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writes: Hi all, i need help, i'm 15 and haven't ever been out with a girl. But i'm going on date with this girl whos dead fit and 13 years old, but i'm really nervous. Any advice to give me please? I'm so nervous that my hand was shaking when i asked her out...Please help me, any advice is very appraciated! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Dazed and Confused 00 +, writes (25 February 2007):
since shes a little younger, shes probably already stoked because an older guy asked her out.
since its only a first date, keep it simple.
take her to casa ole and see a movie.
board games can be lame, but i personally love them.
so maybe try that.
IF you decide to kiss her, kiss her on the cheek only.
its only the first date, there will be time for real kissing later.
whatever you decide to do
stay vertical
keep the lights on
and stay around other people
(it prevents any moves shes not ready for)
good luck, and have fun!
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (25 February 2007):
Ah honey don't worry if she didn't like you she would have said no. You just be yourself thats why she obviously likes you, Tell her she looks great, ask her what type of music she likes,hobbie, has she any brothers and sisters etc....
She is going to be very nervous too try to listen if she is not a great talker then coax her with questions the conversations will soon flow...GOOD LUCK don't be nervous you enjoy the date and there will be plenty more
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reader, AskEve +, writes (25 February 2007):
Where are you taking her on your date? Don't worry about it, she obviously likes you or she wouldn't have agreed to go with you in the first place. Just be yourself and talk to her as you would a friend. As her what she likes to do in her spare time. You said she was really fit so you could maybe ask her how she stays in shape. Talk about movies, food, holidays, music... then you'll be able to see how much you both have in common. Make sure you open doors for her and have nice manners.
Remember, she'll be just as nervous as you so don't worry about it. You'll be just fine.
Good luck on that date! ;o)
Eve
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