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reader, ilgitano  +, writes (1 April 2012):
Leave
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (1 April 2012):
 Once a cheater always a cheater.
Four times a cheater, ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS OH MY GOD NON STOP CONSTANT cheater.
What do you should you do?
I am going to say leave him! He is a shit head that will continue!
You know this as well as I do.
You already know the answer.
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reader, Cole Turner  +, writes (1 April 2012):
 This guy has real trust issues and once a cheat ... always a cheat! time you got rid of this guy and got your life back on track .... there are plenty of guys out there that will be faithful to you - you just need to choose them better! don't become his game and let him play with your emotions!! escape before it is too late
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Then get rid of him again once and for all.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Whats "technical cheating" and non technical cheating? All I know is that if he cheated on you and this is the fourth time that you've taken him back, then he is a serial cheater and will never change. Stop regretting it, act on it instead. Throw him out and stop taking him back. Why is your self esteem so horribly low?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): "Technically cheated" - someone would have to explain that to me ...
If he's cheated 4 times, he will do it 5, 6, 7 and more - he will always do it.
Dump him. Move on. Have a happy life.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (31 March 2012):
 I think 4 times is more than enough, unless you just like being hurt and disappointed over and over again? Its time to dry your tears, get some backbone, and say "no more" and tell him "out the door you go". I can understand forgiving someone once for cheating, but after that, the person is just making you look like a fool. Give yourself a hug and treat yourself better sweetie. You deserve a man who can be faithful.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (31 March 2012):
 DUMP HIM for the fourth time... and, DON'T TAKE HIM BACK FOR THE FIFTH TIME!!!!!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Dump him and move on, if you keep taking him back, he will keep cheating.
Don't you think you deserve a guy who can and will be faithful?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Technically cheated?? Either way, he was disloyal to you. Why do you reward disloyalty with loyalty??
What's making you stay in this relationship where you keep getting hurt over and over? Are you afraid of the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2012): What do you mean "technically cheated", do nothing OP, stay in this failed on/off relationship and just keep getting cheated on. Maybe after the 10th time taking him it'll work out.
I'm kidding by the way.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Breaking up with him and removing him from your life might be SN idea..!
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