A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't been together that long so I don't want to push him. I find myself eyeing turned on really easily and I don't know what to do, I just need some way to deal with my sexual urges, I've tried masturbating but I don't seem to get much pleasure from it and I can't reach climax, has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice for me?
View related questions:
sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Glacier  +, writes (2 April 2012):
Ask him to finger you or go down on you. That's a good start, educational for him and of course a lot of fun.
He might be able to have you climax.
Also tell him that you want him. Do you really think a young horny guy won't be ready to have some serious sex with you? :-)
A
female
reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 If you're not able to masturbate to orgasm, you're probably focusing on the wrong body parts. Are you just straight penetrating yourself with your fingers, or are you focusing on your clitoris? Most women can only reach orgasm through direct stimulation of the clitoris, and you CANNOT pressure him for sex just do you can get off. Respect his boundaries and his person, he doesn't belong to you, only YOU control yourself.
...............................
A
female
reader, person12345 +, writes (31 March 2012):
 Well if you're not having an orgasm, that would definitely do it. It's like being hungry and then being allowed to smell a steak for awhile, then not being allowed to eat it. Have you tried other techniques than what you're doing? Such as bathtub faucets, removable shower heads, vibrators? You don't want to try to pressure him into sex too early.
...............................
A
male
reader, mb129 +, writes (31 March 2012):
Can you try easing into things with some intense dry humping? Wear leggings and a tight shirt, he should be into that and it will make it pleasurable for all. You should be able to ease him into things with that strategy if he's open to sex in the near future.
...............................
|
