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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I recently started a new class that takes place once a week and was struck dumb by one of the most handsome man I've ever seen (he kind of looks a bit like Viggo Mortensen).I could be wrong, but I think he noticed me too because I felt his eyes on me a few times. However, I become a nervous wreck around him! I cannot look him in the eyes, even when we're outside during break time talking in small groups... I get flustered and embarassed and nervous...and I feel like an inmature idiot. Then, there is the thing that he's older than I am (I'm guessing 35) and I think that if there was any interest on his part he'd pull back because he doesn't know my age and I look younger (most people think I'm 23-24). I'd love to get to know this guy better (but that's just a girl's silly dream) but specially right now what I want is to be able to talk to him normally and not look like some blabbering fool. Tips? Ideas? Suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (2 March 2012):
 HI
Well the first thing a man looks for in a woman is confidence, so you really need to show you have it even if you haven;t :) So dont put yourself down before you even said anything to him. Many women make the mistake thinking wow this guy would not be interested his so lush, when infact its the opposit. More and more men would prefer a women who is not above herself, and quite charming like your self. so head up , back straight walk over to him with confidence, and say whats on your mind.
Mandy xx
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