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anonymous
writes:I ment a woman about a year ago, since then we have became pretty good friends. Over the course of the last 3 months we have had several sexual encounters. Shes the type to hide her feelings and play it off like it is nothing. But lately she has been sending online messages stateing things like "I enjoy talking to you because of your really sweet" and "I only act that way so you dont end up falling for me" And " I somewhat like you". Shes a very smart individual. And states that alot of times she can be manipulative. But at the same time states that she has no reason to manipulate or lie to me. Is this a game to her, or does she truely feel this way?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2011): Agree, ask her how she feels, you dont deserve to be used by her and be at her call whenever she wants sex, she does sound like she is playing a game maybe? ask her, straight up, if she only wants sex and you want more, then maybe its time to rethink if you want to still be with her, she canr give you what you want. All the best
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 November 2011):
 why don't you ask her the exact same question "is this a game to you or do you truly feel this way?"
if you intimate enough to get naked and have sex with someone you should be able to ask them how they feel about you.
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