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writes: On saturday night i'm seeing my boyfriend, and i no he like wants to finger me. I've been fingered before, but i really really like this boy. Are there any tips or advice anyone can give me? Boys and Girlsx Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 If you really like this boy and more importantly, want to hold on to him then DON'T let him touch you intimately. If you do you'll find he'll "play" with you then dump you before you really get to know one another. If he really IS interested in you at all he'll respect it when you say no. If he continues to try and talk you round then he's not worth it. Have some pride in yourself and don't let boys just "finger you" intimately like that just because you like them! Sheeeeeeeeesh!
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 What do YOU want? None of us are going to be sitting there next to you when you are alone with him, so you had better decide ahead of time what YOU want to do. Do or don't. You are the one who has to live with the regrets of what you did or did not do.And it's not like your entire life is hanging on this one decision. You'll be making many more decisions in your life, and many of them will be much more important that this. So get used to doing it now. Decide one way or the other, and then stick by your decision and stay true to yourself.
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