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Dating a guy but found out my best friend liked him too and now we barely speak! Should I break up with him to save our friendship?

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Question - (14 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I've been dating this guy for 3 months now. Only thin is I found out my best friend liked him as well. I found this out a month ago. When she heard we were dating she told me and said that it's gonna take a while to get used too. Since then, we barely talk and go out now. What should I do? Should I break up with him? If I do how and when should I do it? Should I tell him the reason why? Help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012):

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She told me she liked him a few days after we started talking.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012):

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I'm sorry I meant to say she found out a we were talking a few days after we started talking, not dating. She found out we were dating a month in the relationship.

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A female reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2012):

Xx-Scorpio-xX agony auntIf you like him, and he likes you too then there's no reason to break up with him. If your friend told you she liked him before you started going out with him that'd be a different story but you weren't to know and it's a bit mean of her to bring it up now in your relationship.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (14 March 2012):

Honeygirl agony auntIf you like this guy carry on dating him.

Just because your friend likes him too is no reason to dump him.

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