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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is surgery worth loss of sensitivity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not talking about implants! I know most men are against implants but are for other surgeries(reductions, lifts, nipple reductions etc) From your point of view, do you think better looking breasts are worth the loss of sensitivity? I personally believe so for me at ... (73 words)

Guys: Would you open up and talk personal things with someone you just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys: Would you ever open up and tell a girl who you met on a night out something very personal about your family life? For example one of your parents being seriously ill/getting a divorce and the effect it has on you and the lifestyle because of it? I ask since I met a gu... (264 words)

I thought he cared about me too but when I told him how he felt he hasn't been in touch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So i am separated from my husband. And there is this guy i have been talking to and seeing. We have been friends for over 2yrs. We used to talk about everything and we grew such a connection while we were friends (all this happening while i was still married). All the while ... (301 words)

He'd rather search the internet than give me a text or a call!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused and a but hurt. I just started dating again after a painful breakup and it seems every guy I date is not serious at all. I finally hit it off with "John ". He texted or called me everyday for 3 weeks while he was out of town on vacation. He met up with me ... (305 words)

Everything went great, he took me to his house, I met his mom...but then he tried to kiss me and I freaked out! Now he's gone from calling and texting me everyday to nothing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in college. I met this Cuban guy in the Finacial aid office and I have been thinking of him ever since...... I had a little crush on him. Two months later I saw him again at the library, and he said I wonder why I keep running into you? He told me he thought I ... (420 words)

How do I trust him after he broke up to go on a dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I am writing for advice so I can (hopefully) put this issue to rest. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 3 years when he suddenly decided to break up with me. He said our relationship wasn't going anywhere. I was stunned by this, because he had never brought it... (333 words)

Girlfriend is staying with her baby's daddy for 2 weeks...cause for concern or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing a lovely single mom for about a year, was FWB for about 6 months and were good friends for about 2 years before that. She has a 2 year old girl, who is just the most adorable little critter ever. This is not my first relationship, but its the first where ... (344 words)

My girlfriend has rather strange views I don't agree with and I'm not sure if I should be in this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - ive been with my current gf for about 3 months. it all seemed great at the begining but as i really got to know her. i found out that her ex husband abused her kids she did not go into it but i assumed sexually. she is now having issues with her son hes 17 he seems to be very ... (374 words)

How do I get over him? He broke up with me through a text

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I completely move on from this guy I was completely in love with easily???????? We broke up on August 24, 2011. He texted me at 3:30 am saying that it wasnt working out. I have no idea what-so-ever as to why we broke up. So help me please come up with a simple and easy ... (70 words)

My husband wants me to be in charge in the bedroom and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has expressed a desire for me to be "in charge" in the bedroom. I am not experienced in that area whatsoever. What do I need to do to give my husband the "woman in charge" sex that he wants?... (41 words)

He sends me messages nearly every day - flirting.But I'm confused. Do I give this player a chance or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've found myself in a strange situation, I worked with this guy for about 3 years, we got on really well even had a cheeky kiss at the christmas parties, he always had a reputation as a player, so it never went any where, when he left I found out that his girl... (236 words)

We aren't speaking but I want to wish him a happy birthday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so a couple months ago I lost someone really really really special to me. And even though its been a couple of months I still miss him a lot. What makes it worst is that his birthday is coming up this Sunday and I'm wondering whether I should tell him happy birthday. I'm ... (201 words)

I don't want to blow chances to go out with girls who could be perfect for me just because I can't get this girl out of my head!

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15 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - about a year ago i was waiting for my bus to go home from college at the station and this girl walked by and we both stared into each others eyes and smiled at one another we both kept looking at each other as she walked past. me then being a shy person just did nothing. now ... (281 words)

I feel badly for just leaving my ex in the dark. Should I talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I started dating person A. While person A and I were in the beginning phases of going on dates and getting to know eachother, I was still sleeping with my ex-girlfriend on the side. I told person A that I cut all communication with my ex and don't talk to her...a blatant lie. ... (333 words)

He says I will never change and I need anger management as a piece of advice before I leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, My boyfriend just dumped me again and thinks I will never change. I am 27 and he is 28. We've been dating for 1 and half yr. He says he's afraid to miss my call or I will get angry and he's afraid to pick up my phone because he is scared I will get angry. He is so ... (680 words)

I find it hard to have feelings for others. Is it normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - After taking abit of time out and just recalling a few things which have happened over the years I relized something rather strange about myself. Ive always been a rather happy person and I don't wish to boast but i have also been cal... (407 words)

How can I talk to this good looking stranger on the train?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i go to work everyday in train, there's a guy who travels in same train well in other compartment.. over the days i am fallen head over heels for him. i cant think of anything other than him for rest of day. i cant eat cant sleep i think only of him..i dont know whats h... (173 words)

Wife emailing old boyfriend--should I be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My question involved my wife's contact with a boyfriend she had 25 years ago. Recently, my wife noticed that her past boyfriend was divorced. She admitted to sending him an email regarding his recent divorce. At the time she seemed excited but stated that he was emot... (201 words)

What can I do about these teenaged girls calling me a pedophile?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, basicly i got called a peado on the way to work by two school girls about 15 years old cos essentially i looked at them, i got through the cow gate (i go accross a field) i noticed they were waitibng for me to get through so they could pass through and i looked up at them ... (258 words)

How do I talk to my step sister about her health/appearance? I want to help her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My step sister has a few problems that are getting seriously out of control for my parents. The first is that She is a uk size 22 now at the age of 16. She moved in with my mum and her dad (my step dad) because she cant get on with her mother who is a difficult person. My step ... (703 words)

How to have the "we need to talk" talk with a guy??? Any help appreciated!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have had an on-again off-again thing for nearly three years now. Nothing physical, but we have a hell of a lot of chemistry. And it isn't just "Oh your attractive let's have sex"-- it's a legitimate I care about you and hope you're alright. Point in case ... (241 words)

My bf doesn't work and I pay all the bills. Please help me see this from a different perspective.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am at a tough point in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and have been best friends for 2 years before that. I love him a lot, and I think he loves me too. However, after starting to live together, the problems began. He does not ... (507 words)

Just learned that I may not be my son's father

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need to make a HUGE possibly life changing decision. My wife and I are married for almost 15 years. When we met she had just broken up with her ex-bf. We dated for about 6 months when she told me she was pregnant. I did the right thing, and we got married. Like I said it'... (347 words)

Are our conversations boring? Does he still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really really like this guy. Ive had a huge crush on him for 4 years but haven't talked to him until recently. We both are so similar. We like the same things, think the same, we're both kind of reserved and don't open up much. In short, two boring people. ... (203 words)

I'm worried about my friend and my bf

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know I'm being crazy or if I should be upset/worried. This is basically about my boyfriend and my friend, who is a girl. From the beginning, I've been very insecure about them, I admit. When I first introduced them, they got along really really really well, the... (895 words)

How do I fix the relationship with my in-laws?

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15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask how to fix my relationship with my in-laws who are against me at the very beginning? My 33 year old husband is a Mama's Boy. The rich mother doesn't want to give us a chance to loan from a bank for us to have our own home, the worst part is, she doesn't even ... (198 words)

How long will boyfriend feel like this? Will he still want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy who got dumped 5 weeks ago very suddenly after two years with his girlfriend. We started talking because I had been through exactly the same thing almost 4 months before and knew how he was feeling. I really helped him out by having the experience and we got ... (376 words)

I can't tell by the signs if my housemate may be interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay woman and I've recently started fancying my house-mate. I don't know i) if she's intertested in women or ii) if she likes me. But here's what's happened: 1. We were out one-night with a group. And for pretty much the whole night she had her arm around me, inclu... (209 words)

I'm married and now my lover is also married I'm struggling to accept she is physical with another man....I don't want to share her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and had a relationship with collegaue in office. We got along for couple of years well including physically and now she got married to a guy. She says she wants to continue being physical with me but I am finding it hard to accept now because she is already sharing ... (99 words)

Is my ex only using me while he tries and gets back with his ex wife? Should I get rid of him now or wait and see?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex partner to whom I have a child has recently broken up with his wife and has come running back to me in order to reinstate a relationship that was never completely finished because he left to marry her. However, during his marriage of about 4 years (he claims the marriage ... (341 words)

I told her how I felt and she backed off....is she scared because she thinks I'll change my mind about my sexuality? Or does she simply not want a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am female and just fallen in love with another girl,she is a lesbian and this is first time i have ever felt anything for a girl. we have kissed a few times and the other day she were holding my hands kissing me then i started getting feelings for her so i told her now she ... (189 words)

He left me for harmless online flirting. Why?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my chap going on 4 years. I have flirted online which was harmless and meant nothing. Just a bit of a joke and no more. I understand i hid it from him,but only so he wouldnt get the wrong idea as we had a break up over it once. Since he found out again,i have ... (90 words)

My boyfriend and I are new to sex....advice please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months tomorrow, and both gave each other our virginities a month ago exactly. Our physical relationship has never been anything but perfect for each other, he cares more about me being satisfied than himself, and will do ever... (661 words)

I'm sick and tired of him ignoring me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years was ignoring me lately and most of the times he wont call for a week. I told him repeatedly this is not acceptable, even he is busy he should have atleast left me a message. Anyway i lost my control and didnt call for nearly 2 weeks and after that he called m... (122 words)

My girlfriend's potential investor is the mother of a guy who seemed into her, is this appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of a decade is an aspiring film producer. Her two year old company has a few documentaries in the works, but hasn't had a big payday or even a movie they can really be proud of so far, although there are some candidates still in production. There was a guy... (596 words)

How do I help my cousin? She cant move on from her ex and he keeps postponing their dates!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well my cousin was in a relationship with a guy for almost a year, and then she broke up with him because he doesn't give her enough attention. after some time she realized she can not move on. and then she went back to her ex and tried to apologize but her ex is always giving ... (97 words)

I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

- I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and tries to be as loving as I can be ... (398 words)

The longer I know him the less that I understand him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After almost two years, I met the family of the man I'm seeing-but it was nothing formal. I'm not sure if this means anything, but he has kept me under wraps before now. It's so hard to understand him sometimes. He's a nice man but I can never figure out his motives, his ... (133 words)

Would you let your man/ or girl live with their baby mama/ baby daddy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months, and he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he has a kid with her and another one on the way... then he told her that he did and he didn't see the relationship with them going anywhere. Before they broke up he bought a ... (127 words)

Love can just blow up in your face!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Oh how love can just blow up in your face... I've been in a relationship for over 7 months, and it's been on the decline for 1 and a half... after a moment of anger I said I didn't think it was a good idea to still be in a relationship, seeing as I wasn't happy, she wasn'... (359 words)

I don't know how to take care of kids, I don't think they're cute, I don't like them or know what to do with them, and I don't want one, ever.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I was talking with my mom, and my sister, who joined in, and they said it was wierd that I have no maternal instinct. Every woman in my family, and even a lot of men LOVE babies and kids, whenever there's a baby around, everyone coos over it, and the women can hear kids ... (164 words)

At what point can I start calling him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy that I've known for many years, thru mutual friends and projects, started pursuing me this last month. Now we've seen each other three times and this week had sex. If it was a new person I would feel differently but because of our history I don't think we've moved too ... (107 words)

I need advice on how to uncover her feelings if there are any, and rekindle the love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, if you would like the full background to this question then check out some of the others I've asked. Basically 2 months ago me and the girl of my dreams broke up. She ended things on account of she was having doupts if she loved me or not. This destroyed me, and I'm still ... (193 words)

He's waiting for my move and I'm not sure what that move should be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago at school. We hit it off right away, there was always a spark. Now it is still there and very strong (on both sides) but I'm not sure what to do. Both of us are holding off doing anything because he is only here for another two months before ... (130 words)

His ex is my friend and I don't know if I should act on my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend have liked each other for a couple weeks now. We've held hands and kissed and hugged but in private not public. Problem here is his ex is my friend and she had broken up with him 5 months ago and I don't know if we should continue this. I don't want her to feel ... (114 words)

What to do when your crush tells you he just wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend and we like ot hang out with each other. We started flirting and having sexy chats with pictures and all over the internet. He was dumped by his long time GF 9 months ago and something tells me he still have feelings for her. I didn't liked him as my love b... (112 words)

I was a jerk and treated her badly but I can't stop thinking of her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i don't know what to do i just movied to the city and started at a new school i started dating this girl and after 2 month i became a real jerk to here started making fun of fun they next school year she never showed up know i am older i realized that i loved her i cannot quit ... (84 words)

Why does this man act this way and chose to ignore this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this man in who sometimes leads my group. Recently, after stating at the beginning of the meeting that he expects all must participate and give a lot of comments by raising their hands, chose to not allow a certain female whom he often ignores, to comment also when she ... (193 words)

After 3 years of having feelings for my coach should I try something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant help but be in love with my coach. i have been on a lot of other teams with a lot of other male coaches so its not like i have a thing for my coaches. but i am 18 years old and a senior in high school. my coach is always giving me signs that he has feelings for me but ... (426 words)

Seeing one girl and slept with another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm beginning to have a serious dilemma.. I've been exclusively with this girl (not officially dating, but basically) for about 8 months now and things have been going great. I started college in the fall and she just happened to be moving roughly an hour away from my ... (268 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend is not as ambitious as I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years with a 6 month "break-up" about a year ago. We were still hanging out all the time, being intimate so it really wasn't much of a break...so things go sometimes. Anyhow, we have been happier than ever since we've come back ... (498 words)

I'm told the girl I like likes me too, but she hasn't given me any signs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like someone and one of my friend told me that she likes me too but I dont seem to be getting any signs off her. we're really good friends and told a couple of weeks back but she didnt make much of it but thats not something that I would take personally because ... (93 words)

Should I talk to my ex boyfriend again? It's been 7 months.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

15 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, So my ex and I used to talk 24/7 all the time for about 6 months and then we dated and broke up because he wasn't mature enough to hold a relationship in the summer. Now we've had no contact whatsoever for about 7 months. I only see him twice a week, every other week... (254 words)

Now that we are official she won't do "special" things to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship with this woman (on and off) for almost 3 years. At first, the sex was ridiculous (we weren't official at first, just friends with benefits.) But now, since we've officially decided to be in a committed relationship, she has stopped do... (166 words)