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writes:hiya i am really stuck, i am 19 years old and have fallen for this girl who is 16 years old, we met each other through our mates at a house party. weve known each other for a week now, last night i saw her again and ended up in bed together, a few days ago we both said we really like each other and today i have said to her what wud you say if i asked you out and she said 'i really like you too, but i love our friendship, if we did go out and unfortunately split up it would end our friendship, but we can get to know each other more and see what happens from there' i need some help/advice what i can do to try get us two together. cheers
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reader, fallenman +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Some people fear taking risk, that said she clearly fears rejection from a relationship more than she does getting pregnant!I suggest you ask here what she means by "but we can get to know each other more and see what happens from there'"I could be she is fearful and needs reassurance, and that is something that could take some time to resolve. You both have to choose what you want. Casual sex or a loving relationship with all the attendant risks.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 She should have thought of that before she slept with you! You've only known each other for a week so there's not really a friendship to spoil!
You have both jumped in at the deep end here and slept with one another too quickly instead of getting to know one another better first. I would agree with her from the point of view that it IS better to get to know one another more and see how it goes before you get intimate again and if it all works out then great!
Eve
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