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writes:I have only been with my boyfriend for three months and a routeen hospital test that i had yesterday also revealed that im pregnant!! I want to keep the baby and i know that my boyfriend will stand by me but im just lost At how to tell him as its so soon! Can anyone help me on how to aproach the subject Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): I assume you weren't using contraception, in which case he must know the risk and shouldn't be surprised.But he needs to be told
If contraception was being used, then you have to sit him down and calmly explain that your pregnant as soon as possible. That its an accident not planned to trap him, that you want to keep the baby.
Let him get used to the idea, it will be a shock as it is for you, but if your intent on keeping it then he may stick around or he may not.Either way he will have financial responsibility for the next 18 years.
Its only been 3 months so your a new couple its hard to say how he will react to the thought of responsibility or long term relationship when you barely know each other.
Good luck
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 Show him the test. Talk to him. The sooner the better.
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