting her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm very very sad and heartbroken. My girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago. She said her reasons were that she couldn't handle the stress of the arguments we have in our relationship because she has alot on her plate right now. She's grieveing for her father's death t... (219 words)

I can't go be with him in London and he can't come to me. Will we make this work or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 1yr and nearly 6months. weve been very happy and have always spoke about our future. we was planning to move in together within the next year or two and also start a family but problems have come up within my ... (220 words)

When is the right time to arrange a second date with someone you like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 January 2007 (?) - i went on date with this girl i met once before. all went well. i really wanna see her again soon but when is the right time to phone or arrange date? also when is it right to tell her i love her? how do i know if she does? any signs to pick up?... (55 words)