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writes:I don't like girls who cannot control their emotions. Especially those who keep laughing for silly reasons and get overwhelmed easily. It just pisses me off to be with someone who only likes to have fun and has nothing serious. But i don't understand how to react in front of them as i keep coming across them. Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Sometimes when a girl is nervous she'll laugh the way you describe or it may be you're simply attracting the wrong kind of girl. Watch them from a distance first and see how they react with friends. Do they seem to be "blonde" and "ditsy?" It could be they're a lot younger than you too and it's just immaturity. It does improve as they grow older!
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Ever heard of "hormones"? They wonder why guys are all competitive and get physical with one another. We wonder why they giggle and display emotions. It's hard-wired. It's how humans deal with certain types of social stress.Relax. It's not going to change, but as your women become more poised and they get to know themselves (and you ... guys in general) better, their stress levels go down and their responses become more measured and mature.And you try NOT to go macho on them, try (by behavior and words) to put them more at ease, and that will help lower their stress levels and (hopefully) help them get the excess anxiety and some of its consequences out of the way a bit.And good luck. it's a tough situation.
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