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writes: The aim of this question is to seek advice on how to get into a relationship once again. I am 21 years old and my only relationship and sexual experience was when I was 17 and lasted for about a year. Right now I am a first year university student and I feel like I get no signs of interest or chances to meet a new girlfriend. I have to specify that its not that I have any second thoughts or remaining feelings about my previous relationship and that applies for at least 3 years. My overview as a person is that I am relatively withdrawn and have only a few contacts but can be very sociable when spoken to and quite a talker at times. My looks consist of alternative choices in clothing and hairstyle, some extra pounds and minor acne issues. My personal view on this is that even though I am aware of the general idea of my pros and cons, I cannot see why I get 0 chances or signs to take the next step in my romantic and sexual life. I hope that my case makes sense and that I get to share your thoughts on this.
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reader, Vainfall +, writes (14 March 2012):
Vainfall is verified as being by the original poster of the question Strongfp,I would like to clarify something.
Given what you may have probably understood, I agree with you 100%. The point is this: I have never deliberately searched for a girlfriend all these years, that why it is now that I am wondering about it.
As for being myself, the advice I have gotten so far by people close to me is that they think that by being myself I am not going to get to attract anyone. Therefore, I am encouraged to be somebody else.
My response to this is that I am STILL being myself. And of course, things stay the same.
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