A
female
age
41-50,
*indingpeace
writes:Hi all, this is my 1st time posting....Was "strictly" friends with my ex for 8 yrs. We dated off and on from fall 2010 until this Jan. He told me he didn't wanna be in a relationship with me. How it was "easier to be with other women and they have no standards". We talked some more, I thanked him for his honesty and left peacefully. I sent him a nice good bye email wishing him well when I got home. The next morning that's when he went crazy.....Since Jan. 23rd, he has called me almost EVERYDAY from his cell, house, job, unknown #s and private leaving vmails saying forgive him, he so sorry blah blah blah. He calls my unit 5-6 times a shift. Sends text and fb msgs (were never friends on fb), emails from diff accts. Sunday he showed up at my house, took pics, emailed and text them to me to say "he's trying". Then calls my job to find me because my car wasn't there. Now he's leaving index cards on my car time and dated at 3:30am (he stays 45 mins away) begging me to call. I HAVE NOT RESPONDED TO ANY OF HIS ATTEMPTS to reach me. I feel horrible ignoring him. However, he made his decision as to who and what was important to him. He needs to live with the outcome of it. Soooooo my question: What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2012): Next time he calls, ask him if he's ready to give you a commitment. If he says anything other than YES, say goodbye and block him from your phone and email.
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (31 March 2012):
 You should carry on ignoring him. You've done well so far. If you start feeling bad just remember how he ended it with you.
You have done nothing wrong at all.
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