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writes:hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we ve been seeing each other for a few weeks and he doesnt live very near me and hes already talkin about marrige and having kids with me he also keeps sayin he wants me t be his last relationship and it really scares me help me please??!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Beautiful_Disgrace666 +, writes (2 March 2007):
Beautiful_Disgrace666 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey ummmm well fanx for all ur help me n mi bf have slowed things down n every things great infact 2moz im goin 2 see him its ganna e wicked welll fanx for all ya advise
fanx again
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reader, AskEve +, writes (25 February 2007):
 You'll have lots of boyfriends before you settle down with the right one. Let him know that one day you WOULD like to settle down and be married and have kids but not for a long long time. He sounds really smitten with you which is nice but tell him to slow down a bit, all this talk of marriage and kids is putting pressure on you and is scaring you away. He'll soon back off a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): This to me indicates that this 17 year old boy is very unstable to be talking to you like this after only a few weeks and at his age....he is too young to have his last relationship!
Many boys think that this is what girls want, a husband and kids and they will say anything to imply that they want a permanent relationship too, in order to get into your pants.
The decision is yours, but I would be put off, and if you do date him, take things very slowly, as any guy who puts you up on a pedastal that fast can knock you off just as fast when he realizes you are human being and not some sort of fantasy girl.
Good luck!
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reader, *a.m.y* +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Hi. When I was 13 I went out with someone who was 16 and let me tell u he never went on like that. But people don't all think the same. U dont need to be with him for the rest of ur life coz ur only 14 but if it helps just tell him that u want all that, just not soon. Dont let him scare u, tell him how u feel.
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