A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:since a short time i started two have every times more feelings for this girl she is a young prostitute and what yes i was with many prostitutes and i never believed that one day i will fall in love in one i woud probally before be againt a person falling in love with a prostitute but believe me everybody can end up loving anybody and prostitutes deserve also love and don,t need two be bad persons. i was with her 5 times and she is a great personality a very warm friendly sweet person also great looking i find her really interesting much more than other girls it,s more about her personality than her looks and now i fold in love with her i know she is a prostitute but she is still a person that deserves love,frienship,respect i want two talk two her the next time i will bring her a small present more a detail notching fancy and after in the room i will talk like a adult i will say that whell i used two come two this and other burdels because like other men i like sex and i was with diferent girls but speaking sincerly the other girls dont mean notching special for me i forget them the same night even i will say her that i like her so much not because the sex she gives me more about the feeling she makes two have me i will say har that i think a lot about her daily and find her a inteligent friendly and amazing girl of course looks also but i will talk much more about her personality.i want that this girls realizizes that she is not just a sex objekt for me i want two show her that i really care of her and have interest in her i will ask her about her life and why she does that i will be conprensive all the time and ask her two have some email contact for a time just for knowing better and after a period of time she can decide if she wants two date me outside or not and later on she can decide or not if she wants two have a serious relation with me leave her work and life in my apartment i will give her a small card with my email and so and will say her that she can always talk with me and if she haves problems in the job i coud even come two pick her up and help her two escape this world.i will talk her and leave her a long time two think about all i sayd two her like 1 mounth with email contact and after visit her again in these club where she needs two work from 11 in the morning till midnight or more sometimes like 2 weeks without stop. my plan is two say lissen i now it sound crazy but the reality is that i never feld something like that for a other girl and i thinks you are a very interesting girl i had sex with you allready but i have now more interest in knowing you us a person that can be a potencial partner in the future.what do you guys think how coud she respond im young and i was always a gentleman whell only once i had drinked two much but i sayd her i had these day a bad day but the rest of the times i was charmy educated two her i speaked with her many times about diferent staff like travel,fashion,relations,culture,fun things.
View related questions:
period, prostitute Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, maverick494  +, writes (15 March 2012):
Just read the title of your question, man. She's a prostitute. While you pay for her affections, she will react as such. And once she realizes you are in love with her, it'll be a piece of cake for her to manipulate your feelings and empty your wallet in the process.
Yes she is still a person, but there's a reason she's in this profession. If she gets out, professes love to you, the whole happy ending, then what? What job will she have? What are her future prospects? You have to think this over without pink glasses on.
Be very very careful. Prostitutes know how to wrap men around their fingers. Don't think for a minute that just because you had sex with her 5 times that you know what makes her tick.
A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 Poster: Sorry, but don't do what the reader below recommends. If this lady is not really interested in you, but perceives you are, then she'll abuse you. You have to get to know her FIRST.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): You have to be gentle with her. Show her how you softly you handle her.
Tell her you want to marry her and have a future.
And as for getting her a job if she wants to work further, you dont have t o tell the people that she was a prostitute.
Ask her out for a coffee and make her feel special. Give her gifts and let her know that you care.
...............................
A
male
reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 How bout next time you see her- pay her, but just talk to her about herself, find out more about her?
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): Aren't you the same guy that posted before about falling in love with a prostitute, who drunk too much... anyway the answer is still the same, paying customer= nice treatment. Not saying she's not worth of your affection, it's just that she has to be nice with you to earn a living, doesn't mean she really likes you.
In the third paragraph seems like you wanna be her savior, but remember some girls are not in this trade because they're single mother with 2 kids, selling sex to pay the rent, I'm not saying she's there because she's a nympho neither, but maybe, just maybe it is profitable, and she makes the kinda money in a day she wouldn't in a month, ( well of course that depends on how much she charge).
If you're the same guy, seems like you've been harboring this in your mind for along time, go for it then, I mean a lot of people have already given advise, now go for it, seems like it's what you really wanna do. At worst she'll say, No I don't mix business with pleasure or whatever...
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): my propose with her is two know her more because i find her very interesing sweet,inteligent,fun,charming girl more than other normal no prostitute girls that by the way in my country most women are the oposite cold,boring,unfriendly.
i woud like two end up in a sincere serious relation caring about her loving her and if all goes great and she leaves her work and she loves my back i woud like two have children with her and after merry her it,s a sad sorry that can end up in so many ways i know it,s not normal situation but most things in my life are diferent two the rest of the people but i dont care what other people thinks about me or this girl i know what i want in life i wanted sex like any normal man i experienced with a lot of prostitutes and some normal girls but even if i abused on sex specially when i was depresed dont makes me a bad person the same for this girl i know that i always wanted sex but i know very good that i have a big heart i like children woud like two give up my life of visiting sexclubs and find a soulmate two love and have children im a very emocional,pasional and romantic person with a great heart im for sure not bad looking im charming,funny,but also can be serious im a great listener and very great observer. i see other people a little older than me with their wife and children and i fell like i really want the same.
...............................
A
male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (14 March 2012):
A prostitute is a woman and therefore you can fall in love with her. She may work in sex, but that does not mean she doesn't have personal qualities. And she may also fall in love with you, because, again, she's a woman and you have virtues as well.
That said, I'm not sure what the prospects with this relationship can be.
You have slept with her five times. That is no basis for you to have fallen in love with her. Maybe the lovemaking was great, but that is a different thing.
Second, unfortunately, these women work in a trade where they are subject to many an abuse and, therefore, are not very much inclined to seeing a customer as a man, but as a brute. Given the nature of their trade, they will naturally try to get the most out of a customer. If you were to offer her a serious relationship, she might accept, but not necessarily because she loves you as well.
Think about it.
In my personal opinion, you're a lonely man who has found a woman you have great sex with and who you like. But you don't really know who she is, and the circumstances you have met do not make me optimistic about a happy ending.
...............................
A
female
reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 March 2012):
 What is your plan with her? Do you intend to marry her and what would her plan be? Would she get rich and invest in something or is she content with being a housewife? If you love her I can't see how you can share her with other men. I think you should talk about life goals before you even mention love. How many more years can you wait until she gives up her career. It can be hard to get into another career being an ex prostitute so are you ready to financially take care of her in case she doesn't know what to do with her life?
...............................
|
