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writes:Well where to begin. Basically, I met a girl who at first appeared very forward shall we say, in her feelings for me.I received many flattering (although false) compliments from her, and she was quite touchy feely, a little possesive, always holding my hand etc, even getting a little intimate, putting my hand on the inside of her leg.At first, I was a little bit put off by her forwardness. I've never really had a girl show an interest in me before, but this was an extreme in that she was showing too much interest.When I sat down and thought about it, actually I did like her too, and I thought I'd see where things lead. Next time I saw her she asked to swap numbers and I agreed, then we spent a while dancing together and were I felt becoming quite close. However when her friend got too drunk she had to escort him home, we said bye and I told her I'd text in the morning. I did. Only problem is she didn't reply. I'd send her a text now and again, and got 0 replies. Next time I saw her, she told me her phone was broken, but I think this was a lie as she had seen my texts. I got the courage to ask her out, to come clubbing with me, and she actually replied, my first reply, again flirtatious, saying she'd see me there, and wanted to see "more of me" (kinda put off by that) but then she never showed, I kept sending texts, she never replied, I eventually had to ask a friend who gave an excuse that she got too drunk to go out that night. I've never had a reply from her since, and when shes online on facebook, I send messages, still no reply.I just have no idea what's going on, she's done a complete 180 from being over the top, to completely ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): She's playing games and sounds like a very immature young woman. Forget her. Move on.
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reader, chinana  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Sorry to say this but it looks like she was playing some mind games with you and she isnt that into you. Just ignore her as well and stop contacting her and move on.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (31 March 2012):
Just leave it, she's stringing you along and you need to move on.
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