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26-29,
anonymous
writes: dear cupid i just called my crush, the one who i gave the hickey to, by mistake yesterday. It was an accident. We both got caught in the moment I bit his neck and when we were done i looked at his neck and saw bite marks and a giant hickey.I panicked and wanted to cover it up for him but he just said its ok. He kissed me and said dont worry about it.When he got home he called me and said his mom flipped. And now I'm mad and i don't know when i'll be able to speak to him again I'm going to give him space and time but i just don't know what to do how to react i keep beating myself up and i can't stop crying. I'm depressed. What should i do ?
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (19 March 2012):
Just give him some space, and also let his mom cool down. That's how mothers are. They need time to cool down.
Eventually, all will forgotten, and everything will continue on.
It seems that it's mostly just his mom that flipped, so she's the one you have to worry about, not him.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (14 March 2012):
Awww well just give him space and I am sure the incident will be forgotten in time. It's not good to go around biting people on the neck and as a girl, you will be judged if this happens so the best plan of attack is not to do it again.
Don't be depressed and crying, be glad that it was an important lesson learned and that you know you won't do it again. I am sure you haven't lost a friend...he will be back, just give it time.
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