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writes:soo.. my boyfriend has told me before that he never wants to lose me.... but now hes saying hes not gunna dump me but he just hates not bein single and hes one of those people that just has to me free....what do i dooo?!); Reply to this Question
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reader, WingsLiftedMeUp +, writes (4 March 2012):
WingsLiftedMeUp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks(: everyone...but god...this boy confuses me!!! he'll be all for dating me one day...then another he'll be a d*** about everything....have ahad boyfriends before him, long distant even, but hes the first guy thats ever made me feel like im the only one, but right now i have soo many emotions goin thru my head...i dunno how to handle it..
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Tell him "go have fun" and then you will do the same...
it has to be the same for both of you
you are so young and he's right to be honest with you but you have to know that in that it means he's going to go and ou will survive and be just fine and meet more people too...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 March 2012):
 I agree 100% with Auntie worldlywise.
Set him free. And tell him good luck, I won't be waiting around for you. Then you move on. Sounds a bit more simple then it is, but you can do it.
If he wants to be single he should.
If you want to date someone you should. And obviously, he isn't the one for you.
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reader, lebro1992  +, writes (2 March 2012):
I've literally had the same thing done to me. So I can sympathise. It hurts, god I know it does. Just let him get on with it. If he realises what he's done then he might want you back.
Do not let some guy rule your life and emotions, do what you want to do, what makes you happy.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Your bf has basically told you that he wants to keep his cake and eat it too , so what you should do is telling him : thank you , I'll remember your offer in case I should become totally desperate/ mentally incapacitated, as of now , bye, good luck.
what's wrong with you girls ?? 45 years of struggle for woman's lib, and apparently 80% all we read on DC is " my bf wants.. my bf needs.. my bf feels that ..." What about YOU ? What about what YOU want, need and feel ?
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (2 March 2012):
Let him go. If its meant to be, he'll come back.
You are both very young. I guarantee once you tell him - sure go be single and you start paying him next to no attention or start dating someone else - he will change his tune.
But don't pine after him or wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Tell him to go be single, but that you will not be waiting around for him.
He can't have it all, so get out and enjoy life,there's more to it than having a boyfriend who wants to be free!
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