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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I contact her to check on her or just leave her alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF and I have been apart since the beginning of the year. She broke up with me as she said she thinks I am bored in life and need to go and experience the world. So we agreed that I would do new things and see what happens in the future. It has taken a long time but I ... (333 words)

Whats the best way to show him he means nothing to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im really hurt and angry as the guy i thought was a close friend has turned out to be a total user and i dont know what to do. hes borrowed money too many times to mention-always gives a sob story, then forgets about this. ive practically paid for lunch and coffee at work for ... (256 words)

Have I been downgraded to FWB??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thank you, I need to write and for somebody to listen :) So just a summary, because I've written many ... My boyfriend of 9 months cheated on me with a LDR in another country thru this computer and skype. I don't think the girl knows about... (254 words)

Gagging and deep throating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok imma keep this plain and straight to the point. My man likes oral sex just like any other man. I like givin to him. My only problem is that I really can't get it own my throat just yet. I can suck it really good but deep throating is very scary to me. I know the first thing ... (174 words)

Should I tell him about my sex life in my teens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so as a teen(maybe when i was 15 or 16 i had a boyfriend who i had gone out with for about 2-3 years. we had sex....and we were truly in love.... but then he moved. :( now i have a fiance. we've been dating for about 2 years. and i love him so much......but now hes asking me ... (97 words)

Date night plans may not work with football! Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

- Hi, I have been seeing this man who is roughly the same age as me (two years difference in age - he is 25, I'm 23) for a couple months now, after speaking to him for a month via emails and texts. He is due to come back from a weeks' holiday abroad tomorrow so I have not spoke... (630 words)

He talks to me all the time. Is there any hope for me to be more to him? Because now he tells me he likes my best friend's best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with a boy, and it sucks. its like i have this cord rapped around me and it wont loosen. he calls me all the time, and he lends me stuff like keyboards and said he would teach me the piano, and gives me scarves when im cold, and askes to come round to my home( even ... (147 words)

Is it normal that neither of us has reached orgasm yet? Never? Can this be helped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend lost our virginities to each other, so we're quite new to the sexual life; all is fine and fun, but one problem is bugging me.. we have NEVER reached orgasm.. we would have sex in many diffrnt positions, for such a long time, but we get nowhere. i h... (120 words)

My Boyfriend is still Married but getting a Divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my boyfriend has been hiding the truth from me that he is married to someone else for the past 2 years that we have been together. I had to beat the truth out of him because I had always been suspicious that he was hiding something. He got married 3 years ... (424 words)

I think he's technically be cheating. Should I be concerned? Considering that he is completely satisfying me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... I am in a relationship that has been going on for 9 months and it has come to my attention that my bf is 'cheating' on me. I know it sounds strange but I am unsure of how I feel about this. Basically the situation is, my bf is lovely, he really cares for me and is there... (250 words)

I'm pregnant and don't want to screw up my boyfriend's career

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi peeps! i recently found out im preggers! :) great news exept its kind of not! my bf of 8months is at university and still has 3 years to go! i know every1 would be happy for us and abortion is the last thing i want to think about but i really dont want to mess up my ... (149 words)

I find it hard to believe this girl is totally inexperienced!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm reposting, because I accidentally posted this as a girl. I'm a guy, so if possible could you post this question again but as a guy asking, sorry for the inconvenience! I don't understand it, I met this girl who is breathtakingly beautiful. First thing that attracted m... (257 words)

How do I tell my former flat mate that I really like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My old flat mate and I have been trying to get the rest of our flat mates to reunite but there has been no luck so far due to university demands. Also, the last few months of us all living togetherin the summer, I realised that I had a crush on one of my flat mates and was su... (166 words)

It's time to move on but I don't know how...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this guy, who is one of my best friends, for about two years now. It's varied a lot as to how much I've liked him. I properly liked him a lot until a year ago, when we went out, then faded for while then constantly changed from just a tiny little feeling to properly ... (154 words)

Is it true a drunken mans words is a sober mans thoughts? does my FWB love me?

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9 November 2011 (F) age 30-35 - does my FWB really love me? me and him have been friends with benefits for 2 years. he keeps getting girlfriends and breaking up with them because he gets "bored" but he has been a fwb with me for 2 years.I love him more than words can say and he knows this, and admits it too. ... (350 words)

How can I be more romantic when we live so far apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman right now and she is becoming dissatisfied with the distance. Neither one of us can afford an airline ticket right now and she is not sure we can maintain this for long if we don't meet soon. She wants more romance ... (69 words)

Is it bad to fake an orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If you fake an orgasm while your partner is trying to please you, is it rude? Me and my bf (of about a year) were having some fun a few days ago, and he was trying to get me to orgasm with his fingers, and it felt good, but after a while I realized I wasn't going to feel an... (138 words)

How do I feel more comfortable having asymmetrical breasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Im a 15 year old girl who has asymmetrical breasts. My left is an a cup and the right is a c cup. Im quite insecure about them and i have been to see my gp about them but obviously because im under 18 they cant do anything. Can anyone who has the same problem give me some sup... (81 words)

Would women 35-45 be interested in me?

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9 November 2011 (M) age 41-50 - I am 28 right now. Since teenage , I have been really attracted to 34-45 age group girls. I find them extremely hot, polite and mature. I am dying to have girlfriend and wife being coming form this age group. I always compliment them whenever I meet them in public p... (108 words)

Will he call? Or is he afraid of rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - 1,5 months ago I was in the ER (I work as a doctor). I had a patient who, upon arriving was in a lot of pain. When it was all over a few hours later and he was pain-free, he told me a big thanks for the way I had treated him (by this time his father had joined him to get him ... (983 words)

I would love to see him again! What do I say or do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age - On a cruise there was a very young entertainer half my age -we e mailed occasionally and now he is off the ship and in the city and I said I would be in the city for a day so we arranged to meet up in the afternoon for lunch and catch up with news. After 3 hours the shop c... (291 words)

How can I stop this feeling and stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (?) - Hi I've just moved into a shared house which is fantastic, everyone's lovely and we get on well. I've recently started going out with this guy and in the morning, after a night out and feeling hungover I started talking about previous house shares I'd been in. This is my 6th ... (465 words)

Got through first date - now need advice for second date venues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Aunts and Uncles - I asked the other day about first date advice. It obviously worked as I've got a second date next week!!!! So, the new question is where to go for a second date? The first was at a nice country pub for a meal (so not as pressured as a restaurant and t... (159 words)

Found porn on b/f's phone and kind of freaked out about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf asked me to call the pizza place on his phone. Whe n I picked it up I saw he accidentally had left up his web browser from when he was walking to work. It had a internet page up of girls in underwear posing - aka porn type stuff. I don't usually feel uncomfy with porn but ... (100 words)

What is the difference between a relationship and a FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - hey, there's this guy i know who's really fit and that i've been friends with for years. we flirt a lot but have never gone out. neither of us want to be in a serious relationship, i've got too much with college work and he's got his own career to work on. but i do q... (163 words)

I need some ideas of where to take my girlfriend for New Year's Eve!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is coming to Manchester (UK) to spend New Years with me. Were both staying in a hotel from 28th December - 5th January. I have things planned to do for the entire time she's here.. But I'm struggling to think of what to do and where to take her for News Years ... (219 words)

I can't see a future for us while her weed-smoking, unemployed brother is living here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive moved into my girlfriends home 6 months ago knowing the fact that her brother lives with her. We both have good jobs and money is not an issue but her 33 yr old brother (thats been living with her for the last 5yrs) doesnt work and hasnt since moving in with her. He doesnt ... (123 words)

What could have caused my former friend to change toward me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a woman in her late 20's. I have an acquaintance (ex-friend)who i have known for a while. For most of the time i have known him, he has been avoiding me and not allowing me to be apart of our group activities. Although is is very much older than me and is married, we all ... (374 words)

Internet cheating -- harder to get caught, addictive, what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age - I am suprised to read so much lately about internet date sites being used to cheat on partners. I am interested to know what goes through the mind of the one using the site and the opinions of those who have caught their partner doing it. Does anyone here have any experience of ... (108 words)

It hard to tell what his motives are

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy in my Law class, but he's friendly with a lot of girls and it's difficult to tell if he feels for me properly. He has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, hugs and flirts a little with them (he does this with both sexes actually, but he's definately straight.) ... (358 words)

I'm in love with my ex and we're both re-married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age - I love with my Ex, and both of us are remarried!! Okay, here it goes. We were married for 28 years, and have two beautiful daughters. My wife could no longer handle the kids, and had an affair which let to our divorce. We both got remarried, she married the *** s... (212 words)

Why did he throw everything away by cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been a few days since my bf of three years confessed that he cheated on me. I still find it extremely difficult to get through my day, I hardly eat and if it wasn't for my prescription sleeping pills I probably wouldn't get any sleep. It is obvious I am extremely hurt. I ... (242 words)

How to motivate myself to stay in school?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high-school, grade 10. I am supposed to be in Grade 11, but I dropped out of school when I was in grade 8, so I had to re-do it over. I had 3 morning classes, but dropped out of them. So, I lost 3 easy credits. I don't know what I'm going to do? I don't want to be a ... (87 words)

Chatting is fine, but I freeze when they suggest we meet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted a question a while back wondering if I was gay or just having a little fetish but now I believe i am bisexual and I am attracted to men. In light if this I decided to join a dating website to try and find a boyfriend or just a a friend that was also in the same boa... (168 words)

My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he has these responsibilities, but ... (473 words)

How do I get my children back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have two son ,but both are leave with my father in law and my husband was death .my sons are scered to come with me beacuase my mother in law is learning wrong .now i want back my children so what can i do ? please give me an answer thanks ... (68 words)

How did this backfire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t understand how one guy, basically a stranger can make me feel so terrible about myself. A guy who complimented me more than any guy, so why am I doing this to myself! I met this very, very good looking guy one night, he went on about how amazing my figure was, how ... (254 words)

I'm not sure I like him staying with his 'mates' who has a sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been with my bf 3 months now and i reeeeeli like him were quite close and passionate wen we see eachother! he's the type of guy thats almost too good to be true! he is really busy with uni work so we hardly see eachother maybe 1ce a week if were lucky! but we ALWAYS ... (213 words)

My wife shared a hotel room with a male colleague!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it ever OK for a married woman to spend the night in a hotel room with another man? My wife has been working at this new job for 2 years. The company scheduled an out of town trip for seminars which will help her get a promotion that she is in very good position to get.... (542 words)

Boyfriend in Jail. Not sure how to cope or to help him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help please. . . So my boyfriend and I were in a car wreck on monday we are both okay for the most part the car insurance covers both of our medical bills and there is full coverage on the vehicle well after the accident we were taken to a tow yard with the car while waiting ... (167 words)

We have not spoken for over a week and its his birthday tomorrow. What to do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need this advice before the end of today. Me and my boyfriend had a disagreement and we have not spoken for a week and three days. Even though he was at fault I was willing to forgive him so I called him last Thursday but no response. I did leave a message and sounded calm so ... (184 words)

I don't seem to be part of my boyfriends future plans. I love him what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - In a text spat last night, my boyfriend hurt my feelings and actually "dismissed" me from further contact that night. We have had serious discussions recently about our future together. After ALL we have been through and ALL I have supported him through, his vision for the ... (381 words)

Not Optimistic about Dates but any Thoughts??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started going out on dates with an old friend. We've known each other 5 years but things never moved on before now. He pursued me asked me out to a party and we had a great time. He wrote the next day to say thanks and asked me out again the next day for that weekend The ne... (227 words)

My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please help we have been together 5 ... (71 words)

Need help dealing with jealousy and insecurity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some advice on how not to get jealous and insecure when girls compliment/flirt with my bf, please! We've been together 1.5 yrs, and are really happy together. He's asked me to move in with him, and has mentioned marriage and a family in the future, which came as a ... (545 words)

My date is dating someone else! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I met a girl online and struck up a conenction over a few weeks we corresponded one way or another everyday if more than anything she seemed keener so much so she was curious as to how many other people I was chatting with and teasing me about it etc.. etc..Anywa... (638 words)

My Best Friend Acting Up. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I sort of like this girl who happens to be my best friend, a week back we had an argument and clash of opinions and i felt she was treating me equal to other people even though I am her best friend, she did not speak to me after that. She and 3 other common friends of ours are ... (368 words)

I feel like I am losing her and don't know what to do. Please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm in need of help, I feel my relationship is in serious trouble. Okay so basically I've been with this girl for a year and a bit now and well to be quite honest it's been the best year of my life. We met PURELY out of chance and she is the definition of "p... (650 words)

Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and so was she.i did get horny but we d... (242 words)

Why am I feeling such a strong sense of loss if I didn't even plan to have a baby and I know I wasn't ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 21 and found out i was pregnant on Saturday, both me and my bf were not ready for a baby and it wasn't planned but we accepted it. On Monday I miscarried, it was only 3 - 4 weeks. Since then I haven't stopped crying, im not sleeping well and I dont have appetite... (99 words)

Should I consider Saving a Long-distance Relationship or Should I let it Sink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has recently brought up to me that the distance is tearing her apart, and she doesn't know what to do anymore. She talked about upcoming semesters and how much longer it will be until we see one another again. I asked her if she still loved and cared about me, and ... (186 words)

Curious about oral sex or just being silly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a silly question. Well I am a girl and openly bisexual but not sexually active and my friend is bi-curious or whatever and lately she keeps bringing up sex with me. Talking about how she wants me to perform oral on her and have dreams about her. Its al... (118 words)

Married 5 years now. Is this relationship still intact? Worth saving? He's coming home soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, i am so confused and sad. My husband has been outside the country for almost 3 months now. He rarely calls. When he does it is usually for short time. He is so jealous, if i tell him i hav gone out with lady friends, he calls and shouts at me, accusing me of cheating... (205 words)

Should I continue flirting with her even if I know we can't be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having problems reading this girl She was visiting my town for 4 weeks by some relatives. When we met we were attracted to each other the first week, we went on a moonlight walk and kissed. She doesn't own a phone but she used one of the relatives phone for the ... (623 words)

Confused after sex with a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I had sex with a friend of mine. He isn't my best friend, however, I feel like I can talk to him about anything. I also feel that he can talk to me about everything, as we can talk for hours. So the situation occurred after a night that I had been drinking. He had just ... (173 words)

What can I say to this 20 year old guy who is interested in me? I'm hesitant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this guy, he's 20 and am 31 i was just wondering why is he interested in me, when he can have anyone he wants? I am worried about the age difference when keep asking me out. i say sorry I'm too old for you and he says I'm not old. What do you think i should say? any... (66 words)

How can I trust him knowing he was sneaking around on some dating site?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs. Well just the other day I found out he signed up for a dating site. I know that it was somewhat recent because in his description it said has a kid and we have a 4 month old daughter together. Well I come to find he deactivated his ... (376 words)

How often do I take my girlfriend out? And where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I just got into a relationship with this amazing girl. She's funny, smart, nice, and beautiful, and we went on a first date, we held hands, went roller skating, it was nice, now this is my first gf, so I don't know what to much. My friends say that I should take her out once a ... (106 words)

They tolerate each other. And I should be able to choose between the two. But who can I choose and live with my decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship off and on for years with my ex. we could not seem to communicate effectively and I fell out of love with him long before I asked him to leave. only due to conveniences I lived with him. He kept a job and provided well for me. I just no long... (500 words)

People tell me that if I completely block him he'll come back, but I'm afraid to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, (puncuation may be off, but i'm getting to the point) about a month ago this amazing guy breaks up with me, i cheated on him 7 months before this happened, but, as a subconscious way of getting back at him for his cheating (no excuse though, it was wrong. perio... (280 words)

Good Friends..... into lovers despite her parents arranging a marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically, me and my best friend, who I met through a mutual friend, back in October 2010. (Mutual friend is not in contact with us anymore, moved country) We both wanted to be friends, and she is my type, and she is 20 and im 22. Me and her live 2hours apart, but w... (401 words)

Does her actions mean she doesn't think I'm a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this girl some time ago during a rough point in my life. Everything was great. She was independent, beautiful, sexy and sophisticated. Above all real. I don't know why but once she showed me that she liked me I stopped seeing her. I have thought about her from time to ... (122 words)

18 in love with a man 30 years older than me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided that because we had fallen in... (147 words)

Should I try to work out something to be where this girl said she'll be or just bide my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at a party the other week and we've been speaking for some time now. I asked her out for a drink to which she responded "yeah, sure if you go to mahiki next week you'll see me there". I'm unsure what to do, should I attempt to fix something up or bide my time a bit ... (89 words)

How do I tell if my boyfriend wants a long term relationship or just likes stability?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm not sure if my bf wants to be with me for me, or if it's just the idea of a longterm relationship and stability that he loves. How do I tell the difference? I've been with my bf 1.5 yrs, we live in the same town, see each other about 4 times per week. He talks ... (330 words)