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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. We have a great relationship and never had a fight. We have said the love word and we are always together. Last Sunday, while together, I was picked up by the police. They arrested me for some kind of fraud, the charges were dropped the next day and I was released. He was there when I was arrested and got yelled at by the police. I gave him my house key to come back home and grab his stuff and he took everything that he owned here. Once I got out of jail, I called him, send him a few texts, and even emailed him. He has not responded to anything. I have not heard from him for 3 days. He is leaving on a cruise for 5 days tomorrow and I feel that I am confused about what is going on. I have tried communicating. Many of my friends have suggested that he is scared and needs time to himself. Others (like his roomates) have told my friends that I am to stay away, but in harsher words. My boyfriend has blocked me on Facebook and has cut off all communication, his roomates have even unfriended me as well. What do I do??
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (15 March 2012):
Hey,
I'm sorry to hear this drama has happened. Just when you needed him he has now disappeared. In my opinion 2 months is a bit early for I love yous but thats just a personal one. Well if hes cut contact sadly there isn't a lot you can do. Did you get your key back? if not i'd change the locks and move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 March 2012):
 He dumped you. I guess he couldn't handle the drama?
He sounds kind of douchy if he didn't even want to hear your side of the story.
He is not going to get back in touch with your or talk/see you again. Sorry.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 "My boyfriend has blocked me on Facebook and has cut off all communication, his roomates have even unfriended me as well."
Here's your answer - he ran because he didnt want to deal with someone who was on the wrong side of the law.
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