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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So recently I've been playing with the dating scene seriously for the first time. I'm very shy and I feel I act awkward in front of new guys I meet. I have male friends that I've known for years and I'm lonely; so I was planning to be with them. I don't want a relationship, I'm just lonely and want sex and some attention. One of my friends we have mild history and we've messed around recently. I have my roomate who I want to be with, and he wants to be with me too; but our female friend has feelings for both of the male friends I want to be with. She's slept with both of them and is upset my 2nd male friend likes her but wants to remain single and have sex with others (ie also with me). My first male friend and female friend may be mad to discover that I want to be with male friend 2. I'm waiting for feelings to abate and maybe male friend 2 and I can finally have some fun. I don't want anyone feelings hurt, which is why I want to let everyone know the situation. I know people may suggest to shy away from this because of the complocated nature but I really want this and I know male friend 2 and I will remain good friends, I just want a warm body. I've debated being with both male friends back to back but I rather be exclusive with male friend 2; male friend 1 and I were first intimate in a swingers orgy with our exes (who both recently dumped us for each other). So I'm horny and unsure of how to proceed, your suggestions are appreciated.
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reader, ilgitano +, writes (12 April 2012):
For as long as you have sex with many people your life will appear to make no sense. Everything has a price and sex is not free. I suggest that you stop sleeping around with close friends and clear your head. Maybe spend a year being celebate. The more you continue on this path, the more you will hurt yourself. Sex is not meant to be used like this amongst friends. I do understand that people have hurges... If you feel like you need to fuck, lots of strangers will do it. Just stop it and grow up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI had chosen to not be with him because he is not tall. I've been with a shorter person but I wanted the person of my life to be taller than me because that's what I'm attracted to. But love comes in many forms, so I won't discount anything that develops with man 2. Thank you for your support.
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