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writes: Does the age gap really matter when it comes to good sex and relationships? Do you think its wrong for a 53year old women to have sex daily? why would her boyfriend of 41 tell her that love doesnt get measured by the amount of sex sessions?? Reply to this Question
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (6 March 2012):
Sex had nothing to do with age. And you certainly can love someone without having sex, but I think its better when you do!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 After the clothes come off, and the lights go out, EVERYBODY'S THE SAME AGE!!!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Age gaps don’t matter once both parties are of legal age. As long as they want the same things in life. I mean a 50 year old woman with a 25 year old man won’t work if he wants children… but a 50 year old man with a 25 year old girl would if she’s willing to raise the kids without him should he die early.
I do NOT think it’s wrong for a 53 year old woman to have sex daily. I do not think it’s wrong for ANY consenting adult to have sex as often as they wish.
AS for WHY her boyfriend said what he said.. I DO NOT know why he said it but it’s true in my opinion. The amount of love a person feels for you is NOT measured by how often you have sex.
My fiancé loves me very very very much but we don’t have sex daily and when life is busy we don’t even have sex weekly…. And when I’m sick… even longer.. but that does NOT diminish the love we have for each other…
BTW I'm 52 and he's 38
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reader, eek  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 age gap does not matter at all. Some of the best sex i have ever had has been with older women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Age doesn't matter, as long as it is alright with the 2 participating consenting adults.
In regards to the comment, it's hard to say but I would think that it means, we don't have to sex every day to show each other we love each other, there are many other ways to show love for each other. That's my take on it anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Age gaps don't matter, your both consenting adults,whatever you both want is up to you.
As for the comment its hard to say out of context what he meant. Could be it means alot of lust doesn't equal love
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Seems that you are too much woman for your 41yr old bf!
Sex is healthy and especially so at your age.
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