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26-29,
*rish-n-Abis
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ago..I saw her at school today and she was preganant;already showing,but I'm not for sure if its his. Plus he's in placement(locked up) so I can't find out and I'm stressing and going nuts.please someone help me.God bless you for reading.Thank you :)
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (8 April 2012):
you must be really upset but to be honest with you, you deserve better. the guy is locked up and he is not trustworthy. these kind of problems are not something you should be dealing with at your age. please for your own sake concentrate on your education and maybe finding some nice hobbies where you can make friends and expand your social circle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): My God, but you are in a mess. Your life has barely begun and already you are involved with someone who is "locked up" (for what, by the way?) and potentially the father of another girl's child.
I cannot say strongly enough that if you stay with this guy your life will be a miserable disaster and it will be the same for any children you have with this guy.
For your own sake - please, please do not stay with him. Get an education. Get a job. Get a life.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Your life hasn't even started properly yet, and here you are wondering about all these nasty problems. When I was your age I didnt even know that such problems existed. (Sigh!)
You are growing up way too fast, you're involved with a guy who's got an uncertain future and you're worried that he got another girl pregnant! Please let go of this guy and enjoy your innocence and your teens while you can. You deserve much better
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (31 March 2012):
Get away from the whole situation, dump this guy as it seems clear he is trouble and you don't want him to drag you down with him.
You have a life to lead, don't let it be ruined before it has even started.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): Well, like what you mentioned, since he text other girls, it is a possibility.. However, there's no wayfor you to find out..
But to tell you, you're only 16, at your age, there are stll alot ofthings you have to prioritize other than your bf who plays around.. I'd say enjoy yourself while you're still young..
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