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The odd one out at work, what to do?

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30 November 2011 (F age 51-59 - hi, need advice on a workplace question, hoping for genuine answers please, appreciate it. I work in a hospital, I like my job, need it and am not going to leave Most of my colleagues are friends, to some degree, not all are "good" friends but most socialise out of work. i... (261 words

Will the relationship ever work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend was together over a year he broke up with me monday cause the same girl that has been giving ur drama and touble since the day she found out we first met. he said he was tired of the drama and he was tried of me listening to the drama and listening to ... (196 words

Man over 20 with a teen?

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30 November 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old male and I was wondering is it illegal for me casually date a girl who's 17? Or just simply be good friends with her?... (31 words

I feel so used and don't understand what is going on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - So to make a long story short. Met one night 7 months ago. Been talking and hanging out ever since. One day, he just stopped talking to me. For two weeks I tried to pretend I didn't care, but one night, my emotions got the best of me and I contacted him. A few days later, we ... (261 words

One thing led to another, and I'd like to talk to him about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 26-29 - Me and my mate "charlie" were at his house one night and i got up in the morning went to have a shower however he did not realize and walk in on me in the shower, we were were both naked and both got erections. After this we went to his room and made out for ages and eventually ... (106 words

I think my crazy sister in law wants my husband!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I think my sister in law is trying to destroy my marriage because she is jealous of me and hates me because she wants her brother, my husband. She is constantly putting me down but playing it off as joke so if I say anything it will seem as if I'm overreacting. She says and ... (380 words

Am I reading the signs correctly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 51-59 - okok so ive been chatting online for 2 weeks with a lovely girl - shes 26..gorgeous. funny. intelligent. etc... after a week, she confided that she had a bf.. i was super chilled. said wow he must be awesome. i hope he appreciates what he has... she started droppin hints that ... (437 words

How long should I give him before I decide its not going to happen?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I met this guy online and after two months have passed he asked me if he could contact me on my mobile, so I gave him my number and we chatted a couple of times and texted each other. The thing is he keeps telling me that he wants to see me. I travelled ove... (342 words

Why is he caring and then the next day almost rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - Please help me understand what he's thinking! The guy I'm dating is super sweet, then sometimes I feel like I just don't matter. Last night he was amazing to be with and hang out, romantic, affectionate, you name it. I spent the night and he was fetching me water in the middle ... (259 words

Ex wants to try again but how can I after I seen what turns him on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, could do with some strong advice before i cry. I split up with my boyfriend a few days ago as i caught him lying to me. He moved out and i stopped all contact. Then thismorning he sent me an email and when i went to reply i found an email from a dating site. It... (263 words

My boyfriends mother is too protective and manipulative!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, aunts and uncles. I'm stuck and unsure of whether to feel upset or if i should try to be more understanding and compassionate in the current situation I am in with my boyfriend and his mother. Any opinions and advice are well appreciated! Thanks ahead of time. This is long ... (1548 words

What vibrator should I get?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is a question for the women lol I was thinking of buying a rabbit vibrator as I can't have a orgasm on my own which rampant rabbit vibrator is best do you think I was thinking of getting the thrusting one is this any good thank you ... (50 words

My girlfriend sexually fantasizes about one of her ex partners.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 25 year old male. I've been dating this girl for the past 3 months and things have been going great. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic as well. Yesterday, I was on her computer looking something up and I ended up looking at her history. I know this was wro... (188 words

I want to keep my sexual orientation private, but feel guilty if I don't say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey. Basically i for the last year have been wondering about my sexuality. About 3 months into the year i started to have feelings for women and become rather attracted to them. This was completely new to me as i didn't grow... (660 words

Its been 5 years and I'm still not over my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - After 5 years I am still not over my ex. I miss her like nothing else and it's eating me alive: I have had heavy depressions over this. She was the womkan of my dreams. We always stayed somewhat in contact until a year ago I cut of all contact: this so I could heal. It w... (129 words

Art and Design or Business and Enterprise? Which one to choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - Basically long story short i need help choosing one more subject for me to do for the next two years. In two years time i will be having a series of massive exams called GCSE'S. Depending on the results of these massive exams wi... (825 words

Why is he in touch and how do I handle this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, so my first proper boyfriend from 8 years ago, we dated about 1.5 years back then. We bumped into each other about 5 years ago or something, said hey yadi ya as you do. But every so randomly he sends hello's on facebook. We're not friends on it though. I'd just g... (314 words

Having sex again after 12 days really hurt! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend hadn't had sex for 12 days- couldn't get a house to ourselves. We finally managed today, and it hurt like a *****. It was the same sort of pain I felt when I lost my virginity. It felt like I was being torn down there and brought tears to my eyes. Anyone... (74 words

No more erections!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 51-59 - For emotional reasons, I believe it's best that I stop having sex. I'm wondering if there are any techniques that can train you to never have an erection again, like pinching your skin very hard each time you get an erection. Would there be any surgical solution for th... (70 words

Is my boyfriend bored, or stressed, or not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - I understand the concept of the honeymoon period. During the first six months or so that we were together, my boyfriend would text me things that still make me blush when I read them. (we've been together just over a year now) We were also like rabbits in bed. But for a few ... (277 words

Bed bug problem! My boyfriend doesn't believe he has them even though I get bitten!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a unique problem. My bf wont support me on bed bug problem and its causing great strain. I mistakenly bought a used mattress a little while back and i started getting bitten all over. I sanitized everything in my place but then I think one hitched a ride and got into his ... (198 words

Is it normal to urinate in the bath and shower?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age - How many people urinate in their bath or shower? My boyfriend says everyone does and expects me to trust him if we bathe together. What shall I do?... (28 words

My fiancee doesn't want sex with me any more and says I'm lose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my fiancée' for 2 years now and we have been having sex maybe around 3 times a week. But now he is saying he's bored of sex and he doesn't like it. he just wants me to give him Blowjobs. I don't know how he can be bored of sex as i do try to make it more fun by ... (586 words

I've just broken up with my LDR......I'm in pieces and need to know how to cope and be strong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F - i need some advice please. Ive just ended it with my ldr boyfriend, after being messed around with yet again and now as i sit in here in tears, my heart is broken and i feel sick, I just need to know how to be strong over the next few weeks. We had been together a year almost, ... (177 words

Anyone have experience with erections barely sufficient to achieve vaginal penetration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - Has anyone been with a guy aged about 36 who at best could achieve only a "fat soft" barely sufficient to manage vaginal penetration on a regular basis?... (28 words

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so after having our little guy, he was su... (563 words

Did I do the wrong thing by making the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on this guy from my local store. I go in and out all the time to try and chat with him but there is always people there. I'm quite shy and my mother is old fashioned so she brought me up to believe that guys should make the first move, so there was not mu... (292 words

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I met my now current bf and we h... (110 words

How do I move on from here? I feel horrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - Lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. When we started dating, he was dating someone else and lied about it. Didn't come clean until she burst his bubble. I did something before him that I am ashamed of. I slept with a married man and denied it. That was 5 years ago. We ... (308 words

Can anyone advise on what we are doing wrong and how to get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi All, I am in dyer straits... I feel I have no where to turn to or have a shoulder to cry on... I have been with my husband since I am 17. We are together a total of 11 years and married for 3.5 years. He lost his mother to cancer at a young age and I was in a similar ... (523 words

Would it seem odd if I added him on Facebook and asked him how he is doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have this guy that I am in college with I have had a crush on him since we started school. I have never had a full conversation with him just small talk. So I just found out he was in a motorcycle accident and lost 2 of his fingers a pretty serious shock. He is not in any of ... (145 words

My B/f is always telling me how hot he thinks I am, but he never seems to be in the mood for sex any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, we love eachother very much, and also find eachother very attractive. We used to have sex practically everyday, I'd dress up for him and everything, then we went to having sex 3-4 times a week. Now I feel as if we have ... (154 words

I am interested in a 17 year old girl and her mother is encouraging us to have sex! Why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am interested in a 17 year old girl who seems to like me but is a little reserved.She is an only child. Her mother is encouraging the relationship actively. She even told me that sex was okay if I loved her. What is mother up to? I find it a little disconceting. Has anyone ... (61 words

Something more or just games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - I ment a woman about a year ago, since then we have became pretty good friends. Over the course of the last 3 months we have had several sexual encounters. Shes the type to hide her feelings and play it off like it is nothing. But lately she has been sending online messages ... (131 words

Her sister saw us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 36-40 - We were and having sex in her bedroom when her older sister walked in on us. She stood there a while. When I got off she must have seen everyting. She then walked out. My gf was a little shy but I got a kick out. What do we say to her now?... (54 words

How can I get my G/f to feel sexy and realize how wonderful she actually is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - how can i get my wonderfull girlfriend to feel sexy. She has low self image. To me she is beautiful and what she finds imperfections. I think that what makes her who she is. She always covers her self up. Says she is fat and unattractive. When we have sex her top stays on and ... (103 words

Ladies, once you meet a new interesting guy, when do you allow that first intimate touch?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 36-40 - Ledies, you meet a new interesting guy. When do you allow that first intimate touch? Is it any different if you meet him while you're hurting from a recent break up? Your answers are important to me.... (37 words

Spark is gone after 9 years with GF. Troubled relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I have a big problem. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years. When I met her I was a virgin. She was not. She even told me back when we first started dating that she didn't care if we were an item or not, she just wanted to have sex with me. I refused several ... (719 words

Why do guys find it easy to orgasm, but many women never do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - You always read about women having problems with this. Yet never any guys. Why is this? Is it because it's more taboo if a women does?... (26 words

I feel like I am taking 2nd place to his smoking weed habit. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend used to be a heavy pot smoker (i'm talking daily) and and gave it up for about 7 months as he knows im not comfortable with it. However, about 3 months ago he relapsed but i only found out as I caught him lying. Since then he has said he will give it up, and also ... (204 words

I want a baby but my bf wants to first better financial situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im 16 and lost twins 4 months and i was 5 months pregnant, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to go throu but my boyfriend was really supportive. after just getting sorted about forgetting loosing my twins ive started to really want another baby but my boyfriend isnt sure ... (88 words

I love my GF but I think she is cheating. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - Help needed with troubled relationship should I trust her, do I end it and is she cheating. To cut a long story short I have been with my girlfriend for around 2 years and love her very much we've been through alot together. At first it was great and we were due to move in t... (762 words

How can I approach an attractive girl? Fear of Rejection.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 30-35 - There is a girl in my class who in see at least twice a week who seems really polite and quiet but I don't know how to approach her. As I'm afraid of being rejected. She once approached me and a couple of friends and asked in a very polite manner for a lighter. Sometimes I ... (150 words

Irregular periods are making me nervous about having children in the future, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - Just want some readers opinions on this. I've been tracking my menstrual cycle and in this year alone (2011), ive so far had 6 periods. Obviously this is different to the 'typical' woman who may have 1 every month or so. It's making me nervous about being able to have... (249 words

He seemed to have completely moved on just one day after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've broke up with my ex of 5months... before that we are loving couple;he loved me,respects me,he covered and put up with my flaws... problem we had was that we argue too often..mostly about loyalty,trust and cheating I love him but I always doubted his loyalty for he poste... (163 words

In love with my friend, but I'm not a lesbian! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I would like your opinions on this one and if possible some advice you could give... I am in love with a close friend of mine. We are always together every time and we always talk about topics related to crushes and love. I've loved her for already 5-6 months and every time I... (237 words

She just isn't tight anymore. Should I say anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife of a decade years used to be extremely tight. I could barely push in to her. We have not had any kids and yet now when we have sex she feels very loose. There is almost no friction. It's hard to even get off sometimes because (pardon me for saying this) it feels l... (154 words

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 51-59 - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for seeing him maybe I'm a softy! ... (595 words

I find the thought of my girlfriend with another guy arousing, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 30-35 - Is something wrong with me? I don't know why but I find the thought of my girlfriend with other guys very arousing. I don't know why but I do. When she was going out with other guys it hurt like crazy, like I was having an emotional heart attack but now that it's over and I th... (271 words

Why does my girlfriend get jealous over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 30-35 - What is wrong with my girlfriend? She gets way too jealous over absolutely nothing. If I'm with one of my girl friends(Friends who are girls) then she gets jealous when all they are is friends. She has a ton of guy friends but I don't get jealous of her. She wants to go somew... (367 words

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a daily basis expressing how ... (331 words

Trying for a baby and nothing the doctors are doing is working...advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really want to have a baby. I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years and I have had no luck. I did have an unsuccessful pregnancy in the past with a previous boyfriend. I was pregnant with twin girls for 5 months and had to deliever them dead.. :( but that was in 2009. I ... (81 words

Need help with boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - i am 13 and in 7th grade. how do i get boys in my grade (in my school) to like me as a friend and then maybe date me later on in life? but i don't know how! cause honestly i tried flirting, being nice i tried the best i could but now i need some help. thee main problem ise... (154 words

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that he doesn't know why he is with... (391 words

Numerous problems with girlfriend and I just don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, my first post here, and I need some advise. I've been dating this girl for some number of years now. We've had our good times and our bad times like any couple, but now I don't really feel like she is the one. We've had proplems before, but always worked them out.... (259 words

Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend has never made you have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 30-35 - Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend (of 2 years) doesn't know how to and has never made you orgasm? At first it didn't bother me...but now I'm beginning to feel like he has given up on trying to please me and only wants to get off. I know that is ... (222 words

My lover prefers oral all the time. How can I get him to be less fixated on oral and more on intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age - How do I get my man to engage in intercourse at times; instead of oral sex all the time? Am I not doing something I should be doing?... (28 words

Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went to basic training so ever ... (183 words

I want to get married and have kids and my boyfriend is no where near ready for that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for several years. He is not working and he is a mama's boy even though we live together. He thinks im a liar even when i am telling the truth. It hurts and as a result i get mad and say a lot of awful things that i later regret. I want to stop ... (152 words

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl said she was pregnant but... (118 words

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 30-35 - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and makes me feel guilty and ... (80 words

Would I come across as creepy or desperate if I add this guy on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - Earlier I was bored and clicking around on facebook, and found myself on the profile of a guy whom I had 9 mutual friends with. Looking at his profile I could see that he often attends the same clubs as me, and shares my music taste EXACTLY (there's not many people who do) not ... (188 words

My pattern of preferring much older men is starting to bother me. But are men in their 30s discounting me for dating older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 41-50 - I'm a 31 year old woman. I live alone and have a career that I love. I'm fairly attractive. I would say I'm an 8 out of 10 on most days. I don't have a desire to get married. I have a healthy fear of getting pregnant or catching a disease. I live in a city with a lot of ... (369 words

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been able to properly grieve for her,... (352 words

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 November 2011 (? age 41-50 - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constant accusations of m... (120 words

Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year is something I've been ... (140 words

Should I Kiss him or wait for him to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F age 26-29 - My best friend is just under 3 years older than me. Her boyfriend's best friend has feelings for me and tries to get up close and personal all the time. I find this very sweet but extremely annoying at the same time. I do think he is hot though and I do quite like him...a few ... (105 words

Is something changing in me? Am I losing my girlfriend? What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However I have noticed her so much ... (140 words

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