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writes:Hey guys well my question is how to get over someone........a bit of background info I ve recently got closer to this lad at college, we talk daily. I really really like him, When I am with him its amazing, i feel so happy but sometimes if we don't talk or we ve had a little argument I feel so depressed. We both had to go in to college to catch up on some work, we spent about 4 hours together and I helped him with his work but as we was on the train home he hardly spoke and as we left each other he said 'bye' miserably. I just think he uses me. Sometime I think he likes me but I always feel unhappy and depressed when we don't speak that's why I need to get over him pretty soon. Thanks :) and sorry its confusing.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Ouch honey OUCH!!!
Awww it's so crappy when you like someone more than they like you and I think this is whats going on with this bloke. You like him but he isn't playing the game and it's beginning to confuse and hurt you.
The best thing you can do is a dissapearing act right about now and avoid him. If he is interested, he will come looking for you and wonder why you arn't hanging around him anymore. I know that sounds crazy but men like to do the chasing and all the time you are in their presence, they don't even have to try...in fact, being there all the time and being so friendly might actually be turning him off.
Don't give any explaination, no texts or word of mouth via mates, just stay away from him and see what happens. If he doesn't come running, at least you arn't continuing to hurt yourself with his confusing behaviour.
Don't get down about it, this sort of thing happens to all of us and it's just one of those life lessons that we have to learn...it could be that he is just really shy but you still need to keep your distance and let him come to you...it will, at the very least make him curious to where you went.
Hugs honey and chin up xxxxx
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