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female
age
30-35,
*ostInLovee
writes:Thanks for this :]Basically I've been with my boyfriend a year a half now, were both 17. Things went downhill in January and we argued a lot and was going to split up but we didn't and everything was normal since.Now recently the past couple of weeks he doesn't text me at all, even when I ask him a question and when he does text back it's just lacking effort and conversation. He also keeps saying that he's never in the mood for "stuff" if you get me and keeps putting no kisses on my texts which he only does when he's angry at me and when I ask about it he says he's not in the mood. But when I'm with him it's all the opposite and he's all nice and cuddly. I'm so confused and feel unloved and I don't know what to do. I feel like he's going to break up with me but doesn't have the confidence in person so he changes and puts some silly act on as though nothing is bothering him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 March 2012):
 There is definitely something wrong with him if you have noticed these changes. He is not telling you what is wrong with him because he is not man enough to deal with it, so he does what most men do and pretend that there is nothing wrong. If I were you I would stop contacting him all together and see how long it will actually take him to make the effort to contact you. Once you see him again after that tell him you are not happy with the lack of contact, make sure you do it to his face though and don't give in to him being all nice and cuddly. It needs to be solved face to face. Tell him he needs to start paying more attention to you or else the relationship will never work.
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