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writes:I like this guy and his best mate, and i think his best mate likes me cause he wont stop calling and he held my hand yesterday! He keeps asking me questions like what are your 5 favourite guys, and i told him that himself and his friend are in it, and they ask me what i'd say if he asked me out, and if i'd snog any of them? Is this a big game so they can make a fool off me in school? Or do they want to know? I told them i would snog them for laughs, and i would go out with them, im getting scared they're gonna tell peeps and im going to get a bad reputation cause their popular...Is this all a mistake? I'm so confused! when i asked his top 5 girls, he said he couldn't tell me...does he like me...or is he trying to gather information so he can tell people and let it backfire in my face, should i regret all the things i said and say i was playing around and i wouldn't snog them for laughs?We're 14 and in high school Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazed and Confused 00  +, writes (25 February 2007):
personally i dont think you should care who thinks you are popular. as long as you are yourself, you shouldnt worry about anything. i know thats a pretty hard concept for someone just starting highschool, but trust me.
as to this guy. simple solution: dont answer questions he cant answer. this prevents the insecurities you are having. if you can have a friendship where he can share things like that with you then great, then you know you can trust him.
hope i helped atleast a little.
good luck =]
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reader, AskEve +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Don't worry about what you said to him, you didn't do anything wrong, what you told him was true. In future don't be so free with information to him. If he asks you any more personal questions, throw them back to him first and ask HIM to answer before you come across with your answer. This should do the trick.
Eve
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