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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend of three years text another girl saying he loved her. When i confronted him he said because it was new years eve and she lives in another country he just wanted to show he cared. Should i believe him?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 No one knows the REAL story of what's going on here.
Do YOU feel like you trust him, other than this incident? Does he seem to really be committed to you otherwise? If he's never given you a reason to not trust him before, I think I'd let this incident go. If you've had trouble with him before, then maybe I'd start questioning his loyalty to you.
It's possible it was a totally platonic text. Plus, she is in another country so he probably can't sleep with her or anything horrible.
You know more than we do. Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, Miss trust +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Hmm well, love can mean different things. Telling a friend you love them can just symoblise friendship.
I advise you to just keep an eye on him and look for any signs that he does feel this way about this person. It is probably nothing but there is no harm in being alert.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): Well I don't know the full story here. Maybe she is a friend in another country, but has he mentioned her before? If she is in another country then you haven't got anything to worry about. If he's lying then its a whole different ball game. Telling someone you love them is not usually something you say to a friend of the opposite sex unless they were an ex you still cared about or someone you're seeing.You will have to find out more, give him the benefit of the doubt at the moment, until you have further evidence.
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